I was wrong. But it was too late. I hope that through my spiritual motivation, I can get girls to pay attention. I'm going to break up, but it's a little reluctant, I'm so uncomfortable. Logically, I should have gotten married yesterday, but I chose to run away. When I got home, my parents blamed me. Now that I'm going to go in, my parents told me not to be impulsive, and they think that if I quit or don't get married.
Then my whole life will be ruined here, after all, the reputation of girls is very important. Let me bear with it, maybe there is still something to talk about. I don't want that either, but I can't. I was uncomfortable. I want to choose to get out of the marriage and not marry. So today I handed over this matter, and everyone helped me evaluate it. Am I choosing not to marry correctly? I don't know what to say.
Yesterday my boyfriend came to the house to pick me up and passed through the door. He should have been very happy, but he only took 6.8 yuan to come over. I thought he put the money in his bank card. As soon as I went out, I asked my boyfriend about it. My boyfriend said to me, no, all the money is here, what's wrong?
Is there something going on? Hearing my boyfriend say this, I was straight out of the blue. I don't care about money, I care about rebellion. I've been back with my boyfriend before. Stayed inside my boyfriend's house for a while. At that time, I told them that he had done things before.
I told my boyfriend that my parents were my daughter and wanted me to marry well. My parents had the final say in the matter of bride price money. But my parents said it too. Depending on the situation, I think your family should be able to come up with 100,000 yuan. Mentioning that I said 100,000 boyfriends' parents, I panicked in an instant.
The boyfriend's parents said that although there are 100,000 yuan, but it is not good, take it out at once, you will reduce it a little, not that we do not want you to be a daughter-in-law. It's because we don't have much money, and you know we don't have much money for a month. I am more than 2,000 yuan a month and more than 3,000 yuan. Then your boyfriend's father is also more than 3,000 a month. The whole family depends on your boyfriend to make money.
If we were to come up with 100,000 yuan, it would be a bit much. Then I said, if 100,000 yuan doesn't work, then 68,000 is always OK, I didn't say 8.8, I saw 6.8 today. This is OKAY, right? 68,000 is not much, right? Hearing me say 6.8 million, the boyfriend's parents laughed.
Then he smiled and said to me, this is OKAY, 68,000 we can accept. Do you want it now, or give it when you get married, wait a little longer if you want it now, and we'll go out to the bank and get it back for you. That's how the price was negotiated.
My parents asked for 100,000 yuan, and then I reduced it to 68,000 yuan. The main thing is that I don't think they're in a good condition. My boyfriend and I are truly in love, not for the bride price, more or less it doesn't matter. Don't be sexually happy later.
My boyfriend said that if you keep insisting on 100,000 yuan, we will also give, but you will lose points in my heart. Because in my heart, you are a perfect girl. Since you are perfect, you should be considerate of us, we do not make much money, you know, although I have more than 8,000 yuan a month, but I want to save money to buy a house, and now it is difficult to save enough for a down payment.
If you take 100,000 yuan out at once, you don't know when you will be able to deposit the down payment later. Now if you ask me for 68,000, my parents can help. Then I can pay the down payment myself, and we can buy a house on the day of marriage or before we get married, what do you think? I can probably come up with about 150,000 for the house.
And then if your parents give a little more if they have it, that's pretty much it, you say, isn't it? If that were the case, we would have our house in the future, and we would provide for the house together after we got married. It's nice to imagine. I laughed and said to my boyfriend, OK, just like this, after a while we will go to see the house, the down payment of the house I will also help find a way, I have more than 80,000 yuan in my bank card.
I went back after everything was arranged. Just went to the station, my boyfriend's parents came to me and said, how did you get back? You don't go back and talk to us about it. Or you won't go back. My parents told me to go back, but my boyfriend's parents wouldn't let me go back.
Don't let me stay at home. Later, I told my parents about this matter, and my parents were also embarrassed, but they heard me say that the price was negotiated, and it was already determined that they would marry him. Then my parents didn't bother with it anymore. Just like that, I lived with my boyfriend for a while.
I came home when I was about to get married. The house thing has also been fixed, and a deposit of 20,000 yuan has been given. In two days the boyfriend's deposit is up to date, and then he will go and pay the down payment on the house. We got married on the 2nd day after paying the down payment, which was yesterday. It should have been a pleasure, everything was arranged. The wedding day is just around the corner.
