Every once in a while, I will clear the chat page, I don't know why, looking at the full chat interface, I always feel panicked.
Every time I clean up, I see messages sent for a long time from time to time, and some people haven't replied yet, to be honest, I care a lot.
You can not reply in time, but when you are busy, even if it is to reply to an expression, it is better than letting others look at the phone from time to time and wait for your reply.
From the moment we go to college, we learn to get along with people online, whether it's in the club you're a member of or a group organized by your class.
Just like the senior student sister released a notice, the end will be with a sentence: receive please reply, hard students.
Learning to reply to other people's messages is also a lesson, but you need to slowly explore your own environment.
I once had a friend by my side who had a high emotional intelligence and got along with him like a spring breeze, and I learned a lot in the process of getting along with him.
Every time he chats with someone else, he will always habitually let himself end, even if others finally reply to an emoji, he will reply to another emoji.
Especially when getting along with girls, he can grasp the distance, and his attitude is different from that of female classmates with average relationships, friends who have a good relationship, and his girlfriends.
His girlfriend and we were classmates in the same class, and once when I was in an elective class, he suddenly threw a note to us nervously.
"Can you send a message to my girlfriend saying that my phone has just run out of power, it automatically shuts down, and I will borrow a charging treasure after class to send her a message back."
Every time we talk to our roommates, we always take this out and say two more words, this guy is really so safe.
When in love, boys are willing to take the initiative to tell you their day's itinerary and plans, which will really make girls feel very secure.
Especially when in a long-distance relationship, the geographical distance between two people is very far in itself, and if you don't want to find a way to close the distance of your heart, it will be really difficult to survive.
During the New Year's Day, my boyfriend and I were more than six hundred kilometers apart, and the two of us had to break our fingers every day to calculate when we would meet.
When we are together, there are always endless words, nothing interesting happens around me when we go home, and every day in addition to sleeping is eating.
I thought there would be fewer and fewer topics, but he always seemed to have something to share.
"I went to my grandmother's house today to visit the New Year, and my grandmother secretly stuffed me with a red envelope, and I said no, but my hand was very honestly stuffed into my pocket.
Did you ever play with a cannon when you were a child, I went to the commissary at the entrance of the village today to buy two boxes, and the children next door all came up to me and asked me for it.
Show you the cotton slippers my aunt made for me, I am a young and handsome young man, now integrated with the countryside. ”
Almost every hour, he would share his life with me, interesting and uninteresting, and he told me all the time.
When he gets up in the morning, he will tell me how he arranged today, which relative he is going to play at, and whether there is anything interesting about this relative's house.
At the end, a voice will be sent over: So what are you going to do today, if you are free at night, can we call?
Sometimes I think, he has to tell me every day what he is going to do, even if he is not tired, is not afraid that I am tired?
We don't have too many love words in our chat history, and he seems much shyer than the boys with sweet mouths.
Sometimes when I see someone sharing a love story that my boyfriend says to her, I always forward it to him and let him learn it.
But it was clear in my heart that his love for me did not need to be summed up in those vague love words, and that he had already integrated me into his own little life.
Even though I hadn't even been to his city, I could still piece together the landscape of that city and the state of his family's life from his mouth.
Even though the things he shared with me were ordinary and trivial things, I knew that he was always the first to share these things with me, or that he would only say them to me alone.
Will love make you live in happiness every day? I think that when love reaches a certain level, it will transform into a solid sense of security.
I can see your news every day when I get up, and my happiness and unhappiness are witnessed and recorded by you.
You don't have to ask you, you will take the initiative to tell me your itinerary and take a little time out of your busy life to accompany me.
When I'm going to be busy, I'll say hello and let me do my own thing with peace of mind, and I won't even reply to me because I can't even reply to it, leaving me to think about it on the screen.
Don't always think about listening to those beautiful love words, start with his attitude of replying to your message.