Author: Li Shuanglin
Case: Teacher Li is good, I have been paying attention to you for a long time, every morning after reading your push article, I often reflect on my words and deeds, but after thinking too much, I am depressed, and I always feel that 27 years old has become the dividing line of my life. I hope that Teacher Li can give me a little bit of encouragement and let me reinvigorate.
In 1988, the female (Peng Chen, Xin You, Yan Wei, Gengshen) was born in a well-off family, from childhood well-behaved, parents love, primary and junior high school grades are good, high school decline is obvious, the college entrance examination barely passed the undergraduate line, only reported to the three colleges, participated in many social activities during the university period, plus good college results, when I graduated, I applied for the world's top 30 famous schools, I returned to my hometown after graduation, everything was very smooth, it seems that all the good luck is concentrated in my student era.
At the beginning of 2015, others introduced the ex-husband, he is engaged in public prosecution work, parents upstart, I think the original family difference is large, the two people do not have common interest, talked for 4 months on the want to separate, but anxious to become a leftover woman, in this hesitation and entanglement of half push half of the marriage, with the arrival of the child, the two people quarrel continuously, the difference between the two families is large, the ex-husband does not choose words, the violent tendency gradually appears.
15 years, 16 years and two years, I experienced love, marriage, and divorce like a dream.
The age of 27 and 28 has since become the dividing line of my life.
At the end of 2016, after the divorce, I became sensitive, anxious, unconfident, depressed, and the whole person was gray and disgraceful. By copying scriptures and reading, the movement improved slightly.
In 2019, it took half a year to fall in love and end without a problem.
In May 2021, I met a divorced surgeon (Gengwu, Gengchen, Nongzhi, Pengshen), who was originally in love quite smoothly, but accidentally learned that he cheated on a 6-year-old woman shortly after his previous marriage, I became suspicious, my parents were worried that he was so natural, and began to oppose us, but I knew that I had a higher vision, rarely met someone I liked, and I was unwilling to give up, but I was also very entangled. I hope that the teacher can give the following help:
1. Can I marry and live happily with this man (庚午, 庚辰, 壬戌, 戊申)?
2. If not, when will my fate appear? Am I doomed to an unhappy marriage and a lonely old age?
3, I know that I am more suitable for stable work, adhere to the examination of various types of certificates, 19 years into the system, 21 years of successful promotion, the future career luck? What are the important opportunities to take advantage of?
4, my student years are too smooth, marriage but let my parents very disappointed, now only look forward to the parents in good health, but the father in the past two years coughed more than once, go to the hospital can not see the disease, is there a big problem? (Father: 癸卯, 甲子, 庚戌, 丙戌; mother: 癸卯、 壬戌, 甲午、 壬申)
Question time: April 16, 2022 at 10:50 a.m. I hope to have good luck and be nodded by Teacher Li.
Li Shuanglin replied:
Kunzao: Peng Chen, Xin You, 癸未, 庚申 (空戌海, 申酉)
Great Luck: Gengshen, Jiwei, Pengwu, Ding, Chengchen, Yidi, Jiayin, 癸u, 壬子 (5 years old and November shangyun)
unscramble:
The decanter water was ordered in the unitary moon, and the left and right were all sealed stars, although they sat on the seven killings, but because of the yinwang and the official killing was not damaged, the most like to see the fire, but the original bureau lacked it, can only rely on the great luck to appear, only by seeing the wealth to make the seal, can the official killing be used by me, so as to benefit the development of the cause.
This is a partial Inge, Owang likes to see wealth, fortune is developed, because the original bureau does not see the fortune star, only the official seal of two kinds of ten gods, so the combination is single, because there is no wealth and the Indian wang is uncontrolled, the Indian star is too heavy character shortcomings are relatively large, love to learn, but the Indian star is not pure, but also reflected in the learning of miscellaneous and not refined, and the personality is partial to self, selfish, do not like to share, there are things to hide in the heart, for a long time, it will make their personality lonely, do not like to fit in, so it will also damage marriage, unfavorable feelings.
