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The second issue tells you about an experience of flying, when I happened to be on a business trip and traveled alone.
I sat in the aisle, next to a mother and daughter, well dressed, the little girl was only six or seven years old, and her mother had good skin.
During the flight, the little girl was a little airsick, and the little girl's mother took out the plastic bag she carried with her and told the little girl to hold it herself, spit in the plastic bag, and not to stain the seat.
The mother gently discussed with me whether she could change the position for them to sit in the aisle, in case the child couldn't help but throw up, so that she could go to the bathroom to clean up.
I readily agreed.
After changing seats, the little girl took the initiative to take a package of Peppa Pig biscuits to give to me, and said generously: "Thank you sister and I for changing seats, I have caused you trouble, I hope you can accept my Peppa Pig biscuits, this cookie is particularly delicious." ”
I happily brought out my own little snack and gave it to her in exchange, and she thanked her sweetly.
Probably knowing that her daughter was sick with motion sickness, the mother wanted to distract her by chatting.
"Mom, why am I so uncomfortable?"
"Because the plane is so fast, you have something in your ear called the vestibule that can't keep your balance, and you faint."
"Why does Mom fly a plane?"
"Because of the shape of the aircraft, the air flow rate above is fast, the air flow rate below is slow, and the pressure where the flow rate is slow is large, and the aircraft is supported like a hand."
"So why do you have bandages on the plane?" Is the plane broken? Are we still safe? ”
"This is difficult to the mother, the mother does not know eh, let's remember this problem first, wait until the plane to check with the mobile phone to check it okay?"
At that moment, I thought that adults always like to create omniscient and all-round images when their children are young.
Perhaps when you are young, parents do seem to be able to do anything in front of their children, and seem to be omnipotent. When you encounter a problem that will not be solved, you will be coaxed and deceived, and even impatiently reprimand and send off the child.
All in all, they are determined not to admit in front of their children that they can't do it anyway.
In fact, what they don't know is that children will grow up one day, their accumulation of knowledge will only be faster than their parents, and they will one day understand that "all-knowing and all-powerful" parents are simply false and non-existent.
The collapse of the image of authority is accompanied by the rebellion of adolescence. They move from one extreme to the other, from partiality to parentalism to complete doubt and confrontation with parents.
At this time, parents will be furious and start to say that their children are disobedient, but they have no idea how unfair and unreasonable the monopoly of authority in those years is to the children, and how much harm the collapse of the perfect image of omniscience and omnipotence is to the children.
It is better to be honest with the child from the beginning, and confess to the child that "I will not", "I can't do it", "but we can progress together", so that the child can accept the imperfect parents and themselves.