Hoping for a son to become a dragon and a daughter to become a phoenix is the dream of every parent. As parents, we all hope that their children will not lose at the starting line, so every parent does their best to create conditions for their children to stand at a higher starting point as much as possible.
So how do you teach by example as a parent?
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Words: Language is a bridge of communication
In family education, word transmission is the foundation, that is, through language, children learn some knowledge and thinking methods to achieve growth, which requires parents and children to communicate more to educate.
First of all, it is very important to create a good atmosphere, and now parents are busy with work every day, and can only take a small amount of time to communicate with their children during the day, which is not conducive to the growth of children. After work, parents should be more with their children, you can turn off the TV, accompany your children to do more games, or talk about whether there are some interesting things happening today, and so on, there is enough communication, then talk about the requirements and suggestions for children, children will be easier to accept.
Then in communication, do not compare the child with other children, which will hit the child's self-confidence, we must often encourage the child, recognize the child, cultivate the child's self-confidence, have patience with the cultivation of the child, and do not make too many requests at one time. It is also very important to instill the correct learning concept in children, usually you can accompany your children to do more intellectual test questions, brain teasers, edutainment, experience the fun of learning with children, and develop children's desire to learn.
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Teaching by example: Lead by example
In addition to word transmission, what is more important in family education is to teach by example, that is, to lead by example, to be a good example for children, to let children learn from themselves, what kind of person you want your children to become, first of all, you have to become what kind of person you have to be. Therefore, in ordinary life, parents should pay more attention to how to play an example role for their children.
In real life, parents should always pay attention to their words and deeds in front of their children, know that they are their children's role models, and must lead by example to educate their children, such as: seeing the elderly or pregnant women on the bus to take the initiative to give up their seats; Be orderly when queuing and do not cut in line; When crossing the road, you must obey the traffic lights, so that the child looks at it and feels that the parents are doing this, and of course they will learn to do it, and in the long run, the child will get better and better.
As Mr. Tao Xingzhi said: "Society is school, life is education." Every word we say in life and make every decision we make will become the code of conduct for children in the future, which is referred to by "words and deeds".
Well, the above is the content shared today, if you feel that it is helpful to you on the road of educating children, I hope you can share it with friends who are troubled by this, and we will escort the growth of children together.
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