Decoction for itself, with the year of dry penta soil, and penta sitting chen has roots, then the official star is advantageous, the general official star fits, and see the Indian star wrapped body, then it is beneficial to public office, not suitable for entrepreneurial development, suitable for stability, and because there is no financial star, so because there is no financial star, so be cautious investment, a little carelessness will be a loss of money.
However, the mixture of official killing and printing stars will have a side business, and the best development in the past ten years of Ding Wei's great luck is also the best.
Although the official killing is used, but because the Indian star is too heavy, and can not make the official killing into a good luck, but the official killing to help the seal, the indian to live, because the Indian star is too heavy, the personality is also more stubborn, look at the problem is not good at flexibility, often because of ideological problems, and self-annoyance.
As for marriage, it is mainly the year for the official, the day for the seven kills to lead to the failure of the marriage, the japanese branch should have been the official to come, and the prejudice of the seven kills, but also means that your husband is difficult to meet someone he is satisfied with.
The husband is a husband star, left and right are food injuries, the husband desire is very large, like freedom, do not like to be constrained too much, and your desire to control is relatively strong, Yin Xingwang people are suspicious, will always think wildly, and seek trouble, will also add a lot of pressure to the other half, of course, the husband is also his own pressure, because the day sits seven kills.
Seven killings a day is bad, and official killing is mixed with a marriage that is difficult to grow.
The other half will inevitably have many shortcomings, if they are not tolerant enough, it is difficult to make the marriage happy, but there are many quarrels and contradictions.
And the Japanese branch is hanging, the book knows that the interpersonal relationship is not good in life, it is difficult to get along with people and opinions, and there are often rude things happening. Secondly, it is also unfavorable to the relationship and marriage, quarrels, mutual harm, resentment and other things are common, and they sit seven times a day, even more so.
Therefore, to change these, the key is to change their own personality, to learn to reflect on their shortcomings, to learn the lessons of the failure of the first relationship, in order to make the next relationship have a good development.
Many times, the other party's rudeness, irritability, and vicious words are often directly related to their own behavior and words, and they cannot blindly blame each other and ignore their own faults, so that they will never be changed. Understand that when all changes are sought from within, if we blindly seek from outside, it is like looking for rabbit horns, and it is ultimately empty.
Combined with the great luck, before the age of 26, it is all the great luck of soil and gold, not to be damaged or taboo, for the official seal of the great luck, ordinary, if the study is good, there are many obstacles to seeking others.
26-36 years old to walk the Pengwu Great Luck, and the Sun Pillar Decay did not coincide with the heavens, this step of the Great Luck marriage.
This noon fire lives together in the untouched land, belongs to the seven kills, the combination of seven kills, the combination of seven kills, the seven kills and one move, it is impure in the fate, resulting in the official killing mixed, and he thinks in his heart.
For you, you are not satisfied with your husband, even if you remarry, it is easy to do so, mainly because you do not see the fortune star in the fate bureau, you cannot give birth to officials, and the officials have come to give birth to your seal, and you are jealous, because you do not see the wealth to give birth to officials, you can actually not help your husband in your bones, but it is easy to be picky and disliked, which is the place to pay attention to.
After 2019, I entered the great luck of the noon fire, saw the fortune star, and it was very good to take the fortune star, and the noon did not coincide, but also for the financial officer, so it was beneficial to the cause.
In the 36-46 years of this decade, the fortune is the best, the fortune is also the best, the career luck is good, the promotion and salary increase in the ten years.
Ding is partial wealth, which leads to seven killings of the daily branch, and the fire is the positive wealth, which leads the official, and also mixes with the wealth star, and induces the official to kill and mix.
There will be side hustles, or the development of other revenue channels.
The same will lead to emotional conflicts, or the appearance of peach blossoms on their own.
After entering the 46-year-old, the fortune is weaker, and it is better to retreat into progress.
As for the great fortune of eating wounds in his later years, and the original bureau printing astrology, it is not very ideal, of course, if you do not seek it, there is no disaster.
In the 2021 ugly year to meet the current object, as long as it is also ugly, broken noon is not compatible, then there is the image of cohabitation and friendship, so you can meet the person you like.
