When it comes to confinement, many mothers want to complain, during the 30-day month, they should have recuperated their bodies, but every time they heard these words, the anger in their chests spewed out like a volcano.
@ Strawberry Bubble Beard: On the sixth day after the baby was born, he suddenly cried a lot and couldn't coax it. When I was so anxious that I didn't know what to do, my husband just came back from work, saw him come back, his heart was happy, I thought he would help coax the child together, who knew that he came to say: "Do you have milk in the end, the baby is hungry like this, if not, hurry up and buy milk powder!"
@Koala: On the 16th day of confinement, every day is arranged to be full of all kinds of soup, if you don't drink, they always have a word to tell you, you have to drink more fish soup! Pork rib soup! chicken soup! Otherwise there is no milk, and the milk has no nutrition. You see our baby is thin like this, that is, you don't drink soup, these drink down, wrap you to raise the baby white and fat.
@ Marshmallow y: The baby is crying, is it hungry, is it not your mother bullying you, not letting you eat.
Is it really the reason why the baby's milk is not enough to eat? This pot mother can not carry, because this is the normal situation of the baby's rapid growth.
We all know that there are two growth peaks in life. The first is the infant period, the smaller the baby, the faster the growth rate, at this time in order to meet the needs of growth, the baby will be hungry very quickly, the mother only needs to feed the baby normally, because the milk will be automatically adjusted according to the baby's needs, there is no need to add additional formula.
@ Qian and Qianxun: Children are cold, wear more, children do not have June days. The 28-degree weather told me to wear more clothes for my children, and as soon as I heard this sentence, I was particularly angry.
@Meowth: Don't take a bath and wash your hair, otherwise you will be old and fall ill, but don't regret it. Just after the first week of giving birth to the baby, especially sweaty, slimy, as soon as he said to take a bath, the whole family went into a state of alert, dead or alive refused to let me wash.
@Li Shan: Oh, it's a boy again, I have to prepare two houses, three children have a daughter, I am in confinement, I began to give birth, it is almost rolling my eyes, is having a child as simple as buying cabbage?
@IF: How come you don't know anything? It is not good to hold a child, nor will it be fed! Back in those days, we all worked until we gave birth, and the fifth elder or I delivered the baby myself, waiting for the birth of a good midwife to come. Every time my mother-in-law disliked me, she would always show off her past achievements, and as soon as she opened her mouth, her good mood was ruined by her all day.
@Picture: Do not turn on the air conditioner, otherwise you will get the air conditioner disease. The baby was born in July, very hot, want to turn on the air conditioning, the result of the whole family did not have a person to agree, resulting in me and the baby are full of prickly heat, very uncomfortable, especially to see the husband run to another room to blow air conditioning, angry want to divorce.
Here secretly tell everyone that during the confinement period, if it is really summer, you can blow the air conditioner, pay attention not to blow directly to the mother and baby, you can also take a bath.
Women during confinement, due to changes in various hormones in the body, emotions are more sensitive, it is easy to be affected by the outside world, and a little bit of discomfort will feel sad, which is also a normal reaction.
In the face of all kinds of words that we don't want to hear, we must learn to control our emotions, and try to learn to divert our attention and choose something we like, so that it is conducive to postpartum recovery.
All kinds of complaints about confinement have become the daily life of all the mothers, but we must know that after all, the environment in which the elders live is different from ours, and they have suffered in the past, afraid that you will repeat the same mistakes, and the goodwill in this must be understood.
You should also know that while understanding them, you don't have to do them all, because some of the old habits here are not suitable for confinement, nor is it conducive to the recovery of the body. We must use scientific knowledge to confinement, maintain an optimistic mood, and stay away from postpartum depression.