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If there is no trust between husband and wife, the dissolution of the marriage is sooner or later.
Women are willing to marry a man, sometimes not because they love him, but for a variety of reasons.
For example, she is older, his family has money, she is hurt by love, he is too good for her, and so on.
Marriage should be based on love, and it's hard for a woman to be happy if she doesn't marry a man because of love. Unless it wasn't her other half that brought her happiness, but his money.
There are always women who look for their significant other with the idea of marrying money, and they will think, "As long as I have money, I have everything".
Indeed, money can indeed make you have many, many things, but it will also make you lose a lot, miss a lot, and regret more.
Everything a woman wants, it is best to fight for it through her own efforts, rather than thinking of taking the shortcut of marriage. A man with money, his money can be spent for you and can be spent on other women.
He can give you the status of a wife, and one day he gets tired of it, and he can take back your wife's status as well.
Women who want to change their destiny, the person you should rely on is yourself, not anyone else, including your significant other.
People without money always hope that they can one day become rich, and when you really get what you want, you have no desires and no demands?
Once, netizen Xiaomei really thought like that, until she really had endless money, only to find that money sometimes can't solve all the problems. She is willing to marry Qian, but she is not willing to live with the owner of the money.
Finally married to a rich man.
Xiaomei was born into a poor family, and she was the worst person in the class.
For this reason, from small to large, Xiaomei did not know how many white eyes she had suffered. Xiaomei's parents are like transparent people in the eyes of relatives and friends. Just because there is no money, the family can't lift their heads wherever they go.
Xiaomei vowed, "In the future, I must become rich, and I must let my parents live a good life." ”
At first, Xiaomei was ready to change her fate through knowledge, but she was never interested in learning about this matter. When I went to college, I reluctantly went to one of the three colleges. With Xiaomei's achievements, she wants to become a company executive in the future, with an annual salary of millions, and the probability is zero.
Since Xiaomei can't count on herself, she can only count on others. Xiaomei found that every weekend, the school gate would be full of luxury cars, and female classmates would be picked up. Xiaomei thought,
"If I also have a rich boyfriend, and we get married in the future, I can live the life of a rich man." 」
Xiaomei looked at herself in the mirror, she looked good, her figure was well-proportioned, and her skin was white. Just when Xiaomei wants to change the status quo of her life through feelings, a rich family is very interested in her, saying that she is like a cold beauty.
Of course, Xiaomei will not give up this opportunity.
Through contact with rich families, Xiaomei found that the world of rich people is really too colorful, go to the mall to buy things without looking at the price, and go straight to the five-star hotel if you want to eat.
Mobile phones, laptops, even the car they drive, they want to change it.
In the days with the rich family, Xiaomei saw the power of money. She wears brand clothing, holds a limited edition bag, cosmetics, lipstick is a first-line big brand, and the classmates around her are more "friendly" to Xiaomei.
Just when Xiaomei dreamed of her and the rich family's future, the rich family gradually faded out of her sight.
He no longer replied to Xiaomei's messages, even her calls, and he did not answer them.
The insider next to him told Xiaomei, "He has other goals again." A rich man like this is not sincere with anyone, but just a joke.
If you're with a rich man next time, remember to get more money when you get the chance. Anyway, people have money, and if they don't spend it for you, they will spend it on other women. ”
Xiaomei, she thought about it seriously. Instead of wandering between different rich men, it is better to marry a rich man, so that you no longer have to worry about life in the future.
In the last days of her college life, Xiaomei has been trying to make herself better. In addition to her academic performance, Xiaomei began to work out, do yoga, and soon practiced vest line. Xiaomei began to learn all aspects of things, making sure that she was with men of any age and had something to talk about.
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, football, entertainment, drones, etc., as long as it is something that men are interested in, Xiaomei knows something.
After Xiaomei officially joins the work, she can focus on finding a rich husband. Maybe it was good luck that Xiaomei met a rich man who was 20 years older than her. After a brief contact, they soon got married.
Xiaomei finally lived the life of a rich man.
With bread, you still want love.
Her husband wanted Xiaomei to quit her job, after all, her salary was too low to even go out for a meal. Xiaomei refused.
Xiaomei feels that women should still have their own work and life circle, making more and making less money is not a problem, passing the time is important.
Even if the family has money, she can't spend money every day, and no man can accept it.
Moreover, Xiaomei is still thinking, "I dress up beautifully every day, if I don't go to work, who will appreciate myself?" I hold tens of thousands of bags, and I can still get so many envious eyes, how happy. ”
At the beginning of the marriage, Xiaomei really enjoyed all the glory that money brought to her.
Every New Year's Festival, when Xiaomei's family met relatives and friends again, everyone looked up at them. Xiaomei felt that she was finally ashamed of herself.
After life gradually calmed down, Xiaomei found that she and her husband did not have any common language at all. In the past, the two always had endless words, that is because Xiaomei threw herself into her favor, and what her husband liked, he studied. Since Xiaomei became his righteous wife, she put less and less energy on her husband.
She can spend a lot of money in the family, but the marriage of only money makes Xiaomei very depressed. She finally discovered that money also had things outside its reach.
Her husband has always wanted to have a child with Xiaomei, but Xiaomei has always refused.
She didn't love him, and if she had another child, Xiaomei couldn't imagine what her life would become later.
Married for 3 years, Xiaomei contraception for 3 years, the husband did not know.
Just when Xiaomei felt that life was boring, the male leader of the unit parachuted in made her move. The leader is young and promising, comparable to Xiaomei's age, with a high position, a high salary, and a humorous speech. Xiaomei thought,
"I prefer him to my rich husband." It didn't take long for the two to develop a lover relationship.
Xiaomei wanted to have more time with the leader, so she lied to her husband that the unit would organize a week of team building. The husband did not want her to go, and by then, he was already hidden
Jo thinks that Something is not quite right with Xiaomei. However, Xiaomei finally went.
Two months after Xiaomei returned, she found out she was pregnant.
Xiaomei knew very well in her heart that this child was not her husband's, but a leader.
Xiaomei's morning sickness in the morning made her husband wonder, and her husband asked Xiaomei, "Are you pregnant?" ”
Xiaomei said, "Husband, I am indeed pregnant." I see you've been busy lately and haven't told you. The husband sneered,
"We haven't been pregnant for 3 years, and you got pregnant after a week of going out to build a team?" This child, I'm afraid, is not mine. ”
Xiaomei knew that it was useless for her to explain it. Even if she secretly gave birth to the child from her husband, in the future, her husband will have a paternity test, and her ugly things will not run. Xiaomei took the initiative to divorce her husband, and she was out of the house.
What made her despair was that the leader did not take responsibility for her, but instead drew a line with her. The small beauty bamboo basket hit the water empty.
When Xiaomei first married her husband, she calculated his money.
After the two got married, Xiaomei did get a lot of money, and she could spend it as much as she wanted. When this wish to spend flowers is realized, Xiaomei finds that in addition to bread, she also wants love.
The appearance of the male leader is like a beam of light in Xiaomei's world, and his presence allows Xiaomei to see another possibility of life.
The affair fascinated her and ruined the rest of her life.
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