During the Spring Festival, the three aunts and six mothers-in-law gathered together, and it was inevitable to shush and ask various embarrassing questions during the party:
If you are in school, you will ask about study, if you are at work, you will ask when you can get married, if you have a boyfriend and girlfriend, you will ask when you can get married.
These "soul tortures" are really headaches and exhausting to deal with. But out of politeness, no matter how embarrassed you are, you have to bite the bullet and answer.
In order to escape the headaches of these three aunts and six mothers-in-law, some friends chose not to go home for the Spring Festival!
How to answer these questions tactfully, so that you are not so embarrassed and can satisfy your elders?
Have you found a partner?
This is a sending proposition! The key person asked sincerely, how to answer?
The most sensible thing is to say an ambiguous answer, such as understanding/communicating.
Boys' version: Men should focus on their careers, wait until they make a lot of money to buy a house, and they can't treat other girls badly.
Girls' version: No, they all say that women have to go to the hall and go down to the kitchen, and I'm not busy learning to cook.
Humorous version: There are too many suitors to choose well.
Belly Black Version: It's too hard for me to find someone like my mom (mom) (both complimenting my parents and skipping the subject).
When will you get married?
After asking if there is an object, there must be all kinds of persuasion if there is no object, and of course, if there is an object, it is to ask when to get married. However, there are also some people who know that people have no object and ask such embarrassing questions.
High Cold Version: Let it be! There is news that will definitely tell you (this is how celebrities generally react).
Normal version: Wait until you meet the right time and get married.
Humorous version: I'm so anxious to give me a big red envelope.
Literary version: Wait for my long hair and waist, can we talk about marriage again?
How much does it pay each month?
This is another very sharp and straightforward question, no wonder there are so many "fear of returning", because they are afraid to go home, afraid of being asked for salaries by relatives and friends, asking for gifts, and sending red envelopes.
When I was a child, as soon as I walked for the New Year, my relatives would ask, "How many points do you score in the exam?" "What is the number one in the class?" ...... At that time, I thought that these seven aunts and eight aunts were really nosy.
After working, the question of the seven aunts and eight aunts became: How much is the salary?
To be honest, it is not decent enough, if you compare your salary with whom, it will be easier to affect your mood.
I really don't know what to do, how to answer? It's actually not difficult.
For example, "Average, thank you for your concern." ”
Or "He who has enough to eat and drink Lasa himself is less than the top, and more than the bottom."
Or you can say, "This does not necessarily depend on the company's efficiency, we all have an annual salary." "This not only did not expose his salary figure, but also regained face for himself.
In the face of the above problems, you can also learn to start first. Send a wave of damage before the other party reacts:
"Auntie, I heard that your child took the college entrance examination this year, how did he go?"
"Uncle, how much is your pension a month?"
"The girl your son brought with him last time shopping is good, when will he get married?"
Friends and family care about you even if they have many embarrassing questions, so you also need to grasp a degree to fight back. Don't hurt your anger.
Finally, I wish you all a happy New Year.