Having a child is not an easy task, and this kind of hardship can only be understood by those who have experienced it. And from pregnancy to childbirth, women's hearts will change dramatically, and childbirth is definitely a very memorable thing for them, and some pregnant women are not as smooth as expected when giving birth, and at this time, the difference between mother-in-law and mother-in-law can be seen.
Ms. Liu has been pregnant for a while, seeing her belly getting bigger and bigger, Ms. Liu still has some excitement, after all, this is the first time to give birth to a child, so Ms. Liu also has a lot of fantasies about this child. But then something happened that caused Ms. Liu's body to appear very passive. Finally, on the day of giving birth, Ms. Liu happily entered the delivery room.
But I didn't expect the next scene, but it made Ms. Liu feel very helpless, that is, Ms. Liu actually encountered shoulder dystocia. The doctor felt that the problem was very tricky, so he quickly came out and told it. At this time, Ms. Liu's mother-in-law said: "There is nothing wrong with the child, right? As long as the child can be born, it is nothing! ”
After the doctor heard the words of Ms. Liu's mother-in-law, he suddenly felt that Ms. Liu's mother-in-law was really too cold-blooded, and should not the safety of the mother be guaranteed at this time? It was also at this time that Ms. Liu's mother also said a word and immediately stood up.
Only to see Ms. Liu's mother said to the doctor: "No matter what, we must ensure the safety of the mother, thank you doctor." The doctor also understood the meaning of Ms. Liu's mother, so he quickly fell into the rescue. Fortunately, Neither Ms. Liu nor the child had much of a problem, which is also a relatively fortunate result.
In fact, this is a very simple example, when women have difficult childbirth when giving birth, the performance of mother-in-law and mother-in-law is often relatively large. So why is there such a difference?
Why is there such a difference?
In fact, many pregnant women have left a deep impression on this matter, and we can understand a lot of truth from these details. The reason why there is this difference is because for mothers-in-law, these mothers-in-law value the children in the daughter-in-law's belly, because this is a new life for the family. For their mothers, they care more about their daughters.
Because everyone is a woman, the mother can naturally understand the pain of childbirth, so when she understands that her daughter has accepted so much pain, her heart must be very painful and worried. Although such a statement is not conducive to getting along with the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, there is one thing that is undeniable, and most of the situations in real life are like this.
In the eyes of the mother-in-law, the daughter-in-law is like an outsider, even if the daughter-in-law is pregnant and has difficult childbirth, the mother-in-law will not behave so distressed. Because in contrast, the child in the daughter-in-law's belly will be more important.
Not only childbirth, the life of the mother after childbirth, there will be a certain difference between the mother and the mother-in-law
When children come into this world, it is best to choose to feed them with breast milk, because breast milk is relatively the most natural and healthy food. But for the mother, breastfeeding is definitely a very painful process, because at this time the female body is often more fragile, so the most important thing to do at this time is to take a good rest, and then breastfeeding work.
At this time, the difference between the mother and the mother-in-law will be revealed, during the period of female recuperation, usually the mother will prepare some food to supplement the body's energy for the woman, because this can ensure the rapid recovery of the mother's body. At this time, the mother-in-law will often prepare some milk-inducing food for the daughter-in-law, because the mother-in-law will be very worried that the child will not be able to eat milk.
In terms of raising children, the appearance of mother-in-law and mother-in-law is also different, the most common is that mother-in-law is more concerned about whether the daughter-in-law takes good care of the child. Because what they are most worried about is the condition of their children, they do not worry about the situation of adults at all. And sometimes the mother-in-law will also see that the daughter-in-law is not pleasing to the eye, even if the daughter-in-law is in confinement, they will not share some things for the daughter-in-law.
At this time, the appearance of the mother is different, they will care more about the feelings of their daughters, they do not want their daughters to be too tired, so sometimes they will come forward to help their daughters share the pressure of their daughters.
Therefore, through these angles, it can be seen that the difference between the mother-in-law and the mother-in-law is very large, which is entirely because of the different positions, so the emotional level is also different. Of course, even so, there is no need to blindly blame the mother-in-law, and only by getting along with the mother-in-law can the mother-in-law be able to ensure that there will be no big problems in the next few days.