After becoming a mother, I know what is called touching and what is called unforgettable touching. Pregnant in October, once in childbirth, watching this doll that she worked so hard to give birth to really made my mother say that I was moved.
Of course, when the child began to speak, when he first called out to his mother and father, how excited we were! Such a feeling can only be deeply felt by parents.
However, when it comes to children speaking, some mothers are very dazed and anxious, because the child is already very large, but he has not opened his mouth to call out to his father and mother, of course, when encountering such a child, the mother will also take the child, the first time to go to the examination, but through the examination, the doctor said that there is no problem with the child's language development, so why do some children not speak at the age of speaking? Since there is no problem with the language development system, is there a problem with the child's IQ?
To answer this question from mothers, we must first understand the laws of children's language development. Newborn babies have no other way to communicate with their parents than to cry, but as the child enters 1 to 3 months, the baby will make simple vowels or vowels.
And the baby came to 4 to 6 months, they can be under the correct guidance of the parents, slowly try to send out the scale of the father or mother, of course, some children spit words very clearly, some children's pronunciation is not so clear, but it does not matter, at this stage as long as the child can make such a sound as mom and dad, it proves that the parents still play a role in the child's language guidance.
Babies 7 to 9 months old begin to enter a stage of imitation, at this time they will imitate some of the more mischievous tones of people around them, making some attractive sounds. At 10 to 12 months, our children don't just learn how to call people? And you can pronounce some simple words.
Whose child is one year old? At this time, the baby begins to grasp some words, and can understand the instructions of adults.
What about babies after one and a half years? Their vocabulary will grow rapidly and they will be able to understand the meaning of some word combinations, and even some babies will already be able to express their needs very clearly. By understanding these stages of the baby's language development, we can understand that the child really starts to learn from nine months, and when speaking, the mother must do a good job at this time, and remember to do a good job in the training of the child's language.
As for the fact that everyone often says that children open their mouths late and are related to intelligence? There is no scientific judgment here. But what is certain is that if a child has not yet opened his mouth to make a voice until he is two years old, and if he passes the examination and does not have a French language barrier, then it can only be said that the child may have other reasons, such as the sound of speaking to others, and cannot respond, it is likely that the child has congenital hearing impairment.
Of course, there are also some children who are unable to respond to their parents' behavior and language, which is likely to be a manifestation of autism in children. Excluding the interference of these diseases, parents must do the following points, which can help children improve their language expression ability.
1. Locale
No matter how smart the child is, you need to give the child a learning environment, and since you have to learn a language, you must also have a language environment. When a child is born, surrounded by various dialects or languages of various countries, then your child will have a very good language sensitivity when they grow up in the future. Since learning a language later in life, it will be much easier than other children.
2. Encouragement from family members
Remember that the bear award is actually inseparable from the patient companionship of someone around, that with their closest people around, if you often reward yourself and praise yourself, it will also help children quickly master and learn printing skills. And those who are not willing to talk, have no interest in talking, often lack of autonomy and initiative, in the face of such children, parental encouragement is important.
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