Pregnant in October, she gave birth.
This is what most of us are familiar with in fertility, and it is also a necessary step for a new life to come to earth. So, what if you're four years pregnant?
You might say, that's not a Nezha!
If something abnormal happens, it must be a demon, and if you can stay in the mother's body for four years, it is certainly not an ordinary person, is it not the reincarnation of a god? But in a small village on the coast of Shanghai, there really happened that such a strange thing happened when a woman was pregnant for four years, but she could not wait for the birth of the child.
"How long has she been pregnant?"
"It's been four years"
"Has this been the case for the past four years?"
"Yes, it's always been like that, the kids just don't come out."
This is a dialogue between the reporter who went to the interview and the husband of the peasant woman, Mr. Li (pseudonym), who is four years pregnant but cannot give birth to a child for a long time, which is his wife, Ms. Liu (pseudonym).
However, the strangeness is far more than this, although the child in Ms. Liu's belly is not born, she can understand people's words, and can even communicate with adults outside across her belly.
For example, if someone on the outside says something, if he agrees, he will respond by kicking his belly, and vice versa.
This sounds like a fantasy, and anyone who has received nine years of compulsory education should not be able to accept such a statement, and the reporter who went to interview Ms. Liu and her husband was certainly no exception.
To this end, she specifically thought of a way to verify, to ensure that it is not Ms. Liu who is tricking the ghost, before the verification, the reporter specially covered Ms. Liu's eyes with gauze to ensure that she could not see anything. After that, the reporter took out a comb and kept shaking it on Ms. Liu's belly, but the name of other items was said on her mouth.
food? cell phone? The belly does not react at all. But when the reporter said the two words of the comb, a magical thing happened, and Ms. Liu's belly began to shake violently, as if in response to the reporter's words, which made the reporter petrified on the spot, extremely shocked.
What's going on here?
01 Asking for a child for many years, I was pregnant
Time back to four years ago, that is, one day in 2005, this couple who had been dependent on each other for many years and had a good relationship were eating lunch at home, who expected that at the dinner table, Ms. Liu, who had just eaten a few bites, began to nauseous and vomit.
"Is the dish not washed?" Or are you unwell and sick? “
Married for many years, Mr. Li has been very concerned about Ms. Liu, in the eyes of the neighbors, the two of them are also a proper model couple, seeing his beloved wife like this, Mr. Li is naturally very anxious to catch fire, he gently followed his wife's back, poured water to rinse her mouth, and waited until his wife's symptoms improved.
Fortunately, soon the symptoms of his wife's discomfort disappeared, a false alarm, and neither of them paid attention to it, but what the couple did not expect was that the vomiting on this day was only a precursor, and in the next period of time, Ms. Liu's body had a more unusual reaction.
She began to become particularly spicy, sometimes exaggerating to the point that a small bowl of rice should be accompanied by a large bowl of chili peppers, otherwise she would feel tasteless and difficult to swallow. In addition, she also loves to eat sour, and there must be a dish on the dinner table every day that is so sour that ordinary people are difficult to swallow, like overturning a vinegar bottle.
As the saying goes: sour and spicy women, and Ms. Liu's diet structure has changed so dramatically in such a short period of time, it seems that there is only one possibility: she is pregnant.
But Ms. Liu is already over forty years old, and the eldest daughter of the couple is already an 18-year-old girl, after many years, she finally has to have her own child again?
Having a son has always been the biggest wish of Ms. Liu and her husband, as a rural couple with a more traditional ideology, they are very eager to have a boy to support the door of the family, but there is a heart to plant flowers and flowers, the two have sought medical treatment for many years, searched for countless famous doctors, Chinese medicine and Western medicine have tried over and over again, Ms. Liu's stomach, but it is delayed to see movement, this time let the husband and wife both extremely depressed.
Thinking of this, Ms. Liu was extremely excited, the couple begged for children for many years without results, and finally became pregnant, it must be God's apparition, but at this time, Ms. Liu did not dare to be sure of the fact that she was pregnant, just guessed, rushed to tell her husband and was afraid of her husband's disappointment, had to tentatively inform her husband of her guess.
"I see my symptoms are similar to pregnancy, or should we check them out?"
Hearing these words, the husband of the unbunded years laughed like an unworldly child, did he finally wait for this day? That being the case, it is natural to hurry up and do a test to determine the fact of pregnancy.
The two rushed to a Chinese medicine clinic with a nervous mood, and for Mr. Li, the few minutes waiting for his wife's examination results seemed to be longer than a century.
"Congratulations, it's a happy pulse."
