If sister recently chased a drama, after watching a little regret.
Speaking of "Dear Child", how healing the title is, how "depressed" the plot is.
The cast of this drama is very strong.
Director Hu Kun is the script planner of "The Hidden Corner".
The protagonists Qin Hao, Ren Suxi, and Nie Yuan are all acting strengths.
From the posters and stills, you can see the same familiar texture as "The Hidden Corner".
As it turns out, its quality is indeed OK. Douban score 7.9, not low.
But the plot is really depressing, bringing together various elements of marriage and childbearing and parenthood.
Unmarried and childless and married and childbearing have to be autistic after watching it.
This pain is a family barrel
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Fang Yinuo (played by Ren Suxi) and Xiao Lu (played by Qin Hao) are in love with each other at university, from school uniform to wedding dress, and have a good relationship.
Fang Yinuo is a Chinese teacher with a stable career and a good reputation.
Xiao Lu started a business with his boss and is one of the top pillars of the company, and the money he earns is not small.
The couple also has a small but adequate two-bedroom apartment.
This state is the steady happiness that many people yearn for, but this calm is broken when the child arrives.
Prenatal anxiety
Reason tells Fang Yinuo that the changes in the body during pregnancy are experienced by all mothers and should accept it.
But looking in the mirror, seeing his huge belly, mottled stretch marks and pregnancy spots on his face, Fang Yinuo couldn't laugh at all.
In addition to psychological pressure, objective difficulties also make people suffer.
Because the pregnant belly is very large, Fang Yinuo can only lean on the sofa, rely on the cushion and fixed position to make himself sleep more comfortably.
All she expected at the time was that as long as the goods were unloaded, everything would be fine.
But Fang Yinuo obviously underestimated the impact of children on the family.
The arrival of a new life is not as simple as adding ding to increase the mouth, TA needs adults to give time, energy, money, sleep all free of charge.
Even production itself is a big hurdle.
Pain at birth
Because of the early launch, Fang Yinuo was the hospital he rushed from the classroom.
Xiao Lu came for a while and then received a call from the company to deal with the work, saying that it was ten minutes, and the result was one night.
Fang Yinuo died of pain in the delivery room.
Xiao Lu solved the work, but at home beer on the ball game, leisurely leisurely.
When Fang Yinuo pushed out the delivery room, Xiao Lu was still not there.
He is busy giving his mother Gao Caiping (Li Qinqin) the placenta of his daughter Hehe (Zheng Yingxian).
His mother felt that the placenta was a big supplement and had to be given to Xiao Lu and his brother to eat.
Postpartum sensitivity, mild depression
After unloading the goods, everything was not as easy as Fang Yinuo thought.
Her pelvic floor muscles did not recover and she was incontinent.
Xiao Lu showed a look of disgust on his face when he didn't know it.
Fang Yinuo saw everything in his eyes and remembered it in his heart.
She has a strong personality, and she has to rely on others for everything during the postpartum recovery period, which is difficult for Fang Yinuo to accept.
The slightest dislike of her husband, like a knife stuck in her heart, magnified the sharp side of her personality.
Not surprisingly, Fang Yinuo suffered from mild postpartum depression.
The whole person is obviously more sensitive and anxious, distrustful of the sister-in-law, and more critical.
Sister-in-law Yue took her daughter Hehe
Fang Yinuo secretly observed
The mother-in-law and mother-in-law bring the baby together, and the family conflicts are continuous
Later, Hehe fell ill, and his sister-in-law sneaked away under pressure.
Crescent Sister-in-law will not be able to come for a while and a half, and her mother-in-law has not yet retired, so Xiao Lu has to ask her mother to help.
Her old man believed more in empiricism, and what often hung on her lips was "If I don't want to take children, how did Xiao Lu and his brother grow up so big?" ”
As soon as he came, he brought the clothes that his sons wore when they were young, saying that he hoped that his granddaughter would wear a hundred clothes and eat a hundred meals.
This is completely inconsistent with Fang Yinuo's scientific concept of parenting.
