The French philosopher Descartes said:
When a person is dominated by emotions, his actions have no autonomy and are subject to fate.
Once people fall into feelings, they are indeed very susceptible to the domination of feelings, and even lose their egos, so that they are willing to obey the dispatches of the other party, and if there is no self in a relationship, they will lose the soul of love, and the sovereignty of love will be completely handed over to the other party, but they have become the prey waiting for the other party to dominate, without the initiative and the right to choose.
Therefore, we need to have a cautious attitude towards feelings, feelings can only be generated on the basis of sufficient understanding, wishful thinking and initiative will only lose themselves, once they meet people, the disillusionment of feelings will inevitably be inevitable, and they will also suffer serious physical and mental damage.
The young and beautiful Ms. Liang indignantly approached the reporter, saying that she had been tested positive for HPV a week ago, claiming that if she did not take interventional treatment, it was very likely to develop cervical cancer, which made her afraid.
As for why she was infected with this disease, Ms. Liang said that she suspected that her ex-boyfriend Mr. Liu had infected her, because the ex-boyfriend had told her that his ex-wife had suffered from this disease, but now Ms. Liang was holding a checklist in her hand, Mr. Liu turned his face and did not admit it, asking Ms. Liang to identify whether it was the cause and effect of his infection to her, and could not say that there was no evidence, and the ex-boyfriend's statement made Ms. Liang feel extremely disgusted.
Ms. Liang said that a year ago, she came to a hair salon to do hair, when the ex-boyfriend Mr. Liu was the store manager, the other party took the initiative to add their own WeChat and often chatted with her, and then Mr. Liu asked her to have dinner together, after dinner, it was late, the two naturally had a relationship, since then, the two have established a relationship.
Mr. Liu told Ms. Liang that he had not formally gone through the divorce procedures with his ex-wife because of the custody of the child, and ms. Liang believed it to be true, thinking that Mr. Liu could be so frank as a good man, and she also made it clear that she fully accepted all of Mr. Liu's past.
However, when the two were only 5 months together, Ms. Liang found ambiguous information with other women on Mr. Liu's mobile phone, but the boyfriend denied it, and the two barely maintained a relationship between them in the quarrel, which was not long after, Ms. Liang found herself pregnant, and she told Mr. Liu the news for the first time.
As a result, the boyfriend Mr. Liu asked Ms. Liang to kill the child, because he was currently in heavy debt and could not afford to raise another child, and under Mr. Liu's ideological work, Ms. Liang finally agreed to go for an abortion.
When the woman was the most vulnerable after the abortion operation, Ms. Liang claimed that since she miscarried, Mr. Liu had disappeared, had not come to see herself for a day, did not even ask about her fever, and in helplessness, Ms. Liang told her sister what had happened to her sister.
Accompanied by her sister, she went to the hospital for further examination, which showed that Ms. Liang's uterine lining was thinner, affecting future pregnancies, and secondly, Ms. Liang's HPV showed positive, which meant that her risk of cervical cancer was greatly increased.
Not only that, Ms. Liang said that during her miscarriage, her boyfriend Mr. Liu also betrayed herself and had a relationship with other women, which made her intolerable, and she even almost cut her wrists for a while, for this reason, Ms. Liang called the police for help, and the police said that they would not intervene in the emotional dispute between the two after arriving at the scene, but Mr. Liu had to take Ms. Liang to the hospital for examination out of responsibility and obligation, and then determined the follow-up compensation plan according to the results of the examination.
Mr. Liu took Ms. Liang to the hospital for examination, the result takes 7 days to get it, but when it came to get the examination report, Mr. Liu was missing, Ms. Liang could not contact Mr. Liu in any way, emotionally excited, she took the fruit knife to the hair salon to find Mr. Liu to ask for advice, the two broke out into a fierce conflict, Mr. Liu pushed Ms. Liang, which directly led to six stitches in her thigh.
In order to solve the emotional dispute between the two, the reporter called Mr. Liu to verify the situation, Mr. Liu said on the phone that he was not sure whether the child that Ms. Liang beat was his flesh and bones, the two were just ordinary friends, not the so-called romantic relationship at all, at that time Ms. Liang had no money for miscarriage, he paid the abortion money out of pity, and the two actually did not have any special relationship.
As for ms. Liang's allegations of HPV positivity, Mr. Liu also denied it, and even suspected that Ms. Liang had transmitted this disease to him, and now, Mr. Liu threatened to make a fuss about how Ms. Liang was, he listened to the dignity, even if he wanted to go through the judicial process, he also accompanied him to the end, and finally, Mr. Liu also implied that Ms. Liang's relationship with the blind date was not clear, and he was likely to be splashed with dirty water.
Mr. Liu's counter-bite made Ms. Liang angry enough, she swore that she had never been with the blind date, all this was purely the ex-boyfriend Mr. Liu's excuse, Ms. Liang bluntly said that she regretted knowing Mr. Liu such a "scumbag", physically and mentally suffered huge trauma, her parents have been constantly calling her, she is very guilty and worried about this, and does not want to worry about her parents in her hometown, can only lament that she is not ladylike.
Ms. Liang was abandoned by her boyfriend, after the miscarriage was tested positive for HPV, physically suffered double damage, emotionally also suffered a heavy blow, thought to find love, the other party is a man who can rely on life, but the result was tragically toyed, Ms. Liang used her own personal experience to verify an answer: the other party is unreliable.
Judging from the final result, Mr. Liu concealed the fact that his ex-wife had HPV, played missing during the abortion of his girlfriend Ms. Liang, and even more, even maintained an improper relationship with other women during the abortion of his girlfriend, which obviously disregarded morality, and the love in his heart was obviously not Ms. Liang.
A man really loves a woman, maybe he will lie white in order to keep this relationship, but he will never lie maliciously for the purpose of not being known, and it is impossible not to consider the woman's physical and psychological feelings, and wantonly and indifferently ask the other party to miscarry, and even look for her without asking, all kinds of indications show that Ms. Liang's so-called boyfriend Mr. Liu is just a veteran who lingers in the love field, and its purpose is not for love, but for her own selfish desires.
To be fair, Mr. Liu's behavior is quite unreliable, which is also not too much to argue about, but in contrast, Ms. Liang, to this point of misery, although the other party does have a certain bad intention, but her own insanity and impulsiveness is also one of the important reasons for this situation.
Hooking up is to add contact information, invitation is to go to the appointment, a dinner to complete the process of other people's normal love for several months, such a fast-food love is not worth doubting? Doesn't such true love and fate seem too cheap and easy? It is difficult for people to see the shadow of love from beginning to end, and some are just the original desires of human nature.
If Ms. Liang can be more sober, more cautious and reserved, more vigilant about the other party's pursuit and initiative, or spend enough time with the other party to understand deeply, I believe that time will definitely let you know the real character of the other party, and will also allow yourself to completely avoid being hurt, but there is not so much in the world, and the bitter fruit brewed by yourself still needs to be swallowed.
Fate is doomed, but love needs to be identified and grasped by itself, Ms. Liang's tragedy is also a painful lesson, we need to polish our eyes, do not rush to hand over their feelings, some traps are actually easy to see, as long as we walk slowly, the road under our feet can go steadily.
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