After the completion of the pulse, the doctor immediately said the couple's long-awaited words, which made the big stone hanging in the hearts of the two people completely put down, happy to the point of no return, the hard work of many years of seeking a son was indeed not in vain, the wife was really pregnant, the two finally had to have their own son, Mr. Li almost jumped up, on the way back was more careful, afraid that Ms. Liu was bumping.
Because Ms. Liu is over forty years old and belongs to the advanced maternal age, women at this age are more dangerous in medicine, so since it was determined that she was pregnant, Mr. Li has covered all the big things and small things in the family, and has not let her do anything, Ms. Liu has only one task, that is, to concentrate on raising the fetus and give birth to the child safely.
No matter what his wife wants to eat and what she wants, Mr. Li does his best to meet it, as long as his wife can give birth to a healthy and healthy fat boy, then his wife is the hero of the Li family.
02 Four years pregnant With a prodigy
However, as the time of delivery is getting closer and closer, strange things have happened, Ms. Liu's stomach has never reacted at all, even if it has reached the near due date, the child can not be born, which can be anxious to Mr. Li's family.
Advanced maternal age? Kids are special? Or is it something else?
Mr. Li's family thought of countless possibilities and decided to wait, but a month has passed, two months have passed, the fetus in the abdomen is as stable as Mount Tai, and there is no movement, and Ms. Liu's body does not have any discomfort.
What should I do? Therefore, the husband and wife had to come to the Chinese Medicine Hospital again and conduct another examination, but the results of the examination dispelled the doubts and tension in their hearts. The doctor told them that the child is very healthy, there is no problem, the reason why the child has not been born in the due date, it may be that the fetus grows slowly, so that the two patiently wait for a period of time, as long as the child develops well, it will be born, the so-called melon ripe.
Seeing that the doctor said this, the couple did not doubt that they had him, went home and patiently raised the fetus, waiting for the day when the melon was ripe and fell.
But who knows, it is four years.
In 2009, Ms. Liu still has a big belly, waiting for the birth of the child, Mr. Li still takes care of his wife meticulously, and Ms. Liu's bizarre experience of being pregnant for four years but delaying in giving birth has also become a strange thing in the local area.
According to normal logic, if the fetus stays in the mother for more than 42 weeks, it will be dangerous, which is not a good thing for adults and children. But Ms. Liu has been pregnant for four years, but she can eat and sleep, and her body is great, which makes many people envious.
As long as the neighbors around them mention the child that Ms. Liu is pregnant with, they all have a mysterious color, they think that Ms. Liu's child is not extraordinary, and they think that Nezha was also pregnant for three years and eight months before being born, which is even more magical.
Thinking that the child in Ms. Liu's belly can indeed communicate with people, the reporter also felt incredible. Could it be that I was wrong? Is there really such a magical thing in this world? Is there really one Nezha in Ms. Liu's belly? But shock to shock, things have reached this point, I am afraid that only with the help of science can we find out the truth, so the reporter took Ms. Liu to the hospital, wanting to do further verification.
03 There are many opinions B super verification
Pregnant for four years, it can be described as a long-term anecdote, Ms. Liu just arrived at the hospital, it caused a fierce discussion among everyone. Some people speculate that she has a tumor in her stomach, some people say that she may be simply fat, and some people think that the fetus may have died in the abdomen, after all, these conditions have happened before.
So, with all kinds of questions, the doctor began to conduct a comprehensive examination of Ms. Liu's stomach, but all the examinations were done again, but no trace of the fetus was found, and the doctor finally concluded that there was no child in Ms. Liu's stomach, that is, Ms. Liu was not pregnant at all.
But for such a result, Ms. Liu obviously can not accept, after all, the reporter at home has also done experiments on her stomach, and then said that she does have symptoms when she is pregnant, and the physiological period has been many years in the future, this is not pregnancy What is it?
In order to further find the truth of the matter, the reporter plans to take Ms. Liu to do the B ultrasound, after all, the instrument can not deceive people, what is in Ms. Liu's stomach, X-ray, it is clear, but for the reporter's proposal, Ms. Liu is quite rejected, she insisted that the baby in the stomach said to herself that she did not want to come to the hospital, fortunately, under the patient persuasion of people around her, she finally reluctantly agreed.
Who expected the final result, but let everyone be surprised, the test results showed that Ms. Liu was not pregnant at all, she had nothing in her stomach except a thick layer of fat. But such a result is obviously unacceptable to Ms. Liu and her husband, they have been waiting for four years, ready for the birth of the child, how can the child say that it is gone? Even though the matter had come to this point, the doctor kept repeating the fact that Ms. Liu was not pregnant, but the couple still could not accept it.
