Don't forget to wear makeup in the third trimester.
Fang Yinuo is a Chinese teacher, when he returned home after work, he took out the cotton pad for the first time and looked at the mirror to slowly remove the makeup on his face.
On both sides of the cheeks, there was a spot, which looked very symmetrical, not ugly, and formed a sharp contrast with the surrounding skin, and Fang Yinuo's makeup was to cover up these two small spots.
I thought it was ordinary stripes, but I didn't expect it to be because of the stretch marks caused by pregnancy, she had reached the third trimester of pregnancy, her stomach was covered with ugly stretch marks, and her face was also covered with spots.
Fang Yinuo looked at herself in the mirror, looked at her big belly, no happiness, no expectation, only full of despair and sadness, as if this child was not what she expected, her eyes were full of tears, her heart was full of despair, she seemed to be like a lonely boat, drifting on the sea, not knowing where to float, dazed and helpless.
Since he didn't like children, why did Fang Yinuo get pregnant?
Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lucai got married not long ago, Xiao Lu was busy fighting for a career, wanted to buy a big house, let his daughter-in-law live a good life, and Fang Yinuo was also in the rising period of his career, wanted to teach and educate people well, and strive to become a class teacher.
Both young people have a self-motivated heart and strive for common happiness, and in the eyes of both of them, they are still young and their careers should be put first.
But the old people on both sides do not think so, they think that two major events in life are indispensable, marriage should have children, can not just get married without having children.
Children are the continuation of life, the old man's idea is beyond reproach, but they have not considered the idea of two young people, just like urging marriage, the seven aunts and eight aunts chant in the ear every day, do not want to get married, do not want to have children are forced to finally compromise in the old man's gossip.
Fang Yinuo is a very assertive and particularly strong person, she does not want to compromise, but she can not withstand the pressure, and finally still compromised, but she is unwilling in her heart, looking at the child, looking at the belly, when alone, it is particularly difficult.
Once smooth skin, prominent markings, once flat belly, ugly bulges, once slim figure, deformed and ugly, all at once hit her.
She is so strong, so strong, so like to control her own life, but the child in her belly has broken all illusions.
She tried to put on makeup, cover up her ugliness, make herself look so confident and calm, she covered her stomach with clothes, not thinking about the child, but when she saw her belly full of stretch marks, she couldn't help it at once, disgusted, afraid, desperate, sad, and suddenly gushed up.
She compromised to have children while covering up the truth that she hated children.
Fang Yinuo is actually a very hypocritical person, likes to deceive herself, she thinks that makeup can cover up her own lack of confidence, she thinks that covering others will not see that she is pregnant.
Since you don't like it, you don't want to do it, and if you don't want it, you resist while doing it, which is the most wrong.
Truly confident people who dare to face all their misfortunes.
Modern medicine is so developed, stretch marks can be removed long ago, why cover it up? Besides, children are so old, makeup is not good for children, even if the merchant boasts that cosmetics are harmless, is it really harmless?
The child later got leukemia, perhaps a large part of the reason is because she did not forget to wear makeup from pregnancy to birth.
Satisfied with the professionalism of the nanny
After Fang Yinuo gave birth to a child, Xiao Lu hired a live-in nanny for her.
This nanny's evaluation is very good, but also very professional, Xiao Lu asked for a nanny, or more attentive, he knows that Fang Yinuo this person has some slight strength, the best requirements for everything, in order to take care of Fang Yinuo, Xiao Lu can be described as dedicated.
The nanny is very particular, starting to disinfect when she enters the door, trying not to bring bacteria to the child, and she is familiar with the temperature of each room and looks experienced.
The nanny not only takes care of Fang Yinuo's children, but also teaches Fang Yinuo how to take the child, after all, the sister-in-law is only a month, and she will have to take the child herself when she leaves in the future, and at the same time will care for Xiao Lu, make him a supper, afraid that he will come back hungry, such as Fang Yinuo thinks thoughtfully.
The nanny took the child to sleep, the child was hungry, the nanny sent the child to Fang Yinuo's room, and then put a towel for her to be afraid that she would get cold, and told her not to cry in the confinement, which would not be good for her eyes in the future.
At night, Fang Yinuo wanted to drink water, Xiao Lu slept too dead, the nanny heard the movement, she got up and gave the water to Fang Yinuo, and also intimately comforted Fang Yinuo.
In the morning, the nanny went out, she thought that Fang Yinuo with the child is not easy, get up at night to breastfeed, sleep badly did not wake her, did not expect that because of this matter, Fang Yinuo began to dislike the nanny, squeeze the nanny, and finally even forced the nanny away.