In the year of 2022, the time to support Shenjin and the movement of the stagecoach star, so this year is prone to changes, or job changes. Due to the punching time, it is easy to get pregnant.
In 2024, entering the Ding Wei Great Luck, the career luck will be much better.
Q: Can I get married and live happily with this man (Gengwu, Gengchen, 壬戌, Pengshen)?
answer:
: Judging from his fate, the sun and moon are rushing, the noon fire is seen in the tomb, and the seven kills are more, which also reflects the marital turmoil. And she sees seven kills a day, and your daily branch is also seven kills, which means that the other half is their own pressure, and they will not be too peaceful after marriage, so they must live happily, and they must continue to cultivate their hearts, otherwise it is difficult to achieve.
From the perspective of Qi men, Yi Qi is for you, C is for him (and remarried), B + C is in the Gong Palace, then the two are together, because there is a white tiger, it is not easy to get along, and there are injuries, and there are some contradictions.
C is in the palace, C + Ding, and you are his Ding, Linteng Snake for entanglement.
From the perspective of the palace position, it is the Gong Gong Sheng Dui Palace, so you love him more, or pay more.
E for you, Geng for him, E in the Kun Palace, E + shock door, worry about their feelings, pro value symbol, then li career, or for the deputy position, small leader, value symbol for the leader, Lintian canopy star represents a person with big desires, many ideas, and is not easy to satisfy.
Geng is a boyfriend, in the Qian palace, the palace position is also you to give birth to him, so this relationship, from the beginning to the end, you have to pay more. Geng + 癸, representing private feelings, Lin Taiyin has concealment, Lintai horse is changing, Linkong death is wavering, whether to marry you, he did not think well.
Because the palace positions are all born together, so the two are currently looking at each other, and their feelings are OK. If you take the initiative, there can be results.
But from the time of questioning, for the time of the question, wei Hai Chong, and has represented this matter, has been in the earthquake palace near Xuanwu, represents deception, lies, Xuanwu also represents desire, Tianrui Xing is not satisfied, DuMen has hidden feelings, etc., he + Geng is an obstacle, so the process is not smooth.
This year, Ren Yin, rush your time to support the seal, but also to his time to support the seal, all for the move. However, for him this year, the chances of marriage are very high.
Whether you are happy after marriage depends on how you get along, whether you learn from the experience of the first marriage, and whether the other party has restrained his desires, only in this way can you be happy.
Q: If not, when will my fate appear? Is my fate doomed to an unhappy marriage and a lonely old age?
answer:
: Seven killings a day, there are definitely troubles, the boyfriend is also sitting seven kills, husband and wife are like wrongdoers, missing each other separately, and torturing each other together.
: You will not be lonely, the last thing you lack is the opposite sex fate.
Q: I know that I am more suitable for a stable job, insist on taking various certificates, 19 years into the system, 21 years of successful promotion, how is the future career luck? What are the important opportunities to take advantage of?
answer:
: Your career luck is very good, and the E + value symbol also means that there are noble people at work.
: Very good in the physique, when transported into Ding Wei, everything will be significantly improved, the future is good.
Q: My student days were too smooth, but the marriage disappointed my parents, and now I only hope that my parents will be healthy, but my father has been coughing for the past two years, and he can't see the disease when he goes to the hospital. (Father: 癸卯, 甲子, 庚戌, 丙戌; mother: 癸卯、 壬戌, 甲午、 壬申)
answer:
: Father decay year, fall away from the palace, the water to the position of the fire, it is not very good, fire Wangke jin, then the lungs are not good, and the decyl water is too weak, but also pay attention to the kidneys, decyl + dead door, the disease is a stubborn disease, decyl + B is Chinese medicine conditioning, the nine days to actively treat, Tianrui Star in the earthquake palace does not leave the palace, so there is no major obstacle.
: Decyl also represents the mother, then look at the site decay, linxiu gate, then no big trouble, good rest can be.
You are yourself, the father looks at the nong, the mother looks at the ding.
Nong in the Earthquake Palace, Xuanwu + Tianrui, is a dark disease, so there are symptoms, but can not be found.
