"I fell into the river with your mother, who would you choose?" is a classic question. Choosing a mother may lose love, and choosing a girlfriend may lose family affection. So how to choose in the face of this age-old problem? When a strong mother does not approve of her son's girlfriend, where should the relationship go?
Mommy Boy's strange reason for breaking up
Yuanyuan is a very beautiful girl, slim and good-looking. She and Akai had known each other for three months and had been in a relationship. At first, the feelings were particularly sweet, and as the feelings warmed up, the two began to live together. But who knows that since Akai's mother moved in, everything has changed.
The little couple lived in a one-bedroom room, and on the day Akai's mother moved in, she slept on the sofa at first, but she slept until midnight and cried out for waist pain. For this reason, Yuanyuan gave up the bed to her, and Akai's mother and son slept on the bed, and Yuanyuan slept on the sofa.
Three people live in a one-bedroom apartment, which makes Yuanyuan feel very embarrassed. Not only that, since Akai's mother lived up, she always picked her nose and eyes, and even forced her son to break up with her.
What's even more excessive is that Akai's mother threw her round luggage out of the house and went on a tour with her son.
After Yuanyuan got off work, he found that his things were thrown outside and could not return home, so he angrily called his boyfriend, but the phone could not be connected.
The next day, through the circle of friends to see the boyfriend and his mother posting photos, only to know that they went on a trip.
It wasn't until her boyfriend returned from a trip that she blocked people at work and questioned her about kicking her out of the house. Akai said it was unclear why her mother was doing this, and the phone could not be connected because her mother confiscated the phone.
As for her mother forcing them to break up, Akai explained that it was because of a dream of her mother: "My mother had a dream that if we continued to be together, it would be bad for my body. My mom said it started out with a cold, but she went to the hospital until then. ”
This ridiculous reason for the boyfriend's breakup made Yuanyuan angry: "Are you in the hospital?" It's not a good time to stand here. ”
Akai said with a look of grievance: "I did not enter the hospital, but after my mother told me, I secretly went to the hospital to do a check-up, and after going to the hospital for an examination, I found that it was really the same as my mother said, and there was indeed a problem." ”
Only to see him take out a bunch of physical examination sheets, the results of which are: enlarged tonsils, refractive errors in the left and right eyes, sinus rhythm irregularities, high uric acid...
These test results are basically no big problem, which is very common for office workers today. But Akai just thinks her mother is right.
Although he did not want to break up, he did not want to rebel against his mother, and everything from childhood to adulthood was taken care of by his mother, including school and work. Akai thinks that the life arranged by his mother is very good for him, and his mother will not harm him.
Akai's remarks stunned everyone, this is a proper mother treasure man, never been himself, everything is the mother's decision.
The strong mother forced her son: I still want her
Round's personality is straightforward and a bit strong, and Akai fell in love with her at first sight. When he chased the circle, he exhausted all means, not only transformed into a takeaway delivery man, delivering love meals and love stickers every day, but even became a chauffeur, picking up the circle every day to commute to work. Akai's actions captured Yuanyuan's heart, and the two eventually came together.
Contents of the love sticker:
Without you is like hot dry noodles without tahini, tasteless, love your Kai
You are my sweet and sour pork ribs, I am your Dongpo meat
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Akai told his mother about his liking for Yuanyuan. Mom also liked her because she was in good shape, good looks, and had a big ass to have a son.
Now for the breakup, Yuanyuan disagrees and hopes to get back together with Akai. He made those touching moves when she talked to Akai about chasing him.
Unexpectedly, Akai suddenly told the truth of the matter: it turned out that these methods of chasing circles were taught by his mother, and when he chased the circle, he would send the content of the circle of friends and the chat information of the two to his mother, and then his mother would teach him how to do it. He even wrote a friend memo for him. Moreover, the WeChat content sent to Yuanyuan every day is sent to him by his mother, and he forwards it to Yuanyuan...
After listening to her boyfriend's words, Yuanyuan broke down and questioned her boyfriend about his mother sleeping in the same bed with him. At this time, Akai's mother suddenly appeared and scolded her loudly, aggressively and even insulted her for not having a face.
Akai's mother said domineeringly: "You sleep on the sofa, you don't sleep on the sofa who sleeps with hair, let you sleep on the sofa has given you a lot of face...
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In the face of his mother's domineering appearance, Akai did not say a word, standing on the sidelines and listening to his mother count down his girlfriend.
Why doesN't Akai's mother like Round Circle?
She said that she had liked her very much, but since living together, she found that the girl was too lazy, too sloppy, and did not clean up the house and did not do housework.
She threatened that such a girl was impossible, and she had already looked after a girl for her son in his hometown, which was very suitable for Akai.
Akai's mother said that the requirements for her daughter-in-law are very high, and the daughter-in-law she is looking for is more advanced than the nanny, and she must be able to go to the kitchen under the hall, and there is a hand inside and outside the house. And she explained that the dream was to lie to her son, just to get him to break up. He even told Yuanyuan that he had a lot of excellent men around him and wanted to introduce them to her.
Subsequently, Akai's mother said to her son: Don't want her mother, ask her not to want her mother.
In the face of this feeling, Akai finally chose his mother, he said that he really loves Yuanyuan, but his mother poured her life's energy and love into him, and he could not do without his mother, so he could only be sorry for Yuanyuan.
In the face of Akai's apology, Yuanyuan burst into tears and cried bitterly, she shouted, "I will not accept your apology", and then left angrily.
For this love, I think breaking up is the best solution and the best way for two people. Akai is a proper mother, he has a strong mother, and his life has been arranged by his mother. Studies and work are arranged by the mother, so the mother cannot let the mother choose the marriage of the son.
Akai's mother is very strong and controlling, Yuanyuan is also very strong, if you live in such a family, there will be more conflicts in the future, the focus is that the boyfriend has always been on the side of the mother. If you are looking for a ma bao man, it is the most terrible, and if you meet a ma bao man before marriage, you must quickly break up and stop the loss in time. Such a man is a giant baby who does not grow up, and in their minds, the mother is right, and the mother is everything.
Three characteristics of Ma Bao Nan:
1. "My mother said"
Everything will first put the mother on the lips, tell the mother everything, and have no opinion at all.
Second, over-intimacy with your mother
I always feel like a child, especially dependent on my mother, and my intimate behavior is very incredible to outsiders, but they think it is normal...
Third, the daughter-in-law can change, but the mother cannot
The daughter-in-law will always have it, and what the mother says is right, no matter how much the mother does too much, she will always stand by the side of the mother.
Do you have a mommy boy by your side? What do you think about the fact that the object is Ma Bao's man?
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