After being a mother, the most wonderful thing is to go to the child's bedroom every morning and wake him up from bed.
But if you find out that his clothes and quilt are wet, you're sure to break down and say, "My God, he wet the bed!" ”
stop! Don't yell at the kids! "Aren't you ashamed?" "How old are you?" This kind of words can only be said in your own mind, do not tell others about your child peeing.
Because the matter of children wetting beds is very "weird", the more dissatisfied the adults are, the more they wet the bed!
Bedwetting is a trivial matter, but if not handled properly, the consequences can be severe.
I used to have a friend who wet the bed at home, was taken as a joke by her grandmother, and then was known to the neighbors, which made her very embarrassed.
Every day after school, on the way home, she always hopes that the people around her can disappear, so that others will not look at her strangely.
Her anxiety haunted her all the time, and her parents sought her a lot of doctors, but they didn't get better, and even when she was in elementary school, she would wet the bed.
It is also strange to say that when she was close to junior high school, she and her parents moved to a new house, no longer living with her grandmother, surrounded by new neighbors, and her "bedwetting history" was no longer known, which made her feel that she had "regained her life", and during a summer vacation, she changed her habit of bedwetting.
Therefore, the bedwetting thing really can't all be blamed on the child.
Children's emotions are very sensitive, if they are scolded, ridiculed and insulted by their parents after bedwetting, it will aggravate their worries, making it more difficult for them to change the bad problems of bedwetting, and they will wet the bed in their teens.
Calm, in fact, it is normal for children to wet the bed!
Bedwetting in children is a very common thing, and before the age of three, it is basically bedwetting.
According to the American Pediatric Association, 10% of 5-year-olds are 7-year-olds and 5% are still bedwetted;
So, if your baby can wet the bed, don't care too much, maybe you don't say anything, just change his clothes, he will not wet the bed.
Most of the time, parental understanding and tolerance are the primary factors in reducing bedwetting in children.
How can a baby wet the bed?
There are many reasons why children wet their beds:
1. Bladder hypoplasia, urine storage is not as much as that of adults.
2. Excessive drinking of water before going to bed at night, high water content in diet.
3. The impact of the living environment, such as moving, or changing caregivers.
4. The child is sick or stressed (e.g. going to school).
5. The child psychologically feels that he is not liked by his parents and is not valued.
6. There is a family history of bedwetting, and parents or family members have bedwetting at a very young age.
What should parents do when a child wets the bed?
1. The baby cannot hold urine when he is a child
Because the child has no experience of holding urine, the bladder sphincter cannot be exercised, so symptoms such as frequent urination and bedwetting will appear.
Therefore, when the child is still very young, it is best not to urinate.
2. Wait
Usually, as a child's body develops, the function of the bladder gradually matures and bedwetting decreases.
This requires children and parents to wait patiently.
3. Adjustment of living habits
Before going to bed at night, try to avoid giving your baby water, and don't eat too many fruits with high water content, such as watermelon, cantaloupe, oranges, pears, etc.
4. Practice going to the toilet at an appropriate time
Studies have shown that many babies start training before 18 months and don't defecate on their own until they are 4 years old;
In contrast, children who have been exercising since the age of 2 can go to the toilet on their own by the age of 3.
Teach your child to go to the toilet during the day, and at night, you can let your child put on diapers.
If you don't have much urine for several days in a row, or if you don't have any diapers at all, you can also avoid using diapers at night.
5. Reassure the child
Tell your child that bedwetting is not a big deal and you don't have to feel ashamed.
If your child wants you to keep it a secret for him, then we must obey his words and not let him have any psychological burden.
6, pay more attention to children
As mentioned above, bedwetting can also occur when a child feels lost, sick, or feels unnoticed by their parents.
It is recommended that parents spend more time with their children, so that they can feel your love for them, and when their anxiety is alleviated, they will no longer have bedwetting.