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Backstage received a private message from a male fan friend asking me that I like a woman and want to pursue each other, basically every day I will take the initiative to send messages to each other, asking her "What are you doing?" Although the other party has replied to herself, but always feel that she has been lukewarm to herself, is she not liked herself, not interested in herself?
Seriously, in the process of heterosexual communication, when a man likes a woman and wants to pursue others, he will often take the initiative to chat with each other, which is a very common thing in real life. However, don't forget that when the opposite sex gets along, two people chat together, and what kind of content they talk about, in fact, they are very skilled. It's not that you take the initiative to chat with each other every day, and often chat with each other, you can make the other party like yourself, you can capture the heart of the ta, so that you can naturally chase the ta.
Only people who really understand the chat skills and know how to chat with people can attract each other's attention and gain each other's favor, but you still have to remember that learning some chat skills is not to ask you to change yourself in order to please each other, or flatter each other, against my own will, and deviate from my original intentions, but to make the two of you get along more happily and communicate more with each other.
Especially in the relationship, the relationship and interaction between the opposite sex will pay more attention to some chat skills, not that you take the initiative to chat with each other every day, send many messages to each other, give each other a large paragraph of nonsense or useless news, people will like you because of this, so that you have a good feeling for this person, and even want to be with you.
There is no doubt that your way of doing that is not "love", but disturbing and harassing others. However, no matter how much we like a person in love, the initiative is also limited, a person loves or does not love, like or dislike, can not hide, but also can not deceive people, others can see, you can also see.
Sometimes, you will always feel in your heart that the person you like also likes yourself, because you like each other too much, so that you become blind to love. Even if the two of you can't often meet and date, even if the other party and yourself are not intimate lovers now, usually in daily life can only chat and talk through the mobile phone screen, you want to know whether the other party likes to like themselves, do you have a place in each other's hearts?
You can see how the other party usually chats with themselves, what kind of words they have said to themselves, as long as a message is enough to see whether a person likes or dislikes himself, whether he has any ideas about himself, and whether he will become his own person. In the process of heterosexual chat, when you send him "What are you doing?" ", after receiving these three words, you can directly delete the blackout.
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Is there something going on?
Maybe sometimes you want to talk to someone you like, but you don't know what the other party is doing, whether you have time to chat with yourself, so you will send a sentence "What are you doing?" "Give to the other person, but the other party doesn't like you, has no interest in you, and doesn't have any feelings."
And whenever the other party receives their own messages, the other party does not want to reply to you at all, but in polite and polite, or worried about not replying to your words, afraid that you will continue to find yourself, and have been talking endlessly, so they will reply to you with a sentence "Is there anything wrong?" ”
Imagine the more polite and distant "Is there anything wrong?" Is it very much like the feeling of a worker going to the boss's office to report on the work, the worker goes to the boss's office, knocks on the door and goes in, the boss will ask the worker a question" "Is there anything wrong?" ”
Because the boss is very busy, time is precious, there is no extra time and energy to spend on the body of the hitper, do not want to hit the worker after going in and has been staring at himself but did not say anything, but the boss wants to know what the hitper is looking for himself, whether there is anything, at the same time hinting at the hit worker, hoping that the hit worker has something to say quickly, make a quick decision, do not delay and waste their time.
To put it bluntly, for this person, you are not an important person, he does not like you, he does not have any heartbeat feelings for you, so the other party does not want to waste his precious time on you, is not willing to have too much communication and contact with you, is not loving you, does not want to communicate with you further.
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Busy
In fact, in love, like or dislike is a big difference, a person who likes himself, has self in his heart, and is interested in himself, is very fond of chatting with himself, whenever he asks the other party what he is doing, the other party will reply to you "did not do" or simply explain what he does again, anyway, he will show that he is not busy, he is very free for you, and he can chat with you.
And often the faster the other party replies to you, the more the other party cares about you, the more they want to chat with you, because the other party will feel that the faster they reply to you, the more you can talk, so most of the time you chat with the other party, the other party will quickly reply to you, and even reply to your message in seconds.
We still have to understand a truth, in today's society, everyone has their own life, but every time they think about each other, when they want to chat with each other, the other party is just busy, is it really so coincidental? You know that when a person does not like themselves, has no interest in themselves, and does not have any interest, then no matter when they talk to each other, the other party will reply to you "I am busy" or "busy".
Because ta doesn't love you, so they are busy with you, because ta doesn't care about you, so they don't want to talk to you too much, a person is busy, it can't be busy forever, to put it bluntly, that's the reason why they don't want to chat with you, they don't even want to reply to your messages, they don't want to spend any time on you, they don't bother to reply to your messages, there is no you in people's hearts, you don't have to deceive yourself anymore!
So if you encounter this situation and prove that you like the wrong person, then you must know how to let go, be nice to yourself, and don't always think that you can move the other party. Because the other party replies to their messages in this way, it shows that they really don't like themselves, so don't bother to waste their efforts, directly block the other party, don't contact again, and don't leave thoughts for yourself.
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Use your tube
If a person likes you, is interested in you, and is interested in you, then he will be very enthusiastic about you, every time you take the initiative to chat with him, he will be free for you, will not say to you "I am not available" or "use your management, or "what I am doing has nothing to do with you", and about himself, will be very willing to share with you, all tell you, let you know.
On the contrary, if a person does not like you, has no interest in you, and does not feel any interest in you, then he will definitely not treat you like this, will be very cold and alienated from you, not only will not take the initiative to chat with you, but also whenever you take the initiative to chat with each other, the other party will coldly say to you "use your management".
At this time, you should understand that the other party really does not like themselves, then no matter how much they like ta, how good they are to ta, and even if they pay more to ta, then ta will not respond to themselves, no matter how hard they try, they will always be unable to enter each other's lives.
Since the other party does not like themselves, the two of you can never be together, there will never be results, then you try to let go of each other, don't bother each other anymore, don't annoy each other anymore, it is better to put it down, say to him "I wish you happiness, and each of you is well", and then choose to break it.
Sanmao, a writer I like very much, once said: I can't hide like a person, even if I cover my mouth, I will still run out of my eyes.
All in all, in the process of intersex interaction, you want to know whether a person likes themselves or not, just talk to them.
After all, to tell the truth, if a person likes himself, has himself in his heart, and is interested in himself, he will be very enthusiastic about himself, and he will also be very much looking forward to chatting with himself, and whenever he receives his own information, he will immediately reply to himself, no matter how late he chats with him, he will continue to chat with himself, and will not take the initiative to end the chat with himself.
On the contrary, when a person who does not like himself, does not have himself in his heart, and has no interest in himself, he will be very cold and alienated from himself, and he will also ignore his love, and even when he takes the initiative to send a message to him, he will reply to himself for most of the day. If you want to talk to him all the time, want to enter his life, and want to further develop feelings with him, it is simply impossible.
In the end, like and dislike is very different, like a person, will want to get close to ta, want to have a certain understanding and understanding of ta, want to let the other party have a certain understanding and understanding of themselves, whenever they take the initiative to send messages to each other, the other party will not only reply to their own messages, but also ask themselves some things in turn.
And if you don't like a person, then you won't want to get close to him, you won't want to know and know him, you don't want to have a relationship with him, you don't want other people to keep talking about the gossip of the two of you, and you are afraid that others will misunderstand the relationship between the two of you and block your real peach blossom.
Therefore, every "you" who is reading the article remembers, if you are in the above situations, then no matter how much you like each other in your heart, how eager you are with each other, once the other party does not like yourself, the person you like in the other party's heart is not yourself, then don't chase it anymore, don't let yourself be hurt anymore.
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