Everyone has their own way of life in this world, but some people are doomed to not be flattered by others, such people must be selfish and filial, and such people have no moral bottom line.
It's not fun to interact with such a person, he doesn't think about you, he doesn't care about your feelings, he just wants to be comfortable with himself, he just wants to satisfy his desires.
Such a person with you must not want to have a future with you, he just wants to satisfy his own pleasure in the moment, you are like his toy, and when he is tired of playing, he will abandon you.
People have three dislikes, no matter how much they like, remember
Don't love selfish people
Don't love the selfish, the selfish, the selfish, the only person in his heart, without you, his loneliness, his desire makes him want to find a girlfriend.
And he is not with you because he loves you, there is a big difference between the two, and the person who really loves you will want to live with you for a long time.
A selfish person who just treats you as an excessive person, a person who just wants to alleviate the loneliness at this time, and a person who does not have any love intentions says love to you, can such love be believed?
Does he really respect you for his future selfish desires to make you a toy-like person? Is it really good to live with someone like that? Is it the love life you want? Such a life is meaningless.
A person who truly loves you will not do this to you, his love for you, his feelings for you are false, they are just playthings for you to use as his pastimes, and it is shameful for people who do not respect you.
Do not love those who are not filial
Don't fall in love with unfilial people, parents bring themselves to this world, let themselves have the opportunity to appreciate the beautiful scenery of this world, and then under the hard work of parents, let themselves be able to fight for their own lives.
And how can a person who is not filial to even his own parents be qualified to make you believe in him? How can you trust him with your future and your family? To love a person, you must first love yourself, and your parents have given you the opportunity to love yourself, so how can someone who does not even love their parents love themselves.
How can someone you don't love yourself love? Passion is not the whole picture of love, love is each other sincerely love each other's whole, to tolerate and respect each other's all, so that it can be called love.
Amicis said, "A man is a despicable man no matter how prominent his position, no matter how famous he is." Despicable people don't know how to give you love.
Don't love people who like ambiguity
People who like ambiguity are not worthy of your love, people who like ambiguity do not treat you as lovers, you are just a spare tire for him, he is enjoying the pleasure of many relationships, and he does not really want to have the spark of love with you.
In his emotional world, love seems to be a cage, and love is free, and he will not go deep in love, but enjoy the feelings of love and non-love between men and women, which is meaningless, he himself is satisfied.
But it makes you not feel loved at all, he uses his rhetoric, uses his "love skills", leaves you by his side, hangs you but does not approach you, the so-called love in his mouth, only accepts false lies, is his heart, is his means to keep you from her.
Don't let yourself because of the little pleasure brought by ambiguous emotions, and lose yourself in the direction of really looking for love, don't let yourself fall in love with a person who is not worthy of your love, half-hearted people always learn not to respect your emotions.
Dostoevsky said, "It's terrible to give your body and mind to someone you don't even respect." He's not your love, he's your cage, and it will only hurt you deeply in the end.
If you want to find love, you must not go to these kinds of people, they can not bring you the love you want, but they will only hurt you.