After giving birth, everyone said to take good care of the children, they are so weak and small, they look harmless to humans and animals.
Children's destructive power, you really haven't learned? When the mother knows, the child's small body, the destructive power is really amazing, hurt the parents are too ordinary
A mother wrapped herself in gauze and cried about her experience of being hurt
In posting the video, the man said:
"I cut seven layers of your abdomen, but you made me a "one-eyed"! Scumbag, but I still love you."
Image from: Mother-in-law
Most people think that they are going to complain about their husbands, but they did not expect that she was talking about children.
She used her own personal experience to remind the mothers that when they get along with the baby, they must not only look after the baby, but also protect themselves.
It turned out that the baby woke up at six o'clock in the morning, and the baby sat on her head.
In the process of removing the baby, in order to maintain balance, the child accidentally put his finger into the eyes of the mother.
The family quickly took her to the hospital, and the doctor diagnosed that her black eyeball was scratched and her cornea was damaged, and she was medicated in the hospital and bandaged like the picture.
Fortunately, it is not very serious, 24 hours to change the cloth, if not infected, 48 hours is fine, if there is no good care, infection occurs, you know, this is glasses ah, it is serious ...
There are many parents who have been hurt by the baby
Before I thought that this kind of thing should not be much, although I have raised children, I know that the child's hands are eager to stop for a moment, and everywhere I cut and cut
I will also hit my mother, poke my ear holes, nostrils, and all the places where there are holes, I will poke enough, but I didn't expect this child, I directly poked my mother's eyes into this look, and this hand was also fierce.
But after reading the comments, I know that these are not a minority, and there are many bao moms who say that they are often scarred by the baby.
Children's destructive power is actually because of their growth and development
Parents know that in the process of their children's growth, they will experience many sensitive periods, for example, the children mentioned earlier like to poke holes, because the baby is experiencing a sensitive period of hands.
Babies begin to enter a sensitive period of hand at about six or seven months old, and each child is different and may continue until the age of 2.
During this sensitive period, babies especially like to use their hands to do some work, which in our eyes as adults is doing damage.
For example, if you pull out and tear out pieces of paper, no matter what you give him, he can break it for you. You can't stop him at all.
Because he is going through a sensitive period, it is all by his nature.
He likes to pick sockets, nostrils, scratch everything he sees, and likes to pull things.
Mom is the person closest to the baby, near the water tower platform first get the moon, of course, he likes to pick his mother's eyes, nose, mouth, ears.
In fact, the baby likes to scratch you and bully you, and there is another reason, maybe the child treats you in this way in order to attract your attention
If every time he does these actions, you have a big reaction, he feels that he has attracted your attention, and he likes to "bully" you often in the future
Therefore, mothers, we must learn to deal with the naughtiness of the child, pay attention not to be mistakenly injured by the baby, but also take care of their emotions, because the naughtiness of the baby may lead to depression of the mother.
How can I help my baby through this period?
Give your baby a toy that he can play with
Hand sensitivity is an important period for every baby, learn to use both hands, help your baby build a smart brain. When the baby goes from grasping with full hands, it develops to be able to use fingers. It's developing his brain.
Therefore, do not stop the child's exploration because of his naughtiness, and the mothers prepare toys suitable for the child to play with, so that you can exercise the baby's small hands.
Spend time with your baby efficiently
When your baby "bullies" you and grabs your attention, you have to reflect on yourself
Before the child is 3 years old, the child needs to establish a parent-child attachment relationship with you, and he needs the attention of the parents
So, moms, you have to react to your baby's behavior in time.
Guide your baby when he hits you
Please believe that the baby is interested in you, so don't be depressed because of this.
He doesn't know how to express love, so when you usually express your love for your baby, kiss more, smile, hug, he can gradually learn to express love.
Once the baby hits you, tell him with a serious expression that no.
Understand the motivations behind your child's movements and know that they don't express them. After that, we learn to guide him and correct the incorrect behavior, which is the most important thing.