If you want to go to the West to seek medical treatment, and there are Tengsnake in the palace, it represents abnormal means, or uses some occult arts, etc., because Tengsnake can make Xuanwu.
Ding is the mother, in the Sunda Palace, it seems that the problem is not big, Ding + nine land, healthy and stable.
Life Advice:
Man has the root of five great troubles in this life, and all contradictions and wrongs originate from this, the first is greed, the second is hatred, the third is foolishness, the fourth is arrogance, and the fifth is doubt.
The main culprits who destroy the feelings of husband and wife are often caused by arrogance and suspicion.
Once the husband and wife are arrogant, there is no one in sight, disrespect the husband, disrespect the wife, do not want to bow their heads when they encounter contradictions, even if they are wrong, they are not willing to admit it, so arrogant and arrogant, and eventually make the husband and wife have two hearts, until they part ways.
The second is doubt, why I want to talk about this, because many marriages, especially in middle age, mostly corrupt their feelings because of doubt.
Regardless of men and women, when dealing with feelings, but the desire to possess is too strong, the desire to control is too heavy, and the suspicion is repeatedly increased, and eventually the marriage has no good results, and the husband and wife have no good end.
Every quarrel, if it is not related to arrogance, must be related to doubt.
How do couples get along? This is a kind of learning, and there is no fixed theory, because people are different from each other, there are various laws, the key is to suit themselves, but everything is not separated from its sect, nothing more than respect, sincerity, tolerance based on the three words.
The so-called respect, means that husband and wife should respect each other when they get along, saying more words such as 'please, thank you, and gratitude', so that the other half can feel respected and grateful.
The so-called sincerity, for husband and wife to be frank with each other, but also to timely pour out their hearts, but also to learn to listen, many contradictions, are stopped at communication, but began with suspicion.
The so-called tolerance, it means that the husband and wife should tolerate each other, everyone has shortcomings, but also naturally have advantages, in the face of advantages to learn to praise, and in the face of shortcomings to give tolerance, if the shortcomings are serious, then at the right time with the appropriate method to point out, in the criticism of each other, first reflect on themselves, so that the other party can accept peacefully, and correct.
A person's greatest happiness does not come from career achievements, but from family harmony. Only family harmony can truly feel happy and joyful, and at this time, no matter how tired the body is, how much hardship it suffers, or how many blows it bears, the heart is satisfied.
The ancients said: "Foolish people fear women, and virtuous women respect their husbands", which is the way for husbands and wives to get along.
What is a fool? It can be understood as an infatuated person, or a person who is extremely infatuated, so that he will be afraid of his wife, dare not point out his wife's shortcomings, even if the wife makes unreasonable demands, does not dare to refuse, which will only lead to arrogance and make the wife do a lot of wrong things, and will also cause countless family conflicts.
We should respect our wives, not fear, because if we are afraid, our homes are not like home, and it is difficult for husband and wife to get along as equals, and there are natural contradictions.
The correct attitude towards the wife should be to salute first and then salute, and it is even more important to understand the wife's difficulty, but also to point out the wife's shortcomings, and at the same time reflect on yourself and change it together.
And a virtuous woman knows how to respect her wife, knows how to give her husband enough face, does not hurt her husband's self-esteem, knows how to understand her husband, believes in her husband, such a woman is a virtuous wife, can help her husband realize his dreams, can also improve himself, and does not become a layman.
What kind of woman Is von Fu? According to my observation, virtuous women are all wangfu, and the arrogant people are many losers.
It seems that the fate of the character leads to, the actual character, what kind of character, what kind of husband, and what kind of husband, and what kind of life.
Zeng Guofan said that people should always have a "respectful" heart, go out like going to see a big person, can respect all things, so that they are humble, away from disputes, and add peace.
Husband and wife need respect, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law also need respect, and juniors also need respect, if you can show respect everywhere, then there will be no contradictions and right and wrong.
But if you lose respect, you are arrogant and rude everywhere, do not respect the husband and wife, do not know how to understand and trust, so that even the best feelings, it is difficult to maintain for a long time, in the end, it is not too much to be arrogant.
