Today's economic development in our country is very rapid, and the living standards of the people are gradually improving. However, our country's population today faces a serious problem, that is, the continuous reduction of the new population. The reason for this problem is that it is really difficult to get married now. Take the situation in urban areas, many young people are too demanding, and they are also very "picky" about marriage.
As for most rural areas where the people are simple, the requirements for marriage of the younger generation seem to be more realistic. Generally speaking, the woman's home not only requires a high dowry, but also requires that the man's family must have a car and a house. In the past two years, the marriage of wives in rural areas has been "upgraded again", and the requirements of the woman's family have become "2 throws 3 sides and 4 rounds", so what do these means? Let's take a closer look.
First, what is "2 fling 3 sides 4 rounds"
Let's first look at what is called "2 flinging 3 sides 4 rounds". From the literal analysis, the most intuitive is the 4 wheels, the so-called 4 wheels actually refers to the family transportation vehicle. In the current society, scooters have become a very common commodity, the city is basically a hand, as for the rural areas, the use of scooters is more extensive, so there will be such a requirement.
Let's look at what is "2 dumps", the so-called 2 dumps actually mean that the new parties should reasonably get rid of their relationship with their parents, at least they can't live together, which means that they must have their own independent property. In most rural areas, not many people can afford the excess property, so many newcomers will live with the man's parents, but it is also very inconvenient for the newcomers to live with their parents, so there will be such a requirement.
In this way, houses and cars are necessary conditions for marriage in rural areas, so what does the so-called "3 sides" mean? The concept of 3 sides is still relatively complicated, that is, the man is an only child, the man's parents are younger, and the new house after the two get married should rely on the street. So why is there such a requirement? In fact, the requirement that the man is an only child is undoubtedly for the sake of the man's parents to be able to treat the new person impartially, and there will be no comparison.
As for the new house after the two get married, it is more convenient to rely on the street, and the house is built on the street rather than in the corresponding remote place, whether it is living or working, it is more convenient for the newlyweds. The man's parents are younger is mainly for the sake of life considerations, the new person has just married, in fact, there are not many assets, or need to rely on parents to help, parents younger age can help longer.
Judging from the content of these requirements in the above article, it is actually based on the consideration of life, which is still reasonable. But the only unreasonable thing is that these requirements are one-way demands of the woman to the man, rather than a common demand for marriage. Therefore, many people will also think that this is not fair to the man, so it is worth noting that why this phenomenon occurs today?
Second, why this phenomenon occurs
In fact, the main reason for this phenomenon is that the proportion of men and women in rural areas is excessively imbalanced. According to the traditional rural concept, most people hope that their families are born boys, because boys can better help their families to engage in agricultural work, or go out to work to earn money and help their families solve their living problems. Under the long-standing traditional conception, there is no doubt that the proportion of men and women in rural areas is excessively imbalanced.
According to relevant market statistics, the current male population on the mainland accounts for 51.24 percentage points of the total number of people, which has indeed exceeded the total population of women. Of course, this is only a macro data, and in many rural areas, the ratio of men to women is more obvious. In the case of more men and fewer women, it will naturally act on social relations, so that women will have corresponding consciousness, and the requirements for men will naturally increase.
As for the second reason, it is influenced by the vicious social culture. With the development of the times, our society has become more open and the exchange of information has become more convenient. In order to better harvest leeks, many capitals will publish some vulgar cultural information on the media platform from time to time, and under the influence of this culture, young people's concept of marriage has become more realistic.
Third, it is very important to convey the correct concept of marriage
According to the relevant statistics in 2020, the number of marriage registrations in the mainland is as high as 8.14 million pairs, but only about 10 million pairs after the 90s, which shows that the number of marriages of the new generation of people in the mainland is actually declining. For the current development of our country, the smaller the number of marriages, the smaller the new population, which is a very unfavorable phenomenon. Of course, if you want to solve this phenomenon, it is natural to convey the correct concept of marriage relationship from the root.
In the marriage relationship, men and women are actually equal, and cannot be affected by the corresponding social ideas and bad culture, not only in rural areas, but also in cities. The families of both men and women must exchange equal resources for the construction of marriage relations, so that the newlyweds can obtain a more reasonable marriage relationship. Marriage itself is based on feelings and cannot be swayed by real conditions.
Therefore, in the follow-up development, our country should adjust the trend of social atmosphere from the aspects of culture and regulations, and convey the correct concept of marriage. In this way, we can promote the marriage rate of the new generation on the mainland, increase the number of new people, and ensure the balance of the mainland's economic development.
4. Summary
Judging from the content of the whole text, with the development of society, many women in rural areas today have put forward more requirements for men on the issue of marriage, but these requirements are based on the unequal relationship between men and women and should not be advocated. In the follow-up development, our country will also make corresponding adjustments in this regard, so as to ensure the stable operation of the mainland society and the balance of economic development.
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