Even not only Ms. Liu, but even her husband, Mr. Li, has always insisted that the baby in her belly exists.
When she walked to the door, Ms. Liu turned back to the reporter and said something like this: "Do you know why I don't want to come to the hospital and don't want to do a check-up?" Before coming, my child told me that if he came to the hospital he would be in danger! ”
This made the reporter have a momentary trance, at this moment it was obviously a hot summer day, but she was momentarily sweaty and upside down, and felt that her back was cold.
Seeing that the husband and wife are so persistent, insisting on believing in a child that does not exist, anyone who persuades is useless, the reporter guessed another possibility, the mental state of the couple, there may be some kind of problem, in order to find out the origin of the matter, and then the reporter took them to find a psychologist, began to do psychological counseling and counseling, in the face of the psychologist's good temptation, Ms. Liu finally opened her heart, to the doctor to tell the doctor the knot hidden in her heart for many years.
04 The Truth Comes Out The Heart Knot Is Hard to Understand
All this has to start from 1991, when the two were just married.
After the two got married, the relationship was very good, the husband Mr. Li worked outside to earn money to support the family, the wife Ms. Liu took care of the family, diligent and thrifty, the two people's small life was tasteful, married for many years even quarrels are rare, has always been a loving couple in the village.
After marriage a few years, the daughter was born, the two are more poured all their love into the daughter, the birth of the daughter makes this happy small family more complete, it is a gratifying thing, but who expected the feudal and conservative mother-in-law is not satisfied, for the mother-in-law, the girl is a money loser, growing up is always the person of the family, and only the boy can pass on the generations, the ignorant mother-in-law does not understand that the birth of boys and girls is determined by chromosomes, she just blindly mocks the daughter-in-law, always at home pointing out mulberry and scolding locust, He didn't even have a good look on his own son.
In this regard, Ms. Liu took all the guilt on herself, and the better her husband was to herself, the deeper her guilt became, and over time, the idea of having a son for her husband was always in her mind.
The husband and wife have also begun a long way to seek medical treatment, large hospitals and small hospitals, whether regular medicines or home remedies, have tried again and again, but perhaps because the children are thin, Ms. Liu's stomach has never moved, which can be anxious Ms. Liu, until four years ago, Ms. Liu finally had a pregnancy reaction.
And this so-called pregnancy reaction, in fact, in the final analysis, is that she is too eager to have a child, and in the long run, she has caused a strong sense of anxiety in herself psychologically, and this anxiety has led to nausea, vomiting and physical discomfort.
According to the psychologist, the root cause of all this is that the couple is too eager for the child, so that this desire eventually becomes a psychological disease, which is what we often call hysteria, too persistent, too eager, but partial and unattainable, such an emotional pull torments Ms. Liu, so that she slowly gave birth to the idea that she really has a child, and serious mental illness will cause a series of symptoms in the body.
And the so-called child, the so-called fetal movement, but are Ms. Liu's self-confusion and confusion of others illusion, she subconsciously believes that there is a child in her belly, she also understands that there is no basis for empty mouth, four years can not be born of the child around the people around the inevitable suspicious, so in order to make this dream more complete and realistic, she herself forged the fetal movement, in order to prove that the child is indeed in the stomach of this statement.
The lie is told a thousand times, and finally it becomes the truth. Perhaps Ms. Liu was clear at the beginning of the fact that she was not pregnant, but in the end, in the face of her husband's expectant eyes, she could not tell the truth no matter what, and simply deceived to the end, and this deception, even she herself entered the drama, she also began to hold unrealistic fantasies.
As Ms. Liu's husband, a normal adult man, does Mr. Li not have his own judgment on this matter? Maybe he has, but the care is chaotic, the desire for children also makes his sanity disappear, and more importantly, even if he knows the truth in his heart, how can he bear to expose his beloved wife?
This reminds me of the story in Maggie's gift, where the wife sold her long hair that she had left for many years in order to buy gifts for her husband, and the husband also sold the watch he had treasured for many years in order to buy a gift for his wife. As a result, when the wife and husband each brought out their own gifts, it made people cry and laugh, the wife bought a watch strap, and the husband bought a comb.
Because of love, we always want to give the most perfect things to each other, but life cannot be all-encompassing, how can life be fully satisfactory? Everything is only half-satisfied.
This bubble, which has been woven for four years, was punctured in this instant, and Ms. Liu and her husband both hung their heads in a daze, but the reality is cold and cruel, and we must finally learn to accept it.