The mother-in-law is a person and has a big unreliable heart, and she does not forget to smoke and play cards with her children.
Later, because he was addicted to playing mahjong, he was also caused by Hehe being dropped.
Fang Yinuo's mother couldn't see it, and she retired early to take the baby. The mother-in-law felt that she could not go back to the house in a gray way and insisted on staying together.
There is also an inattentive little uncle who comes to the door, the in-laws and mothers-in-law are crowded together, and the friction in the home is continuous.
It wasn't until Xiao Lu was tired of making sandwich biscuits and a big war broke out completely that it stopped.
Xiao Lu derailed and the family was broken
The contradictions between the in-laws and the mother-in-law's family have only come to an end, and there have been big problems between the husband and wife.
Hehe grew up slowly, and Xiao Lu socialized three times more than in previous years in order for his wife to have a better life.
The starting point is good, but it also lacks the most difficult period of growing up daughters and wives.
The estrangement between the couple is getting worse and worse.
A woman named Zhu Zhu (Zhu Yan Manzi) takes advantage of the void.
Zhu Zhu's mother is a big customer of Xiaolu Company, and the main contact person for cooperation between the two sides is Zhu Zhu.
She took advantage of Xiao Lu's drunkenness to take people home, had a one-night stand, and filmed the evidence.
At the child's first birthday banquet, Zhu Zhu opened up the matter in front of all his relatives and friends.
Fang Yinuo and his wife eventually divorced, and their daughter returned to Fang Yinuo.
They remarried, leukemia struck, and the storm re-emerged
When Hehe was 4 years old, Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu reorganized their families.
Fang Yinuo accepts Xie Tianhua (Nie Yuan), an old college classmate.
He and Xiao Lu are also classmates and old friends, and they know each other when they are in college that they like Fang Yinuo.
Xiao Lu and newspaper reporter Dong Fan (Xie Keyin) sweetly enter the marriage hall and plan to change to a new house.
The new life of the two sides came to an abrupt end after Hehe was diagnosed with leukemia.
Leukemia requires a suitably matched bone marrow for transplantation, and hospitalization for chemotherapy while waiting for the matching period.
All of this requires high fees, and if the waiting period is long, ruin is the norm.
Both families were on the run for the expense.
Even more desperate than the lack of money is that the immediate family members with the highest success rate of bone marrow matching have failed.
Friends who are close to each other are also not suitable.
It was hard to wait for the good news of the bone marrow bank, but the donor finally gave up because he wanted to get pregnant.
In desperation, Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu wanted to make a test tube baby and use TA's umbilical cord blood to save Hehe.
The impact of this decision on the new family can be imagined.
Just then, Fang Yinuo's examination results showed that her physical condition could not be test tubes.
They both thought again, to be true.
Just at this time, Fang Yinuo was found out to be pregnant with Xie Tianhua's child, and she was facing the struggle of whether to have this child.
Before she could make up her mind, she was on the phone behind the corridor door, someone pushed the door, Fang Yinuo fell and miscarried, and a new storm came.
In the end, the solution to the problem is only by coincidence.
Hehe eventually waited for the right fit. The donor is Su Jingwei (Yao Qiu), the boss who started a business with Xiao Lu mentioned earlier.
He likes the heroine's girlfriend Lei Wen (played by Huang Miyi), can't bear to see her worry about Fang Yinuo, and also went to do a matching test, which is just right.
In the end, hehe bone marrow transplantation was successful and grew up safely.
Real on earth or man-made dog blood?
Many people are not satisfied with this ending, not because the protagonist in the play is not good, but because it comes too hastily and coincidentally.
There are 34 episodes in this series, and until the 33rd episode, the protagonist group is almost shrouded in a cloud of pain.
Moreover, the concentration of pain is high and dense, and contradictions and storms follow, making people breathless.
Wait until the last episode, the surprise of the sky, the biggest contradiction is solved, only the TV series can be arranged in this way.
The reviews of the show are also polarized.
The pesky audience felt that it was selling anxiety and deliberately pandering to the public's fear of marriage and childbearing.
The audience who likes it thinks that it is real and has a sense of substitution.
