We often say that falling out of love is painful. The disappearance of a relationship brings not only sadness and loss, but also regret and reluctance.
People who really use their hearts, even after breaking up, will still repeat the habit of falling in love.
Even if he had long understood that the two had nothing to do with each other, he still couldn't help but miss each other, and even involuntarily paid attention to each other.
I once heard such a passage:
After the girl broke up, she still missed her ex-boyfriend. After learning that her ex-boyfriend was in love again, she tried her best to find the girl's QQ number and frequently entered each other's QQ space.
Unexpectedly, a few days later, the QQ system reminded her: "Because you and xxx have visited each other for more than three days..." At that moment, the girl was embarrassed to the point of toe buckle, eager to go back to a few days ago and strangle herself.
Paragraphs may be made up, but similar behavior exists in real life.
For example, in a video I once watched, at the beginning of the video, he was still laughing and playing with his friends, but when he saw his oncoming ex-girlfriend, he involuntarily stopped, and even his eyes turned red. If his friends hadn't pulled him away in time, maybe he would have collapsed into tears.
This kind of scene is sad and makes people understand the obsession in love.
It may not be difficult to move, but it is not so simple to let go. Forgetting someone who has been deeply loved, this kind of heartache and grievance will linger in the heart until a long time later.
So, even if we break up, we can't conclude that there is no longer any possibility between each other. If you can still find this detail after the breakup, it means that the other party has not put it down, and the two still have the possibility of continuing.
After a breakup, silence doesn't mean the other person has forgotten you
Wang Lihong has a song that goes like this: "The lover's total score is divided and combined, but the more we love, the deeper we love..."
Although many people say that they have broken up, their attitude is not so crisp. They will still be in touch with their exs and will even be entangled.
The reason for this is nothing more than that two people still have feelings.
Each other wants to continue to be with each other, so there will be concerns, there will be no letting go, and then some interaction.
But if you don't connect, does that really mean you don't love?
Not.
Silence, sometimes just the protective color of some people. After the breakup, they do not take the initiative to contact, not because they are desperate, but because they are afraid.
Because they are afraid that the other party really does not love, afraid that they will not get any response when they pay, they choose to escape.
Lemon and Chen Yang broke up, and the relationship between the two for seven years could not withstand the distance of more than 500 kilometers. At first, both were adamant, believing that distance was not an issue. But when they are not together for a long time, their lives cannot be synchronized, and the sense of trust between them is in jeopardy. After the last argument, the two chose to break up.
After the breakup, they didn't contact each other again, and they all thought that the other party had completely let go. But as their friends, they know that they are still worried about each other, and they are still trying their best to inquire about each other's news.
It's like a message I've seen online: "I can't put it down right now." Although I never reached out to him, I always learned about his current situation from friends. Sometimes I really wanted to ask him 'how was he doing', but I was afraid of my presence, which was a distraction to him. ”
Silence, in fact, is not that you don't want to talk, but you don't dare to speak.
Some people do not say a word after the breakup, seemingly indifferent and heartless, but in fact, his heart has long been turbulent.
Love will eventually triumph over inner timidity and push each other to connect again
Because they are afraid, they will always run away?
Not really. Love has a magic power that makes cowards warriors.
After the breakup, the two may have a period of silence. During this time, the two seem to let go of everything and begin to welcome a new life.
But in fact, their hearts have long begun to struggle, especially after finding that their lives are missing a corner, they can't wait to find each other and restore their original lives.
So, they began to reminisce, to recall the original good life; then, they began to regret that they should not impulsively break up; finally, they continued to struggle, on the one hand, desperately inquiring about each other's news, on the other hand, they vigorously denied that they still cared about each other.
As time passed, sooner or later he would pick up his mobile phone, click on the avatar that he had not been in touch for a long time, and begin to probe.
Some people say that a good gathering and a good dispersion is the right way, but some people obviously can't forget each other, but they still insist on going their own way and have to leave, and it is too much of a pity that such a relationship ends.
After the breakup, if you find that the other party is still paying attention to your information, it means that he has not forgotten you, and there is still a possibility of continuing between you.
Is it to break through all obstacles and continue to be together? Or do you forget and never look back? What kind of choices will you make?