Text: Xiao Ai
Parents with "bear children" in the family must have a headache, why is my child so inattentive? So how are "bear children" raised?
Every word and deed of a parent
As the saying goes: the dragon gives birth to the dragon, the phoenix gives birth to the phoenix, and the son of the mouse will punch holes. Although this is not a good thing to hear, it is not rough. What kind of parents raise what kind of children. The child's ability to imitate is very strong, and the words and deeds of the parents are watched by the child, which subtly affects them. Parents are the mirrors of children, and children are the shadows of parents. Therefore, the virtue of parents can be seen from the back of a bear child!
Parental indulgence and coddling
The younger the child, the weaker the concept of right and wrong, the initial behavior is all to satisfy the curiosity of the exploration, if the parents stop in time, and correct the wrong behavior, the child will be able to distinguish between right and wrong, know how to do it correctly. If the parents choose to indulge, the child does not know that this can not be done, and will continue to be wrong. The allusion of "loving mothers and many losers" is to provide us with the best teaching materials!
Inappropriate parental education
Many children have problems with their behavior, and once parents find out, they are accusing and scolding. Have parents ever thought that "countering violence with violence" can achieve the best results? Children often get better in such an education method and even "break the jar", completely destroying the child. The words are heavy, but very real.
"Bear children" are not born, no child wants to be a "bear child", it depends on whether our parents are careful in the process of taking children. We often say to our children: "One point of hard work, one point of harvest". The same is true for us parents, let us grow with our children!
Be a high-quality parent, achieve high-quality children!
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