A person like Fang Yinuo, who couldn't rub sand in her eyes, just like she couldn't stand the marks on her face, saw her and wanted to remove them, so when the nanny went out without her consent, the dissatisfaction in her heart began to accumulate.
It is not that Yue Yinuo is not doing well, but That Fang Yinuo is too strong and too unreasonable to make trouble.
The nanny is a person, going out is not not coming back, and as a professional nanny, she still has a plan for time and her work, otherwise it is impossible to get praise.
A small mistake was magnified by Fang Yinuo, and who can get along with such a picky and strong person?
Force the babysitter away
While enjoying the service of the sister-in-law, at the same time, he is also picky about the bad sister-in-law.
The nanny who went out without knocking on the door once made Fang Yinuo particularly dissatisfied, and with a mother who provoked dissension, she was even more dissatisfied with the nanny.
Fang's mother came to the house and told Fang Yinuo to beware of the nanny saying that some nannies would give him sleeping pills for the sake of the child's quiet, and Fang's mother also volunteered to bring a child to Fang Yinuo, but Fang Yinuo refused, she still likes to let the nanny take the child.
Because of the provocation of Fang's mother, Fang Yinuo is particularly attentive to the nanny, when the nanny takes the child at night, she eavesdrops outside, and also observes the time when the nanny feeds the child, she finds that the nanny remembers all the wrong time, plus when taking the child at night, Fang Yinuo called the nanny, and the nanny actually fell asleep, making her more dissatisfied with the nanny.
She did not say nanny, but let Xiao Lu speak, Xiao Lu could not say directly, can only knock on the side of the side, and then caused miscommunication.
Fang Yinuo is very hypocritical, she does not want to offend the nanny, and she does not like the nanny, and wants the nanny to endure her temper to bring her children.
As a teacher, I often deal with children to know, what to say, the child knows, otherwise who knows what you want to express?
She does not say but is not happy, the nanny looks annoyed, the nanny is also a person, she takes money to work, the master can indeed be picky, but also has a degree of pickiness.
What things spread out and said, can be changed, can not change everyone to discuss together, Fang Yinuo never thought so, she avoided positive conflict, but not satisfied with the other party's solution, do things sneakily, explain all in the heart, who can stand it, who is not a roundworm in whose stomach.
Yin and yang are weird, especially affecting the family atmosphere.
Fang Yinuo hoped that everyone would revolve around her, but others did it, and she felt that she did not do it well, and she could not do it herself, which was the most infuriating thing.
Fang Yinuo found that the yellow pox of Hehe was a little high, but the nanny said that this was fine, the child would get it, but in the evening the child became more and more serious, and finally had to be sent to the hospital, the doctor suggested taking blue light, but also a few days in the hospital.
At this time, Fang Yinuo finally caught fire, she blamed the nanny for not taking care of the child, blamed the nanny for not having the experience to say that if it were not for the nanny, the child could not be so serious.
But Fang Yinuo did not know, the child got yellow pox because of her breast milk, the nanny secretly fed milk powder to Hehe, was approved by Fang Yinuo after knowing, and now the child has yellow pox, or because of Fang Yinuo's own reasons, Fang Yinuo ran to complain about the nanny, the nanny is also very aggrieved, very sad.
Xiao Lu did not want to make Fang Yinuo sad, and also let the nanny bear more responsibilities, don't tell Fang Yinuo.
But Fang Yinuo did not forgive, Xiao Lu finally couldn't help it, told the truth to Fang Yinuo, Fang Yinuo was suddenly a little stunned, but she did not want to apologize to the nanny, thinking that Xiao Lu was on the side of the nanny, watching her jokes, in front of Xiao Lu, angrily closed the door.
The nanny looked at Fang Yinuo like this, feeling sad and aggrieved, and she left here silently.
Fang Yinuo does not know, people like her, no matter who comes, have suffered, picky can be, but can not be excessive, strong can also do, but the premise of the strong is that you have this ability, neither much ability, but also look down on this and can not be used to that, want everyone to revolve around you, their own mistakes and feel wronged, who is not the baby who grew up? Why get used to you?
Fang Yinuo said that in the end, he did not treat the nanny as a person, but like a slave, I give you money for something, you have to give me to bear, I let you do whatever you want, I say what you do, you have to suffer, can not resist, can not be wronged, I am wrong you also have to bear more, because I gave you money.
Fang Yinuo's hypocrisy, pickiness, strength, and desire to control finally forced the babysitter away.