In 2005, Lin Wei, who was born into a wealthy family, married Fang Bing, a poor boy in the countryside, despite her family's opposition, and in 13 years of marriage, Lin Wei gave birth to two sons and a daughter for Fang Bing, but after 13 years, the marriage between the two came to an abrupt end.
Lin Wei was born in Shaoyang City, Hunan Province, a wealthy family, parents are businessmen, Lin Wei grew up in a favorable environment, in 2005, a chance, just graduated from college Lin Wei met the rural boy Fang Bing who delivered goods in the wholesale market, when Fang Bing had just retired from the army, doing things sharply, agile hands, dark skin, strong body, angular facial features, Lin Wei felt that this should be the man he was looking for in this life.
In the winter of 2005, Lin Wei took Fang Bing home for the first time, but her parents were strongly opposed to the two being together, in the eyes of the old man, marriage is far from enough, life is after all a very practical chai rice oil and salt, at that time Fang Bing had nothing, in the face of her parents' opposition, Lin Wei, who has always shown a showy posture, chose to elope with Fang Bing, the two secretly ran from Hunan to Guangzhou to work, until two years later, when her parents saw Lin Wei again, she had already given birth to a daughter for Fang Bing.
Fang Bing is a stubborn man, many years later, whenever he thinks of the father-in-law and mother-in-law to their own difficulties, the heart always holds a breath, he thinks that the father-in-law and mother-in-law can not look at themselves, the main reason is that they are poor boys who came out of the countryside, no money, no culture, more no background, in order to prove that Lin Wei chose to be right, Fang Bing decided to do a big cause, practice proved that he did it, more than ten years later, Fang Bing was repeatedly rated by the local government as a pacesetter in entrepreneurship, a leader in getting rich, and his value was once as high as tens of millions, However, at the same time as the career was successful, the marriage between Fang Bing and Lin Wei came to an end.
In 2007, Lin Wei and Fang Bing returned to Shaoyang's home from Guangzhou with their children, in the face of raw rice cooked mature rice, Lin Wei's parents could only choose to accept the son-in-law, and made up the marriage for the two, at the wedding, Fang Bing vowed to let Lin Wei and the child live a good life, because this is a man's responsibility.
Soon after the marriage, Fang Bing took Lin Wei and the child back to his hometown in Xiangxi, although it is a poor mountain, but the scenery is beautiful, in the spring of 2008, Fang Bing and his father contracted a barren mountain with an area of 3,000 acres on the back hill of his hometown, and began to cultivate yellow fir, Fang Bing was full of enthusiasm and hope for his career, and also made plans for the future, he decided to build the entire barren mountain into a famous local eco-tourism resort.
However, the ideal is very full, the reality is very bone, when the beginning of the business, the husband and wife can only nest in the shack, facing the dark night on the barren mountain, and mosquitoes as big as bull's eye, Lin Wei simply can not live such a life, plus the young children need to be taken care of, less than a year, Lin Wei with the child from Xiangxi back to her mother's family Shaoyang.
Entrepreneurship is not an easy thing, after the wife left, these years Fang Bing can only run back and forth from the mountain city, the hardships of which only he knows, in the blink of an eye 13 years have passed, Fang Bing's barren mountains have become oases, up the mountain has built a piece of resort hotels and farms, eco-tourism resort areas have begun to take shape, tourists are endless, Fang Bing has also been rated by the local government as an excellent entrepreneurial pioneer for many times, in the face of all these achievements, looking back at the various grievances and pressures endured over the years, Fang Bing tearful eyes. The person he wants to share the joy of success with himself is his wife Lin Wei.
For the divorce of Fang Bing and Lin Wei, the father Fang Weiguo has always been on the side of the daughter-in-law, he always believes that the husband and wife ended the thirteen-year marriage, the main reason is that Fang Bing began to become six relatives after he had money, in Fang Weiguo's view, when the daughter-in-law married from a prosperous metropolis to a poor family in the countryside of western Hunan Province, this originally required great courage, but after the son developed, he cheated on other women, kicked away the daughter-in-law who gave birth to children for the Fang family, and the son's behavior was not as good as the beast. For this reason, father and son often quarreled in the villa.
Fang Weiguo recalled that when his daughter-in-law and Fang Bing first came to their home from Shaoyang, facing several dilapidated houses, going out to the toilet at night, seeing the rats would be frightened and screaming, but even so, Lin Wei did not flinch over the years, even if her parents and mother's family gave themselves great resistance, she still did not leave Fang Bing, and the culprit who led to the divorce between the two was a woman named Wu Yumin, in his opinion, Wu Yumin was a powerful character who would seize a man's heart. Fang Weiguo said that in order to be with Wu Yumin, Fang Bing even bought a house for her in the city behind her back a few years ago.
Wu Yumin is a chef in the villa, in 2010, just when Fang Bing's career was at its lowest point, Wu Yumin came to his side, when Fang Bing's barren mountain was in the stage of attacking the stronghold, Fang Bing recalled that in 2010, his mountain villa had just started, in the face of the process of turning the barren mountain into an oasis, the bank's millions of loans smashed into it but there was no benefit, the family including his father began to complain about him, and even some relatives who had entered the stock came to the door to force the debt to withdraw the shares, saw that their career was about to become a bubble, and there were millions of foreign debts. His wife, Lin Wei, also often complained about Fang Bing's impracticality, and the two quarreled many times because of this matter.
When Fang Bing's career was at a low point and isolated and helpless, Wu Yumin came to his side, Fang Bing said, it is precisely because of Wu Yumin's arrival, every day around to encourage himself, and finally let him slowly come out of the trough period, Fang Bing said that in fact, he very much hopes that whether poor or rich, the person who accompanies him will always be his wife Lin Wei.
Fang Bing said that Wu Yumin is not a well-bred and well-behaved lady in the city, in the face of the poisonous snake beasts in the deep mountains and old forests, she still has no fear to insist on staying, before that, Wu Yumin and the old open hotel lost 200,000 yuan, and soon after her husband also left her, Wu Yumin alone carried 200,000 foreign debts, with three children came to the villa, when Fang Bing's villa had just begun to be built, there was only a small inn, there were no guests willing to come to eat and consume on weekdays, Wu Yumin did a good job, it was precisely because of her arrival, Slowly the whole estate came alive.
In Fang Bing's heart, Wu Yumin is a simple and unpretentious woman, daring to face difficulties and take responsibility directly, perhaps because both of them have encountered the situation of rebellion and separation, Fang Bing said that he and Wu Yumin slowly developed feelings in the work, and these years have grown up with the mountain villa, and the two have fought side by side in their careers and advanced and retreated together.
Today's Fang Bing and Lin Wei are already strangers, in the face of the criticism of neighbors and villagers around, Fang Bing is fearless, he once said to outsiders that his professionalism is very strong, and the failure of Lin Wei's marriage, the main responsibility lies in himself, in the marriage family and career, he can only choose a career, remembering the oath at the wedding that year, he did not expect that after the success of the career, he lost his original intention.
It is said that in marriage, women are responsible for beauty, men are responsible for making money, but as a man, in the face of failure and pressure, many times also need the understanding and support of the wife, if the wife can not do this, only know to blindly ask, divorce may only be a matter of time, do you say yes.