As for anxious people, it is because they lack the courage to face the problem of marriage and childbearing.
If sister does not deny the authenticity of this drama, not only because its original film is a true story adaptation, but also because the drama itself dares to shoot.
In the past, many domestic dramas filmed pregnancy and childbirth, and the heroine vomited a few times on the camera to become pregnant.
The family greeted the good news with joy, and the child's father also held the heroine in a circle of excitement.
The male protagonist of "Full Warehouse into the City" learned that his wife was pregnant
Circle happily
Interspersed in the middle is the picture of the father listening to the fetal movements with the pregnant belly, and the last timeline is pulled on the day of delivery.
The heroine tore her heart and lungs in the delivery room and shouted for a few minutes, and the child was born.
Throughout the pregnancy, expectant parents are generally happy and happy, and the mother is quick to restore her slender figure after giving birth.
"Dear Child" truly shows the state of physical and mental torture of women when they are pregnant and childbearing.
The mother-in-law took her daughter out for a walk
Fang Yinuo, who was slightly depressed, held up a telescope to see if his mother-in-law was serious
For parenting, men have a negative attitude, behavior avoidance, and women bear the burden of physical and mental burdens and still have a detailed contrast in real life.
Coupled with the meticulous performances of Qin Hao, Ren Suxi and others, it is very impressive.
But even if it's so true, it can't be denied that the screenwriter deliberately created contradictions to promote the development of the plot.
In order to make Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu divorce naturally, the first 9 episodes gathered all the unhappiness of Fang Yinuo's marriage family.
It's not that there's anything wrong with these unhappiness, but the continuous density is too high, and it feels like "having a child will continue to be unlucky."
Hehe is the most difficult kind of newborn, loves to cry, is easy to wake up, and has no end to major illnesses and disasters.
From birth to the age of one, she almost cried whenever she appeared on camera.
Even with a vaccination, the situation will be chaotic.
Mom just got up late and had to hurry up or be late for work.
Dad washed a bottle clumsily, Mom was already anxious, and it was more tiring to see that he couldn't do anything.
The night of the fever, it was raining heavily.
Xiao Lu happened to be absent, and he was forced to have a one-night stand.
Fang Yinuo wanted to stop the car to go to the hospital, but he would definitely be intercepted by others halfway.
Grandma happened to fall in the rain holding Hehe, and her sprained foot could not stand up.
Xiao Lu's derailment of Zhu Zhu is also full of coincidences.
Zhu Zhu is the party A of Xiao Lu.
So many people in the company accompanied her to socialize, Xiao Lu drank until he was unconscious, and actually let Zhu Zhu, who was party A, send him home alone, which had a probability of happening in real life was almost zero.
Zhu Zhu happened to be the ultimate mad critic again.
She was brought up by a single mother with a strong desire to control, and her father's love was missing.
Xiao Lu just gave her a lipstick and took her to eat a few roadside stalls, and she fell deeply into it.
Even if Xiao Lu wanted to cut off contact with her, Zhu Zhu was not willing to give up.
Xiao Lu's mother was unreliable in the first half, but Xiao Lu divorced Fang Yinuo, and she immediately became reasonable and very considerate.
The unreliability was to make the gap between Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu bigger and bigger.
Thoughtfulness is to use her mouth to tell Fang Yinuo's injuries, and ultimately to break up Xiao and Fang's family.
It is precisely because of the extremeness of this plot and the fragmentation of human design that the details of the series are real, but there is no shortage of bugs as a whole.
The audience criticizes it for selling anxiety.
It is not that people do not accept the issue of marriage and childbearing to be discussed, but it is deliberately stacked together at a high density of various issues, conflict for the sake of conflict, and dog blood for the sake of dog blood is not necessary.
Hot topics stitched together
The protagonist's aura flashes blind
It can only be said that the audience's eyes are snow bright.
Although "Dear Child" filmed a real pregnant woman and ripped off the "fig leaf" of the modern family marriage and childbearing problem, it still failed to escape some routines of domestic family ethics dramas .
