It takes ten months of pregnancy for the mother to give birth to a cute baby. During this period, Bao Mom has to face many problems, such as morning sickness, out of shape, leakage of urine, etc., and the father-to-be is in pain, but he can't help much, and can only let his wife bear these pains alone. At the moment of the child's birth, the mother-to-be was officially promoted to mother. When everyone's attention is focused on the child, the father must not forget that there are many things you can do for the mother and the baby at this time, improve their happiness index, pay more attention to the new mother, and let his wife's body recover quickly.
So Bao Dad is basically the first time to be a father, busy and even a little confused, basic housework is usually not very good at handling, so in order to make his wife's body recover quickly, how should the husband take care of his wife? In fact, the father-to-be does not have to worry, you just need to remember these important things to do well.
First, let the mother rest more after giving birth, and you can take care of the child more. After all, having children is hard work. After giving birth, moms should have enough sleep and rest, which is key to recovery for new moms. Lack of rest can also lead to grumpiness in new moms. For the rest of the month, the father-to-be and his family will not only take good care of the children, but also minimize unnecessary interruptions. In this way, you can also cultivate feelings with the child, hug him more, make skin contact with him, and usually sing nursery rhymes and talk to the baby, and in the long run, the relationship between the baby and the father will become more and more close. Learning and playing with your baby can not only promote your baby's brain development, but also enhance the parent-child relationship. Bao Mom will also be in a good mood when she sees your intimate scene. (I was so beautiful at the time)
Second, arrange the division of labor among the family members after childbirth. For the division of tasks for family members, both the mother and the baby need to be taken care of, so the relatives on both sides will rush to take care of the child at this time. Fathers-to-be should use your ingenuity to make their tasks clear, and who will take care of the baby, who will take care of the new mother, who will wash the clothes, who will arrange three meals a day, etc. must have a plan. Only a reasonable division of labor will be easier to take care of. Otherwise, there will be internal contradictions, and the so-called most difficult relationship is the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and the most feared thing is that both parents are there. If you don't handle it well, Bao Mom will not only not be able to rest well, but also get angry. (I've seen too many of these things)
Third, do a good job of economic planning, so that Bao Mom does not worry about concerns. After the baby is born, the cost will increase a lot, raising a child is a bottomless pit, like the baby's milk powder, diapers, illness are a big expense, so after having a baby, dads can not spend money can not be extravagant, and to learn to manage money, do a good job of planning, for the future life to lay a good foundation. Don't let Bao Mom worry about not having money, let her worry. At this time, Bao Mama's heart is the most uncomfortable, she will feel that he owes the child, and the pressure of thinking is great.
Fourth, pay attention to the mood of the new mother. After work, accompany bao mom more, and tell her about anything new. Many women will be relatively depressed after giving birth, suffering from gains and losses. Especially when she sees everyone around the child, she will have a feeling of being ignored. (I always felt that he didn't care about me at that time) The father-to-be must care more about his wife's mood. You can tease the child with her, praise her about the difficulty of the day, give her some gifts, etc. are all good choices.
Taking care of the baby is not only the mother's obligation, but the responsibility of the family, so the fathers should do the above 4 things, in fact, many situations are from the small things, slowly they will also grope out a certain direction, taking care of the mother and the baby is not very difficult, as long as you are willing to spend time, do it with your heart I believe it will be done well. It will also create a good life for them.