In the previous article, we talked about the reasons for the "nest horizontal", so know the reason, how to treat the symptoms? Today, let's move on to how. In fact, there are no more than three points: say rules, vent emotions & encourage your baby to socialize! Learn these three tricks and let your "baby" say goodbye to the nest!
Make rules and say one thing and one thing
Many elders feel that to meet the needs of children unconditionally is to love children. In fact, it is really not, the more you love your children, the more you should let him understand that everything has principles, and the family is no exception!
● If you want to watch TV, you can!
Negotiate good time rules, such as Friday and Saturday nights, watch 30 minutes a day!
Turn off the TV on time at the point, it has been discussed, and the baby is not so difficult to accept!
● Scolding and disrespecting elders will never be allowed!
In this case, parents should stop laughing!
Young age is not an excuse, we must seriously criticize, let the child realize the mistake!
● Roll and sprinkle to buy toys, to change!
Negotiate with your child before going to the mall, buy only one favorite toy, or directly bypass the toy area, so as not to avoid your child's "thoughts".
Special attention should be paid to the fact that the family must stand in the united front! Don't fight with a strong will on this side, but "leak the flood" over there!
Teach them how to vent their emotions
For example, just the whole family went to the supermarket to make a purchase, and when they came back, their parents cooked and let the baby pack up the toys!
Baby's instant emotional explosion: what are you going to do at this time?
I believe that many parents will choose B with duplicity, so take the opportunity to give the baby a cathartic opportunity!
Talk drill action——
Step 1: Encourage your child to speak out about how they feel
"Is it because you didn't come back to let you rest, that's why you were angry?"
Step 2: Give understanding to your baby's cathartic emotions
"Mom knows you're not happy, so she can make you lose your temper for a while"!
Step 3: For example, make your baby aware of his mistakes
"But Mom and Dad have to cook later, and we're tired too, so we want to help the little ones at home."
Step 4: Fully recognize your baby's actions
"Oh my God, the baby put away all the toys?" Awesome!
But, today you lose your temper or make your mother a little sad, shouldn't boys take care of girls?
Will you help your mother next time? ”
Children in the nest are often emotionally limited, and they can't think of any other way than to be noisy and recoilful!
So when the baby loses his temper, don't rush to stop it, slowly guide him to vent.
Gently tell him: Mom and Dad understand your grievances, but this way makes Mom and Dad a little sad!
Cheer up your baby and encourage socializing!
Social life is to cultivate children's healthy personality, but also the key to say goodbye to the "nest horizontal"!
Step 1: Covert observation
See when your baby will feel timid, anxious, and unable to fit in, and prepare for the plan for the future.
Step 2: Discuss feelings
For example, when watching cartoons, children quarrel with their families or quarrels between friends, parents can ask the children how they feel at the right time?
What is the mood of the other party, let the baby experience the feelings of others!
Step 3: Help your baby socialize
According to previous observations, arrange some social activities for children, such as:
In the supermarket, let the baby ask for the location of the goods alone, take the toy, take the initiative to share with the children, invite the children to play at home, or go to other children's homes.
Learn these three tricks and let your "baby" say goodbye to the nest! Mom and Dad, hurry up and act!