There is nothing happier in a woman's life than to be with the person she loves the most. Happiness is in sight, can I not be happy? But in this case, I found out that I was pregnant. I've lived in my boyfriend's house for more than half a month. It was only two days after I came back when I realized I was pregnant.
I was a little worried, but I thought that everything was arranged, and I was pregnant, and I was going to have another child at the end of the year, but now it was only a few months in advance, nothing happened. I told my parents about it. My parents told me not to tell my boyfriend what they said. But I still couldn't resist telling my boyfriend.
I want to make my boyfriend happy, after all, he is about to get married, so let's talk to him about nothing. What I didn't expect was on the day of my wedding, which was yesterday. An accident occurred. My boyfriend picked me up when I got married yesterday. Then my boyfriend brought the bride price money.
The boyfriend has a custom on their side that the bride price is given to the woman on the wedding day. Then I'm going to give my parents the bride price when my boyfriend came to marry me yesterday. After I went out, I found out that my boyfriend only gave 6.8 yuan. This is what my parents told me. I said to my parents, you read that right, is it really 6.8?
I told them it was 68,000. My parents said to me, what am I lying to you about? It's really 6.8 blocks right here, I showed you. Then my parents pulled out a wallet, which really only cost 6.8 bucks. I looked at my wallet, and at first I thought there would be a bank card in it, and there would be 68,000 in it.
I didn't expect that there was no bank card in it at all, just one 5 yuan, one 1 piece and 1 piece of 55 cents. There are also three dimes. It adds up to 6.8 blocks. What's going on here? My boyfriend said out loud to me, hurry out. It's going to be time soon, and if you don't come out, it's too late, and you care about this time when you get married. I don't know what to say.
I said to my boyfriend, you come in, I have something to ask you, make it clear that I will go out again. The more you talk, the angrier you get. About a minute later, my boyfriend came in, and my boyfriend came in and told me that I had been waiting outside for so long.
Why don't you come out? If you want me to come in, I don't have enough time to go home. Then I said to my boyfriend, you're not in a hurry to get home. Didn't you say that you gave money for 68,000? How it has become 6.8 blocks now, my parents will not wrongfully accuse you, I want to ask about this matter.
Hearing me say this, my boyfriend rightly said, no, it's 6.8 yuan, your parents didn't wrongfully accuse me. Although it was said that it would be given to 68,000, it is different now than before. You weren't pregnant with my child before, and now you have my child. What about it? Is 6.8 block the same as 6.88? We marry together for happiness.
The bride price is just a blessing, more or less the same, didn't you say that in the first place? Since it is said that we are together because of love. Then there's no need to care about the bride price, right? I will definitely give you happiness in the future, the time is almost up, hurry up and go out with me, if you delay a little longer, wait to go back really not enough time, if that is the case, my parents will blame me.
If something bad happens in the future, it will only be blamed on you, and you will miss this time. The more I listened, the angrier I became. I didn't expect my boyfriend to be like this. I was so angry that I said to him, what? After saying 68,000, it has now become 6.8 blocks, and you still say it so straight.
I have never seen such a person. How can you go against the grain... Before I could finish speaking, my boyfriend took my hand and tried to forcibly pull me out. I told my boyfriend that you had to give a reasonable explanation for this or I wouldn't marry.
Say good bride price you come out of the program What is the matter? Am I such a price in your mind? 6.8 blocks? Hearing me say this, my boyfriend was also impatient, and my boyfriend impatiently told me that it was not the dowry money you thought, but just a blessing. Is 6.8 blocks the same as 68,000?
I can't listen to it anymore. If you go against the grain, forget it. Now I still say that the righteousness is awe-inspiring, and I think I have done it right. I was very angry and told my boyfriend that I would immediately take out 68,000, otherwise I would not marry. My boyfriend said, you are pregnant with my child, if you do not marry me, who you marry, if you are with others, others will dislike you, you can only marry me.
Since you must be mine, why should I waste this 68,000? Is my money coming from the wind? If you love to marry or not, if you don't marry, forget it. After saying this, the boyfriend went out. I cried and went back to my room. At this time, I learned that girls can't be with boys in advance.
Otherwise it will be you who regret it, and you don't think that I met a scumbag. In fact, many boys are like this, because they think you are 100% his. Then he will ignore your feelings and will even rebel. Regret, everything is my fault, now let me in a dilemma.
I thought about it for a while. Forget it, treat me like this now, but what about later? So that's how I chose to break up, was it wrong for me to choose to break up? Why didn't my parents break up with me? Big deal don't have kids, break up, goodbye, am I wrong?