For many families, the habit of children's loss and fall has brought great trouble to parents.
Parents often finish teaching their children, children will still make mistakes, a long time, it does not matter, in fact, to correct the child's loss of four problems, there are secrets.
All bad problems have a root cause, and the prerequisite for treatment is to understand the causes.
Is it innate to lose everything? Absolutely not, it's a bad habit that has been developed for a long time.
Well, the first thing parents have to do is to analyze their children's bad habits. Only then can he find a solution. Usually, such children have the following characteristics: poor independence, strong dependence, carelessness, lack of examination, etc. Is there something wrong with his memory? Of course not, those frizzy children, in memory, are still very good.
So, what's the problem? Present in an environment that is always taken care of, always protected, always spoiled.
What should I do if my child is lost?
1. Parents should lead by example
Every word and deed of a parent will have a great impact on the child, including organizing and storage.
Let the children tidy up their shoes and not throw them away; let them put the things in the closet and drawers and let them put the used things in place.
2. Fix the place for your child to put things
Let the children have a fixed space, and families with conditions can prepare a small cabinet for the child, and classify the children's textbooks, exercise books, toys, etc.
At the same time, parents should also help their children hang some rag dolls and post some children's paintings, creating this small world into the atmosphere of a child's small world, attracting children to love and cherish their own piece of "small world".
3, let children know how to cherish
Today's children are the backbone of the family, and they don't need to say anything to do for them.
Over time, the child will develop a strong dependence. Therefore, parents should learn to be "lazy", cultivate their sense of independence, and abandon their dependence on their parents. For example, when packing up school bags, parents should try to leave these trivial things to their children, so that they can develop the habit of self-reliance from trivial things.
4. Make children aware of the dangers of throwing things away
To make your kids aware of the dangers of lost items, you can try the following: Don't buy new ones for your kids as soon as they lose them.
Children are only more aware of the dangers of lost items if they are inconvenienced after they are found. For example: a lost red scarf, don't rush to buy it, let him accept the blame; the lost water bottle makes him thirsty all day. Let him understand what the consequences of losing something will be, and he will be more cautious.
In addition, many parents punish their children for using their pocket money to buy items that are easily lost. Having children buy things with their pocket money will make them understand how hard it is to make money.
As the saying goes, "Good medicine is good for the sick, and good advice is good for the ear." ”
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[Author of this article]: Director Li of Orangutan Village
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