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I once heard such a sentence, in fact, girls do not want to get married so much.
What are the benefits of getting married? You still have to continue working, you have to take on more housework, and if you are unlucky, you may encounter domestic violence, and when the time comes, you will not be able to beat him, you want to divorce, and there are a bunch of people who advise you to endure for the sake of your children.
For men, he may also feel that he has endured a lot, and he is not willing to work hard anymore, and even feels that a person is very good.
If you don't meet someone who really wants to get married, it's better to be alone.
Therefore, people nowadays do not want to get married more and more, prefer to live alone, and do not want to bear the pressure of marriage, more because of these reasons.
The cost of getting married is too high
For the current marriage, it is actually based on the economic foundation, and the marriage without material support will not last long and will not be happy.
Marriage must have a car and a house, two people have a home, if the marriage is still the same as before, there is no point.
A really good marriage should be better for two people together than for one person.
Marriage has to sacrifice so much, and may even be unsatisfactory, so many people will begin to question marriage, as if marriage is not so good.
Marriage requires a certain economic basis, for boys, at the most appropriate age, may not be able to exchange enough wealth.
And for girls, if you can't find a reliable destination, it's not interesting.
So, a lot of people break up because of money, afraid of living that miserable life.
Even others have their own, the heart will be unbalanced, after thinking about this, many people feel that the cost of marriage is too high, they are not willing to start.
Marriage is very good value for money
In the previous marriage, the division of labor was very clear, the male and female protagonists were inside, and they got along more harmoniously, and there was no excessive comparison.
And in today's marriage, women have too much to bear.
Boys have to earn money to support their families, and girls not only have to make money but also take on the family, take care of the family, and maintain relationships.
Maybe for girls, if they don't meet a man who is really worthy of love, they will feel unwilling.
For boys, if they earn money to support their families, the other party does not care about anything, which will also feel that marriage is meaningless.
The reason why boys get married is more to meet a woman who can take care of herself and take care of her family.
Girls want to meet a man who can share with each other and support each other, but the final result may be that the wind and rain are brought by each other.
So, more and more people, would rather be single and have a good life than two people consuming each other.
There is a lot of pressure after marriage
In fact, for marriage, two people have too much to bear. Boys will feel that they are tired of raising a family, and girls do not know how to understand.
Girls will feel that if boys don't ask, they will have to face more complicated relationships like if they are not married.
After marriage, it is not only a matter of two people, but also two families, and they also have to face various problems brought about by raising children.
When you are not married, you may be very free, and after you get married, you will not have your own time, and you have to accompany each other to cope.
It is important to sacrifice a lot of your own time for your child, not only to sacrifice time, but also to be wronged, the other party is not in the heart, like no one, this is the most terrible.
Therefore, marriage is not terrible, what is terrible is the triviality after marriage, I can't get what I want, my heart is unbalanced, and I am not willing, so I am struggling.
Not only is there financial pressure, but there is also a chicken feather in the field of life, which makes people more and more tired and less and less like to get married.
summary:
Regarding marriage, in fact, everyone's ideas are different, and everyone's requirements for marriage are different.
Some people crave that marriage can bring beauty, but the reality is often unsatisfactory.
If marriage doesn't make itself better, natural marriage has no meaning.
Getting married requires something to gain and be able to make people feel good, otherwise a person is also very good.