Last Wednesday with sugar candy in the community to play, actually met the upstairs first-grade beanie also play outside, a question to know, beanie is sick again, burned for several days, today just point, the mother took downstairs to breathe.
Doudou's mother said to me depressedly, "Doudou is too disturbed in this school, since the beginning of the first grade, she has been sick and fever for three days, and constantly asked for leave to rest." He always said that going to school was not fun, no one paid attention to himself, and he didn't want to go. ”
Doudou Mom said regretfully, "I communicated with The Teacher Ofdou, and the teacher said that his main problem was that he had not been to kindergarten, and I really regret it now." ”
Listen to Doudou's mother, Doudou actually went to kindergarten, but only went to kindergarten for 2 and a half months, in these two and a half months, Doudou fell ill and had a fever as soon as she went to kindergarten, and the whole family was very distressed. In the end, my mother thought that it was useless to go to kindergarten, so she sent Doudou back to her hometown and was brought to 6 years old by her grandmother.
Unexpectedly, Doudou eventually suffered the loss of not going to kindergarten. Is it really that important to go to kindergarten?
Many people think that when a child is in kindergarten, it is actually a change of place and let the teacher help watch. They just play every day, and it doesn't make much sense to go up or down.
If you think so, you are wrong!
When you go to kindergarten, your child will face their first separation from their parents and start a life of facing a new environment alone. In the kindergarten, the child is not only singing, playing, learning knowledge so simple, it can be said that in the kindergarten, the child's various abilities will be comprehensively and rapidly improved, not the kindergarten baby really can not be compared!
1, can not improve the body's ability to prevent resistance
When many babies first started kindergarten, they were sick for three days, why?
The child is at home, taken care of by the family every day, and the environment exposed to is relatively clean and hygienic, so it has always been healthy.
However, after entering the kindergarten, the whole class of more than a dozen, twenty children, the living environment is more complicated, it is easy to cross infection, children are like small flowers in the greenhouse, suddenly experienced the wind and rain is definitely not adaptable.
But if the child can stick to it, basically from the second semester, the three days of illness will be significantly reduced. That is to say, the child's body begins to slowly adapt to the environment and establish a strong immune system.
Like Doudou, who has never experienced this kind of resistance construction, his state after entering elementary school is the same as the state when other babies first enter kindergarten, and they urgently need a process of adaptation.
Therefore, the child is always sick after entering the kindergarten, don't panic, grit your teeth and insist on sending, the child will soon adjust his own state and adapt to the kindergarten.
2, can not cultivate good habits, for the primary school to lay the foundation
In kindergarten, children who cannot eat by themselves can eat independently; they can undress themselves and go to the toilet; they will dress themselves when they take a nap; children begin to be more polite; they know to raise their hands first when answering questions; and the bad habit of staying up at night is gone.
It seems that these small habits are not remarkable, they are all laying a solid foundation for children to enter primary school.
Many parents find that their children will return to the old way after a long vacation, because their children are at home, basically eating to open their mouths and stretch out their hands. But in kindergarten, everything depends on yourself.
Children at home, parents take good care of children, especially in families with generational education, many elderly people like to take care of their children.
Kindergarten is the best time to develop good habits, it is helping children to become an independent person, to learn the various small abilities of self-care and self-reliance.
3. Poor social skills of children
Children who are used to being with their families are introverted and do not know how to get along with people. In kindergarten, children are different.
They are with children of the same age every day, living a collective life, they need to use their wisdom and ability to meet new friends, integrate into an unfamiliar environment, in this process, the child's social skills, adaptability to improve rapidly, in the future after entering primary school, he can also quickly adapt to primary school life, and classmates mingled.
4, there is no sense of rules
Parents bring up their own babies, often have a poor sense of rules, are free and loose, do not follow instructions, and it is difficult to communicate with teachers.
Kindergarten children, on the other hand, have understood the basic rules of class, can understand the teacher's requirements, and can abide by the rules of the class and the school. In other words, the most basic foundation for schooling has been laid. Just follow the lesson and you're OK.
British psychologist Sylvia said: The real success of parents is to let their children separate from your life as an independent individual as soon as possible. The sooner this separation, the more successful you will be.
Although family education is important, the education provided to children in kindergartens is incomparable to family education.
Do not underestimate kindergarten education, many of the child's character and wisdom are formed at this stage. Therefore, when the child is 3-6 years old, it is still necessary to focus on school education, family education assistance, and home co-education to help children lay a good foundation for entering primary school in the future.