When chasing the drama, everything seems to be predictable.
It's very obvious that we can know who the protagonist is at once, and we can find out how the story will end.
In film and television works, everyone's life follows a certain trajectory, there will not be too much deviation, in real life, what will happen tomorrow, we can never predict.
Tomorrow is always unknown, which is quite disturbing, but this is also the charm of life.
After all, if you foresee the ending in advance and understand what your life will be, everything will look very pale, and all your efforts will no longer seem so meaningful.
The unknown is worrying, and the unknown is a good thing, because everything is uncertain, so our future is possible.
However, we can expect goodness, but we still have to know how to resist risks.
As a woman, in order to go the way forward, you can go more smoothly, and you must have some ability, and you must not lose it.
Have real ability, can afford to support themselves.
In the hearts of some girls, a lifetime of relying on themselves to fight alone, that is too hard, all she wants, is at the right age, to find a good object, the other party is willing to support themselves, responsible for their own life.
In fact, if you can find such a person, the other party can also happen to be like this, just become a housewife, live a more relaxed life, then there is nothing wrong.
The point is that such a man may not be so easy to find, and such a day may not be so reliable.
Many men, he is actually not so bold, he can earn money to support the family by himself, but also let women live very well, even if a woman is lucky and finds such a man, he may not be able to be responsible for you for a lifetime.
His feelings for you may change at any time, and between you, it may also come to an end at any time.
Attaching your life to others is not so reliable after all, and your life cannot withstand any storms at all. No matter how old you are, you'd better give yourself the ability to make money independently.
When you are in your twenties, you should improve your abilities and let yourself have a skill.
Even after marriage, you can not make money for a period of time, but you must not stop keeping pace with the times, always let yourself make progress, you can enter the workplace again at any time, and have a good income.
Spiritually independent and can leave anyone.
In this life, when people continue to move forward, everyone is the same, and they will continue to lose some people.
Many women, losing relatives, losing friends, losing colleagues, she will not feel that there is much relationship, but for love, she has no way to bear the departure of the other party, only no matter what, she also wants to keep each other.
Maybe it's because of love and don't want the other party to leave themselves, maybe it's because their spirit is too independent, and they feel that it is very bad to lose each other.
As a result, because they are too eager to be loved, too eager to be alone with themselves, even if the other party does not care about themselves at all, is very bad for themselves, and often lets their lives fall into difficulties, they are still still very persistent, saying that they will not let go.
Seriously, women are materially independent, that's important, spiritual independence, that's actually even more so.
You must always understand that you are an independent individual, you can want to have love, but the premise must be that the other party respects you, loves you, and you are happier together.
That kind of love, you can rely on it, and if the other party is not a good person at all, you really don't have to say anything to keep each other, feel that without each other, you will have no way to live.
Don't think so seriously, no matter who you are with, you should learn to think independently, no matter who you leave, you should not give up on yourself, you should be able to accept it calmly, and in the years to come, you can still be responsible for yourself.
Self-healing, know how to always look forward.
Come to think of it, if you can, everyone will hope for their own life, and there can be no regrets.
But in reality, no matter who it is, along the way, it is not really so smooth.
Maybe in the past years, I accidentally missed some people, and I have always felt very regretful, maybe because of a decision, my life has changed a lot, and I can't let go.
Throughout their lives, there are really people who have been living in chagrin for many years, and they have always stopped moving. Needless to say, because some past has delayed your life, of course, this is not cost-effective, just silly.
Life can't always look back, otherwise, you will not go far, and there will be no good future at all.
In life, no matter what happens, what injuries you have suffered, you may as well look away, don't let yourself sink into this all the time, don't make excuses for the past, just find a way for a better tomorrow.
For all that has happened, all choose to accept, and then let their hearts return to peace, still full of vitality to move forward, to pursue what they want, but also let their own tomorrow, do not have so much regret and hatred.
It is true that people who truly live happily do not have more, but in their own good mentality, always able to stand up in injuries again and again, not discouraged, not complaining, and not giving up.
In a woman's life, you might as well learn to rely on yourself than always want who to be your reliance.
You don't have to borrow anyone's light, you can also illuminate the way forward by yourself.
When you always have this ability, your life will really be much smoother.
Just being alone, you'll be doing well and won't always seem so sad.
When you meet someone you love, when you rely on each other, it will also burst out of amazing energy, you will be a quality lover, and you will be more likely to have a very good relationship.
Then excellent you will also become a good example and cultivate a more sound child.
Not only that, but the years are long, and you will always feel very down-to-earth and rich in your heart.
Text/Tan Meng
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