Not only must we have independent thoughts ourselves, but we must also know how to respect the thoughts of others, and if there is conflict, we should seek common ground while reserving differences, only in this way can we stay away from right and wrong, and make true harmony.
It is the most difficult for people to get along with each other, not to mention the couples who get along day and night, it is even more difficult, only by staying away from arrogance, selfishness, powerlessness, and jealousy can we make the marriage happy and let the feelings continue.
Final Study: Written by Li Shuanglin himself
On the eighteenth day of March of the year of Nongyin
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Li Shuanglin Tongsheng: Solar calendar April 21, 2022 horoscope broadcast
Li Shuanglin Tongsheng: Thursday, April 21, 2022 (21st of the third month of the lunar calendar). Stem branches: 壬寅, 甲辰, 甲辰.
Good luck on the day
Weekdays: Kui Su, Jianri, Eight White Stars Pro Sun.
Ji Shen: Green Dragon, Jade Yu, Shou Ri.
Fierceness: Yue jian, Tufu, moon punishment, three funerals.
Suitable: sacrifice, travel, meeting friends, tailoring, perching, sweeping houses.
Taboo: build, move the soil.
Zodiac colors
On that day, Dali belonged to cattle, sheep, monkeys, rats, and chickens.
Do not use Pepsi for dogs and rabbits.
Shipping colors: yellow, white, black daji.
Note: If something must be done, you can refer to the zodiac year, such as the zodiac, you can do it, and vice versa, you must be cautious. As for the color of the luck, the daily dressing can be used as a reference, for the noble color of the day, the luck of the nobles.
The location is auspicious
Yoshikata March:
Tiande is in nongfang, and Yuede is in nongfang. Tiandehe is in Dingfang, and Yuedehe is in Dingfang. The moon is on the Gengfang side, and the moon is on the C side. Shi Xian sun after qingming in Xinfang, Gu Yu after the unitary side. The Heavenly Emperor is in the departure side, and the Heavenly Emperor is in the Kan side. The three-element sun is in the kan, and the yin is shaking. The Heavenly Forgiveness Star is shaking, and the Heavenly Solution Star is in Sundanese. Yang nobles are in Kan, and Yin nobles are dry.
Purple and white flying star: one white star is in the northwest, six white stars are in the southwest, eight white stars are in the southeast, and nine purple stars are in the middle.
This month's funeral is great: Yin, A, 卯, B, Chen, Kun.
Dali Shufang: 寅, A, 卯, B, 辰, 坤.
March Killer:
The moon is broken in the side of the moon. The three brakes were not squared in the middle of the day. The main yin house is in the Genxun side, and the side yin house is in the prosin side. The monthly punishment is in the Tatsukata side, and the moon is in the 卯方. The Heavenly Official Fu is in the Qianhai Fang, and the Diguan Fu is in the Gengyou Xin Fang. The big moon is built in the Bing Wu Ding fang, and the small moon is built in the Gengyou Xin fang. The funeral door is in Kun, the white tiger is in Gong, and the five yellows are in Kan. The sword blade is in Sundanese.
This month's fetal god side: the fetal god is in the door hall.
Kyrgyzstan on the day:
The nobles are in the northeast and southwest; Lu Shen is in the northeast, stagecoach is in the northeast, and Wenchang is in the southeast. One white star is in the west, six white stars are in the east, eight white stars are in the middle, and nine purple stars are in the northwest.
The murderer of the day:
Sanxu is in the south, Wuhuang is in the southwest, it is not appropriate to build in The Ding, Weiwei, Kunshen fang, move the soil, Anmen, Anzao, An bed and so on.
The fetal god is in the gate and the south, and pregnant women at home do not move this side, which is easy to be unfavorable to the fetus.
Twelve o'clock
Jia Zi 4, B Ugly 5, Bing Yin 6, Ding Di 7,
Peng Chen 8, Ji Wei 9, GengWu 1, Xin Wei 2,
Nongshen 3, 癸酉4, 甲戌5, 乙海6.
The ugly time of the day, the time of the day, the time of the untime, the auspicious time of the sea.
Unfavorable sub-time, 卯時, 辰時, 戌時凶.
The rest of the time.
