Introduction: What does marriage bring to women and what does it bring to men? In the past, men often said, why do they always say that women are wronged in marriage, is they not under much pressure? Only by experiencing it firsthand knows that women are indeed more difficult than men!
The variety show "Spring Day Late Departure", which has been popular during this time, has attracted many people who are married, even those who are not married. Since the first program, Wu Yating, a guest, has deeply attracted the audience.
Through the performance in the program, it can be found that Wu Yating is a very generous person, considerate in life, and especially good at taking care of people. Everyone thinks that Wu Yating is the big sister in the show, thinking that she is a particularly strong person, in fact, she also hides inferiority in her bones.
In the latest episode, guests asked questions about who to focus on through a voice changer, and David chose Wu Yating. Everyone who has watched the show knows that Lu Ying has a good feeling for David, and can even be said to be an undisguised liking, but the other party only regards her as a sister.
David, the boy, because of the unhappiness of the original family, leads to the whole person is very unconfident, he needs a lover who can warm each other, not a lover who needs to be taken care of. Many viewers felt that he and Wu Yating were particularly suitable.
However, in the dialogue, Wu Yating said that she was not qualified to accept love anymore, and she could not face her body. She talked about some of her postpartum changes, as feeding her child caused her chest to sag, her abdomen to accumulate, and her stomach to leave scars from caesarean section.
Because of these changes, Wu Yating is very unconfident in love, and she believes that if two people fall in love, she will be even more unable to accept such an imperfect self. To love someone, I want to give her the best of everything, but such a self is no longer perfect.
Wu Yating's mentality is actually reflected in many divorced mothers, who believe that they have been divorced and are flawed in the eyes of others. If there is a good man who likes her at this time, it will only make her more inferior and not want to drag the other party down.
Wu Yating, who was originally lively and generous, said these words, but it made people feel painful. In fact, in the previous show, she also talked about this issue, after the divorce she did not dare to go on a blind date again, and the marriage left her too much unconfidence.
Even if the society develops, we all emphasize the equality of men and women, but in real life, men and women are not equal. Women are not easy to find a job after marriage, the company is afraid that you will get pregnant when you first join the job, and even if you have a child, the company is worried that you take care of the child too much chores.
Men are much more confident than women, and they seem to have nothing to lose in that marriage, at most money. What women lose is physical and mental things, which are difficult to measure in money.
It does not mean that men do not pay, in some happy marriage families, husband and wife take care of children together, husbands and wives, mother-in-law also get along, women's damage in all aspects will be reduced, but such families are too few.
Before Wu Yating got married, she must have been a bright girl, and she could only say that she really suffered a lot of blows. We have no right to blame her ex because we have no personal experience and only hope she can untie the knot.
Conclusion: Stars and ordinary people are actually the same, they are just labeled, with an aura. The problems encountered in everyone's marriage, they will also encounter, there will also be confusion and lack of confidence, but we must believe that the light will always shine into your life, because you are worth it!