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I am Ye Feifei yff, a non-famous emotional teacher, writing emotional texts that take the heart, hoping to use warm words to bring you some spiritual comfort.
An Yiru wrote in "If Life Is Only like the First Sight":
"Words are meeting the right person in the right place, looking up at the shock, and the heart blossoms in an instant, just like a woman under a peach tree, she does not expect to meet anything, but she bumps into love between her hands." 」
In this life, if all the feelings are as beautiful as when they first met, there will be no subsequent pain and regret.
Therefore, the first meeting, which is quite important for men and women, often determines whether they will have feelings for each other.
A lot of love starts from the first meeting, which is why so many people look forward to meeting love at first sight.
The feelings are as memorable as ever, and only then will they show their preciousness and value.
Whether the opposite sex will produce feelings, in fact, from the first meeting, there is an answer.
Two people have feelings of mutual admiration, they decide whether they will have further exchanges in the future, and with deeper interactions, the relationship will become more and more intimate.
Generally speaking, the first time the opposite sex meets, it often determines whether there will be feelings or not, don't believe it.
First, the first time to meet, mutual good feelings
The first time a man and a woman meet, if they have a good feeling for each other, this is the basis of emotional development.
If one party does not have a good feeling, the feelings will not be so easy to get, after all, unilateral payment, it is impossible to achieve love.
Therefore, the mutual good feelings between the opposite sex also determine that the relationship between each other will develop to a certain extent in the future.
For example, two people will be eager to add friends, leave contact information, or directly agree on the next meeting.
These are all natural things, because there is a good feeling, which will breed ambiguous feelings, and will urgently want to produce feelings.
We know that first impressions are very important, especially between the opposite sex.
When men and women meet, it may be just a glance, which is doomed to the future direction of feelings, and both parties will long for the arrival of love.
As we all know, Yang Dai and Qian Zhongshu are like this, and the love of the two people at first sight in Tsinghua Garden directly decided that the two parties would soon enter into marriage.
In the eyes of two people, the other is the lover who accompanies them all their lives, and they have a special feeling of closeness.
This is what people often say about meeting the right person, and because of this, there will be a series of subsequent exchanges, love, marriage, children, and a happy life.
Therefore, the first time we meet, if the opposite sex has a good feeling for each other, it basically determines that feelings will occur later.
Second, the first time we met, we hated to see each other
The first time the opposite sex meets, there is a more obvious feeling than mutual affection, that is, they see each other and hate each other late.
If both men and women have this feeling, they will inevitably breed ambiguous feelings, and naturally they will have feelings for each other.
Two people will be able to talk, have common topics, can achieve the same frequency in thought, and even pursue the same things, and really have a sense of soul tacit understanding.
If so, men and women will be eager to develop further, and the relationship will instantly become very intimate, although it is the first time to meet, but it does not affect the degree of intimacy of the two people.
Such men and women will either quickly establish a romantic relationship or develop into intimate girlfriend confidants.
In fact, when two people meet and hate each other, each other will be attracted to each other, and the idea of love in their hearts will be particularly strong.
At this time, the two parties have feelings, which may only take a few minutes.
For example, a colleague Miss Zhang, after she met a boy, they both had a feeling of seeing each other and hating each other.
That night, Miss Zhang and the boy chatted all night, feeling that there was always no end to the words, and both sides felt particularly trusting and reliable.
After that night, the two were in love, living together in less than a month, and the relationship developed particularly rapidly.
This is the affection generated by the first meeting between the opposite sex, and this kind of affection often determines the future development of feelings.
Third, the first time we met, I confessed because of my heart
The first time the opposite sex meets, if it is really particularly heartfelt, there is often a more direct way, that is, to make a bold confession.
Often, men are bolder and more aware of seizing opportunities than women, and they will directly show love once they meet a woman who is heartwarming.
In fact, the feelings of really emotional men and women cannot be hidden, and both sides are eager to communicate as soon as possible.
Therefore, love at first sight often comes very violently, and men and women cannot resist this sudden love.
Moreover, this kind of love, most of which is very romantic, is like meeting love around the corner, which is exciting and exciting.
Many couples, when they encounter such a warm love, will gladly accept it, no matter what happens in the future, both sides will cherish the present.
Wilde said: "Once you really need love, you will find that it is waiting for you." ”
This is true, when a person's heart is particularly eager for love, often can meet love.
The first time men and women meet, they have a feeling of heartbeat, indicating that two people have the basis for developing feelings. At this time, as long as one party takes the initiative, the other party will acquiesce.
In such a romance, both parties will feel very sweet, and falling in love is sooner or later.
On the contrary, if the opposite sex meets each other, there is no feeling, or even boredom, then it is difficult for two people to have feelings.
Generally speaking, the first meeting of the opposite sex has long determined the basis of the development of love, because both parties have a clear judgment.
If you don't like it, it has long been ruled out, and only when both sides are moved, there will be a later love affair.
Ye Feifei yff emotional message:
Tennyson said: "As long as men and women truly love each other, even if they do not become dependents in the end, they are still sweet." ”
When men and women meet for the first time, they have a feeling of heartbeat for each other, and most of them have the conditions for further interaction between the two sides.
Based on this condition, the future contact will become more and more intimate, and the sense of trust and dependence generated by both parties will be particularly strong.
When the relationship develops to a certain extent, both parties feel sweet and happy, and it is natural to fall in love.
Therefore, whether men and women will have feelings, from the first meeting, the result is doomed.
I hope that men and women in reality, after meeting the people who are moved by their hearts, will grasp the fate, truly love each other, and go to beautiful love together.
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Author: Ye Feifei yff, focus on the field of emotion creation and sharing, with emotions to communicate with you and my heart, but I hope you and I know each other here, like please pay attention to me.