Note: After the winter solstice, all go straight into Shunfei, the above numbers are purple and white, all are shunbu nine palaces, such as 1 white into the middle, and then 2 black to dry and so on.
Baby's birthday
The Lord of the Day is Komu, who was born in tatsuzuki and lost his order, and nichi Tatsuto lost his land. Nian Zhi Yin wood is its far root, tian dry water wood to help, the yen is still weak. But it is not very weak, after all, the soil is angry, and the Komu in March, with its lush foliage, also needs to see a little gold, but Jin Taiwang is not auspicious, so the time is optional: Gengwu, Yingyin.
Shichen Gengwu: Although Gengjin is killed, it can be carved into wood to make it timbered, and the noon fire can also be adjusted, so Gengjin can be used.
Shichen Bingyin: C fire warm and leaky show, Yin Mu Lu god for its roots, eight characters of heaven dry water and wood are all there, but the lack of a little gold is difficult to become a beam, because the wood is more and stubborn, secondary use.
On the whole, the noon hour is better.
Eight-character brief analysis:
Komu yen, the earth branch has roots, rooted in the tatsu soil, the heavenly stem has water to moisten it, and it is also seen that Gengjin is carved and beneficial to talent. Partial wealth is ordered, the noon fire wounds the official to make money, the source of wealth is abundant, the eight characters are rich, and it is better than robbing to help the body and overcome it, so it is the information that can get rich. Seven kills are highly penetrating, intelligent, and good for reputation. Therefore, it is easy to gain fame and fortune.
In terms of marital feelings, than the information of robbery and emotional competition, male life should pay more attention to the early emotional competition relationship, but full of talented people. Seven kills for the husband, sitting in the afternoon to burn the officer, indicating that he has the ability to control the husband, the official has the moon birth, the momentum is not weak, so the ability of both sides is relatively strong, can rely on the husband, rely on the husband and expensive.
Judging from the great fortune, the life of women is better.
Recommended eight characters: (recommendation index three stars)
壬寅 甲辰 甲辰 庚午
With God: Mizuki
Jealousy: Fire Earth
Male Fate Fortune: Otomi Bing Wu Ding Wei Peng Shen Heying Geng.
Five-element arrangement: wood fire fire fire fire earth earth gold earth gold earth.
Great Fortune of Female Life: 癸卯壬寅辛ug Gengzi 己海戊戌.
Five-element arrangement: Mizuki Mizuki, Mizuki, Jintu, Water, Soil, Water, Soil, Water, Soil, Water, Soil, Water, Soil, Water,
Daily class review
On weekdays, it is generally feasible for civil affairs. Every month to build a tufu, it is not appropriate to build the soil, and it is not necessary to use major events. Wuhuang is in the southwest, and it is not appropriate to build ground.
Construct the direction of The Mountain of TheOde, the Direction of the Noon Mountain, and the Direction of the Dingshan Decanter. The fierce party cannot be violated, and cannot be used unless it is regulated. The cultivator can repair the southeast, not the northwest, and not good for the dog.
Today's fetal god is in the door perch, and pregnant women at home should not move this side, do not knock and smash, move scissors, move objects, etc., which is easy to be unfavorable to fetal pregnant women.
Daily lesson trivia
Rokuyo (3)
During the Ming and Qing dynasties, it has already appeared in official almanacs, and it is also more popular when it is a folk, and now it is common in Hong Kong and Taiwan's book of choosing a day.
Xiao Ji:
Xiao Ji is Ji Chang, and it is good to discuss on the road.
Yin Nong came to announce the good news, and the lost property was in Kun Fang.
Pedestrians arrive immediately, and the crossing is very strong.
All things are in harmony, and the sick pray to heaven.
Death:
The empty death is unknown, and the yin people are more obedient.
There is no profit in seeking wealth, and pedestrians are in trouble.
Lost property cannot be found, and there are criminal wounds in the official affairs.
The patient encounters a dark ghost and relieves Security Kang.
Therefore, in summary:
Daan, Suxi, and Xiaoji are auspicious.
Liu Lian, Chi Kou, and Empty Death are the murderers.
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