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Recently, a pregnant mother in Yantai because of leg edema, 89-year-old grandfather massaged her to relieve leg edema, the result of netizens think that this matter is too inappropriate. Some netizens believe that Grandpa is an elder, and he is already an 89-year-old man, so it is not filial piety for the younger generation to make Grandpa so hard. Another part of the people feel that after all, the grandson and grandfather are people of different genders, and they should still avoid suspicion.
It is estimated that this pregnant granddaughter also did not expect that her video would have so many netizens' attention and comments, and she also gave a response to everyone's various statements. I am a pregnant woman with edema in my legs. When Grandpa was young, he did massage, at the beginning it was his mother who was massaging himself, and Grandpa was guiding on the side, but because his mother did not do it standardly, Grandpa demonstrated it to her.
I think this pregnant mother, Ms. Zhang, should not be affected by some people's not very good thoughts. For her, her grandfather was a relative who grew up with her and had the same deep feelings as her mother. Although he is 89 years old, he can still love his granddaughter like when he was a child, and probably the elderly will feel their own value. But those who talk about it for a short time have their own inner world not pure.
Anyone who has been a mother knows that the third trimester is a time when a woman is very vulnerable. I was pregnant with two children and had very severe edema of my legs in the third trimester. Originally, I was wearing a size 36 shoe, but later when I went to the hospital for obstetric examination, I wore my husband's sneakers to put my feet in.
A friend of mine also has similar symptoms, when she was close to giving birth, she was very bad because of the edema, and she basically went to the obstetric examination, and her husband basically pushed her into a wheelchair, and it was very difficult to walk. When the mother-in-law saw her in a wheelchair, she not only did not feel sorry for her daughter-in-law, but also said angrily: "Who has not yet conceived a child, you are so squeamish." ”
Are we pregnant women very squeamish? I can't deny that there are some pregnant women who are very strong, and they have been relatively strong from the first trimester to the third trimester. The whole person's state is also very good, walking into the delivery room, after giving birth to the child, he pushes the child out of the delivery room, there is such a pregnant woman.
However, everyone's physical fitness and health conditions are different, many pregnant women in the third trimester will have different symptoms of discomfort, and their families should give them more care.
Women in the third trimester of pregnancy are prone to symptoms of chest tightness and shortness of breath.
I wasn't a lazy pregnant woman throughout my pregnancy, especially after the second trimester. Because I look forward to a smooth delivery, I always like to exercise appropriately, and when I move a little in the third trimester, I often feel that I can't breathe. For a long time, my chest was stuffy, and I was very scared.
Later, after the guidance of the doctor, I learned that breast tightness and shortness of breath in women in the third trimester of pregnancy are relatively normal phenomena. Because the fetus is already very developed, our heart load is already overweight, and it will get better after giving birth.
Countermeasures: in the third trimester, pregnant women should pay more attention to rest, and when sleeping, try to use the way of lying on their sides. There is also the ability to prepare oxygen, and when it is uncomfortable, take oxygen appropriately to alleviate your symptoms.
In the third trimester, the body is bulky and inconvenient to move.
In the third trimester, pregnant mothers can prepare several pieces for themselves in advance, so that they can wear and take off clothes and shoes. Because when your stomach is so big that you can't see your toes, don't think that you can bend down and put on your shoes.
Countermeasures: Go to the obstetric examination in the third trimester, or go out for a walk, pregnant women must have the company of their families, and there are many inconveniences in acting alone.
In the third trimester, frequent urination and constipation are very embarrassing.
Pregnant mothers have some unspeakable secrets that cannot be said to others, that is, constipation and frequent urination. In the third trimester of pregnancy, in order to be born smoothly, the fetus will gradually enter the mother's pelvis, the fetus will move down and grow to compress the mother's bladder, the space of the bladder becomes smaller, and then there will be the embarrassment of the pregnant woman always running to the toilet.
There are also pregnant women, it is not easy to come out of the toilet, to stay for a long time, that may be because pregnant women have some constipation. Constipation is also a symptom that often occurs in pregnant women, and many factors are related to many factors such as varicose veins in the rectum due to fetal compression, and constipation is also very uncomfortable.
Countermeasures: In the third trimester of pregnancy, pregnant mothers can appropriately adjust the amount of water they drink, and eat more coarse fiber foods, which is conducive to alleviating such symptoms.
In the third trimester, I often have a bad appetite and can't eat.
Eating in the first trimester always throws up, and in the second trimester, the mother can finally enjoy the food with a big appetite. However, in the third trimester of pregnancy, you will find that it is uncomfortable to eat again, and there will often be a burning sensation in the stomach and throat, just like eating straw.
In the third trimester, because of the pressure of the uterus on the stomach and intestines of pregnant women, the mother's gastric juices may regurgitate to the esophagus, so there will be such a burning feeling.
Countermeasures: the appetite in the third trimester is not comfortable, pregnant women should adjust the diet structure, eat more liquid, semi-liquid food, better digestion and absorption, but also eat a little more appetizing vegetables and fruits. In addition, pregnant women can exercise properly after meals, which is also conducive to digestion.
In the third trimester, the legs of pregnant women are edematous, varicose veins.
In the third trimester, many mothers will have leg edema, which is caused by the continuous enlargement of the mother's uterus that hinders the venous return and the aggravation of varicose veins in the lower limbs and pelvic area.
Countermeasures: Pregnant mothers can lie flat on the bed when resting, straighten their legs, stick them against the wall, and insist on it for 3 minutes each time, and the edema and varicose veins will be relieved.
It is really not easy for a woman to have a child. All kinds of physical discomfort require the care and understanding of the family.
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