The old man helps with the baby, but the children do not appreciate it
Xiaoxue is after 90, is the only daughter of the family, has been growing up in the love of her parents, and now has a child, Xiaoxue wants her parents to come and help bring the baby, after all, it is her own father and mother, always better than her mother-in-law and father-in-law. The old couple discussed it for a while and decided to help their daughter with the baby. Taking a baby is not an easy task, the old couple is busy from morning to night every day, and they also have to prepare meals for their daughter and son-in-law, which is particularly hard. One night, the baby accumulated food, the night has been crying, the old two take turns to take care of the baby, almost did not sleep much, the next morning got up late, did not make breakfast in time, Xiaoxue was very angry at the time, but also said that the old two were too lazy.
In daily life, Xiaoxue is also too much, always feel that they are very tired at work, after returning home from work, either watching TV or playing mobile phones, housework is not done at all, all let parents do. This kind of behavior of Xiao Xue is even more excessive than that of nibbling on the old man, and it is a manifestation of filial piety.
This kind of "new type of filial piety" after the 90s has become very common
Now the main force of childbearing is the post-90s, and even some post-90s have given birth to a second child, the post-90s have been a very rebellious generation, and now when they get married and have children, their attitude towards parents and children will be different. Even if you have a family now, you still want to get the help and care of your parents, and you will think that your parents should help you, and you are not only not grateful for your parents' help with your baby, but also feel that this is what your parents should do.
Another reason is that the current social competition is too fierce, the post-90s do not have much work experience, if you want to survive in this society, you must pay more efforts, so you have to ask parents to come and help take care of their children.
After returning home from work, you will feel very tired, but the post-90s generation is more selfish, just taking into account their own feelings, but not considering how tired the parents are to take care of their children, so it leads to the occurrence of this "new type of filial piety".
It is the love of the old man to help with the baby, and it is the duty not to help
Taking care of children is the responsibility of parents, supporting parents is the obligation of children, but the elderly do not have the responsibility and obligation to help their children with their children, and it does not matter if the children born to their children have the elderly.
If the elderly are willing to help with the baby, the children must be grateful, be kind to the elderly on weekdays, do not pick and choose, and help the elderly to share the pressure when resting, which is the right way. If the elderly are not willing to help with the baby, the children can not say anything, let alone blame the parents, after all, the elderly have been busy for most of their lives, and they need to rest well after retirement.
The old man helps to bring the baby, and the children should pay attention to these points
1. Communicate more with the elderly
The parenting concept of the two generations is not the same, everyone is not perfect, the elderly may make mistakes, children should communicate with the elderly more, and pay attention to their attitudes in the process of communication, only two generations can work together to take better care of the baby.
2, do not blame the elderly
The old man is older, the eyes are not good, the action is relatively slow, the meals made are not particularly delicious, the children should understand the old man, the old man to take care of the baby has been very hard, do not let the old man feel cold.
3. Have a grateful heart
No matter how the elderly take care of the baby, the children should be grateful to the elderly, usually better for the elderly, this is a manifestation of filial piety, the children are grateful, the elderly will be very happy, and the family atmosphere will become better.
In short, if the elderly can help with the baby, it is a very happy thing for the children, and those who have just given birth to children after 90 should be kind to their parents, and do not let this "new type of filial piety" continue to spread.
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