Feeling this thing, it is really easy for the authorities to be confused.
When you like a person, his little kindness to you will be infinitely magnified by you;
And his badness to you will also be automatically filtered out by you.
Foolishly, I thought that this was a two-way rush between two people.
Dreams will wake up one day, and people who don't love you won't be with you at all.
So, no matter how much you like someone, be a sober and interesting person.
Chat with the opposite sex, receive the following 3 messages to stop talking, he is very disgusted with you.
Find me what to do
I once saw such a post on the Internet:
When asked 'is it' on WeChat, there are usually two kinds of replies"
Replying to 'I am' means 'I want to chat with you, and I have the desire to continue talking to you'.
And the reply to 'what are you looking for me', the implication is 'what are you doing'.
If you carefully taste these two sentences, you will find that the meaning of two different replies is really very different.
Text communication on WeChat, although you can't hear the tone of the other party's speech, you can't see the expression of the other party;"
But every sentence actually has a hidden tone and expressed feelings behind it.
People who also have a good feeling for you and like you must be happy inside when they receive your news.
He will reply to you gently and patiently, chat with him, and your heart will be full of joy.
On the contrary, if a person, he does not like you, then, your frequent initiative, for him is a kind of disturbance.
At first, his attitude towards you may just be a little cold, but the more you look for him, the more he will resent your news.
Will be very impatient to ask you 'what are you looking for me for?'
The attitude behind this sentence is indifference, impatience, and unwillingness to deal with your disgust.
You are passionate about him, but he is reluctant to deal with you.
Wishful thinking is fruitless, and no matter how much you give, it will only be you who will be hurt in the end.
You can't control it
Unrequited love sometimes really just a one-person thing.
You care about each other with kindness, but the other party thinks you are wordy;
You can't help but share your daily life with the other party, but the other party thinks you are very idle and bored;
You think about him, persuade him to drink less, eat on time, go to bed early, and he says you can't control it.
It doesn't mean that you have to let you do everything according to her wishes, just hope that you are all right, and then want to control you.
There is a saying that goes like this:
"To love someone does not want to be a spectator of his life, but to be a participant."
Deeply.
If you like you, you will take the initiative to care about you.
Share your daily routine with you, not because there is nothing to do, boring,
I just want you to be involved in your own life and know more about her.
But for your kindness, the other party not only does not appreciate it, but also feels that you can't control it.
At this time, stop fooling yourself, he really doesn't like you.
If he has made you think that he has a good feeling for you, at this time, you should be completely sober.
Love cannot be hidden; the same is true of not loving.
It's really torturous to like someone who doesn't like themselves.
Enthusiasm that does not receive a response should be stopped in moderation.
Don't want to talk to you
The Japanese writer Ishida Irieyoshi wrote a book called "Sixteen Years Old", which has a sentence that reads:
"Having someone who can chat with me is more important than watching TV and eating.
For example, today's weather is good, I said to him, the weather is good.
If it's cold, I'll ask him to add a dress. ”
Life, for the most part, is trivial, trivial.
Chatting with people you like and sharing are also some of the little things in life.
For example:
Today on the way to work, I saw a cute kitten.
Some interesting little things that came across while at work today.
These bits and pieces of trivia, in fact, there is no need to tell you, but I can't help but want to share with you.
I thought my initiative could be exchanged for your initiative.
But you don't seem to want to deal with me.
I asked you about your recent life and asked if there was anything funny in your life.
You coldly replied to me, 'Don't want to talk to you.'
My enthusiasm was instantly poured cold water by you.
I thought you were just in a bad mood, but after you said this a few times, I knew that you really didn't want to talk to me.
It's hard, but I have to accept that you don't like me.
If a person doesn't even want to talk to you more, it's useless to like it.
Love is not a one-man one-man show, but a double dance of two people.
Since he doesn't like you, forget it.
The world is so big, you will always meet someone who treats you sincerely.
Until then, please love yourself and take care of yourself.