Text: Cat's Eye
The happiness of marriage is not entirely based on eminent status and possessions, but on mutual respect. The essence of this happiness is humble and simple.
— Balzac
01
I have always felt that it is difficult for artists to have a beautiful and stable marriage, and behind the love and marriage that seems to be the envy of everyone is actually countless messes and dirty.
Wang Lihong, the king of the song world, has become a prince in the hearts of countless people with his excellent business ability, handsome appearance and high-quality educational background, and he has always appeared in the public eye with a gentle and elegant, introverted and clean image.
Especially after marriage, he often took photos with his wife and children, a good look of a good husband, such a king does not know how many people's dream prince, but it is such a handsome and gentle man who suddenly came to the news of the marriage change.
Wang Tianwang's own message was quite brief, and it seemed sincere enough at the time.
Therefore, after the public looks at it, in addition to some regrets, it is also common, after all, the marriage matter is normal to gather and leave, if it is separated and scattered because of personality and life trivialities, it is also reasonable, but what I never expected was that in the middle of the night, the wife of the king suddenly spoke.
It was really a stone that stirred up a thousand waves, and the man who claimed to have a simple and simple private life was slapped in the face.
Wang Lihong's wife, Li Lianglei, threw out heavy news two days after Wang spoke of dissolving the marriage, and the man turned out to have two faces like other artists.
Li Lianglei is Wang Lihong's wife, a mother of three children, and now forced to divorce a woman who has to show courage to face life.
She was originally a master's student at Columbia University, and the second generation of stars came from a good family, but it was because she fell in love with the affectionate and high-quality man, and the man sang the only thing that poured out his heart to her, which captured her heart, and the song was good and affectionate and introverted.
How attractive is that kind of man, and what woman can escape his attraction? Li Lianglei is no exception, and it is difficult to extricate herself from the deep roots of love, but who would have thought that everything she saw could be copied.
The man was more affectionate, he had a clean and restrained appearance in public, but in private he was unimaginably selfish and corrupt.
Maybe it was his unfair treatment of his wife, or maybe the accumulated meanness that his wife felt finally broke out after marriage, Li Lianglei posted a late-night article to strip the face of the King of Heaven.
He is selfish and unsentimental on the inside, affectionate and overflowing on the outside, but a bright image is full of unbearable, the king of heaven is high, loved by all, standing in the clouds, while his lover is humble to the dust.
No matter how much he paid, he could not exchange the heavenly king's single-minded treatment, and even the responsibility of taking care of each other was quite difficult to ask for, even if Li Lianglei did not describe herself in this marriage, her humility was also visible to the naked eye.
Eight years of birth and three children, her own high education after marriage is even more unexplained, and even she has publicly named her husband's surname, and at the same time, the marital property has long been publicized, this marriage is a love to the bone for her, and for the king seems to be an indispensable shield, he uses his wife to support people to set up privately but still do their own thing, for him there seems to be no concept of marriage.
02
Wang Lihong's concept of marriage must not be much different from most artists.
They are outstanding, they are talented, they are rich, they have many fans, they are like emperors on high, so how can they be bound by a woman? How could they possibly take on the responsibility of annoying and restraining nature in marriage?
Therefore, this is not a surprise, although it still seems to be Li Lianglei's one-sided words, but from the clues of the past, it is inseparable from ten.
So this marriage has long been foreshadowed, because their marriage has no respect at all.
In this marriage, Li Lianglei did not get equal respect, her step by step retreat, her bag tolerance, her complete dependence, let the man have no scruples, do not consider her, just like the anger in her long text, even if it is coming to an end, she does not allow her wife to speak out but does not defend her in the slightest.
Indeed, Wang Lihong's reputation is indeed much more important than that of li lianglei and other nameless people, so it should be better protected, so it should be allowed to bear more and bear more burdens, so it should be like an abandoned son who bears the pot and bears the pot after the marriage has broken down.
Why did you destroy him when you loved him so much?
Why ruined him? Shouldn't this answer be to ask himself, if he sits upright, who can ruin him? Who can ruin him if he has respect for the marriage? If he doesn't chill people again and again, who can ruin him?
Perhaps in their eyes, all the moth-fighting love is not worthy of their own attention, and all others are willing to give their own enjoyment as a matter of course, and may even feel that they are the benefactors of the other party, and their marriage is no less than the blessing of the emperor.
When love is humble, it will be disrespected, it will be ignored, it will be abandoned one day, not only the wife of the king, but also the feelings of other people, and the love of the moth to the fire is destined to be a sigh.
Handsome and charming, beautiful as a flower, amazingly rich, superior status, falling in love with them but out of balance, I am afraid that most people have paid a lot, but the marriage is unstable, and finally it is only a scar on the back of the end.
So grasp their marriage soberly, marriage is not better than love, mutual respect during the period is the basis of marriage, but the premise of respect is mutual reciprocity, and mutual reciprocity lies in their own indispensableness in each other's life.
The last so many examples have become after-dinner gossip, but after the small talk, they may be able to bring a warning to their marriage.
Once upon a time, the carriages and horses were far away, the letters were very slow, and there was only enough to love one person in a lifetime.
- "Once Upon a Time Slow"