Shooting parents short, stitching together a variety of topics that are easy to cause controversy and resonance, I am afraid that it is not enough to catch horses.
In recent years, this kind of drama has been watched too much by everyone.
From "All Is Well" to "Thirty Only", from "Joe's Children" to "Heart House" to "Dear Child".
"All Is Good" brings together many sensitive topics such as son preference, children's education, employment, old ageing, support, and buying a house, resulting in fierce contradictions and collisions.
"Thirty Only", said to be an independent woman, in essence, it is still about cheating, small three, marriage, divorce, can not get rid of the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, urge marriage to promote...
"Children of the Qiao Family" was promoted to witness the changes of the times from the Chinese family, but it was filmed as "The Five Unlucky Eggs of the Qiao Family".
The marriage of the five children, each chicken flying dog jumping.
Qiao Yicheng is inferior and still in love with the brain, Qiao Erqiang is green by his wife, and he also likes a wife with a husband.
Qiao Erqiang confessed to his master who had a husband
Qiao Sanli has an "evil mother-in-law", and her husband also had an accident later, and her sex life cannot be harmonious.
Qiao Simei can always meet scumbags, and the female classmates who were killed when Qiao Qiqi went to school are pregnant and forced to marry before they reach the legal age of marriage.
Joe Qiqi killed his girlfriend and got pregnant
The woman's family came to the door
"Heart Residence" holds up the banner of Shanghai drifting into the local area, filming the mother-in-law war and the sister-in-law tearing each other up.
There are also problems of houses and children that young and middle-aged people can't avoid.
Gu Lei asked his sister to borrow money to buy a house
In addition to sensitive topics and dog blood elements, this kind of domestic drama is also criticized for the problem of the protagonist's aura flashing blindness.
In general, no matter how much suffering the protagonists encounter in the early stages, they will be resolved in the end.
"Dear Child", relying on the bone marrow that Hehe and Su Jingwei accidentally adapted, ushered in the consummation.
Hehe grew up
In "All Is Good", Su Mingyu hated the Son-oriented Su family for decades, Su Mingcheng was a short confession, and Su Daqiang's exercise book could make her let go of her hatred.
All the unbearable and inexhaustible memories that once made the screenwriter become worthless.
"Thirty Only", in order to highlight the inspiration of independent women, the protagonists counterattacked easily.
Let's say that Zhong Xiaoqin relied on her parents when she was a child and her husband for marriage.
Although he is 30 years old, his ability to live independently is quite poor.
After experiencing some emotional changes, he became a popular writer worth tens of millions of dollars on his own.
Feng Xiaoqin in "Heart Residence" dreams of having a house in Shanghai.
Therefore, she is good at calculation, eating and living by relying on her father-in-law, raising a baby depends on the senior executive's sister, and buying vegetables must be more smooth.
As a result, the couple was married for 8 years, with only 30,000 savings, and wanted to buy a house worth 3 million.
The down payment depends on borrowing the money of the eldest sister, and the mortgage is placed on the financial and accounting certificate that the husband has not been able to pass.
In short, I didn't think about relying on myself.
Feng Xiaoqin's husband Gu Lei took the financial and accounting certificate
After the widowhood, they became independent overnight.
The father-in-law does not pay any money for the grandson's tuition, and the money to buy vegetables will never take advantage of it.
Having been a housewife since she got married, she quickly found a job delivering food.
Finally, even successfully organized a nursing home.
The first half of the life pain collection, the second half of the cut (or the end) of the joy reversal of the big counterattack, is the "life problem solution" given by many Chinese dramas.
Such an arrangement may be able to promote your anger and unfairness, and may stimulate your sense of coolness, but there is basically no room for further reflection.
Suffering itself does not mean that there must be depth.
Depth is when we think about the process, we get experience from pain and learn to weigh.
It is fair to see that in the process of experiencing pain, there will also be joy and disappointment. Disappointment may not be worth it, but joy is worth it, what our hearts desire.
The self-understanding, self-reconciliation, and growth gained in suffering are also things that cannot be given by a happy, joyful, and uninsettled life.