In the family, parents in the process of educating children, to take into account the double pressure of life and work, but also the body is more tired in two aspects, there will inevitably be bad emotions, at this time the child is in the early ignorance of the status quo, so that many parents will vent their emotions all on the child, this is a very bad behavior, today Xiaobian for everyone to summarize several behaviors are wrong, I hope you can encourage together.
For children, it is not a "doll" for parents to vent their emotions, these 3 behaviors should be avoided!
1. Don't always tell your child that you're tired.
In ordinary life, to share their own life experience and life knowledge with their children is also a kind of fueling effect on the psychological maturity of the baby, but parents always tell their children how tired they are in their daily life and work. May trigger the child is their own parents of such a psychology, let the child have an inferiority psychology, affect the child's social life and psychological state, parents no matter how tired do not forget the child's physical and mental education, so that the child will grow up in a happy time and environment.
2. If you are in a bad mood, you will scold your child.
When the child grows up, it is not only a kind of behavior that prohibits scolding from the moral point of view, but also an extreme behavior that is explicitly prohibited by our Chinese laws, in the family if the child is in an early age, the mind is not yet mature, the physical development is still not yet fully perfect, reaching a certain level of state, if at this time their emotions are very bad, they will scold the child, which will have an impact on the child's physical health and normal growth and development, and will also form a shadow negative effect in the child's heart. In the process of child psychological shaping, do not take the form of scolding, which may cause more changes in the child's inferiority psychology and personality.
3. Parents quarrel, do not face the child.
There is a difficult scripture in the family. Presumably, in life, every family will have some contradictions and small frictions, which is a way of life that cannot be changed. In life, it is inevitable to encounter some upset times, two people will quarrel when they disagree, but when venting their inner emotions through quarrels, they should also pay special attention to the occasion, do not quarrel in front of the child, which will cause the child's psychological shadow and personality distortion, which is not conducive to the healthy growth of the child.