I believe that many parents have encountered the situation that their children lack patience, and they will lose their temper and make their children at every turn, such as when the child builds blocks, if it has not been set up well, it is easy to lose patience, and then it will lose patience to the parents, and finally let the parents how to coax it is useless.
If your child is in this situation frequently, it shows that he lacks patience, how should parents deal with this situation?
1. Parents lead by example
If your child is always acting impatient, parents may wish to reflect on whether they have such a situation.
Because some parents are like this, the requirements for children to do things are often head and tail, subtly affecting children, which leads to children becoming such people, so in order to avoid this situation, parents must require children to do things from beginning to end, so that they can cultivate children's good habits of doing things and cultivate children's patience.
2. Hone your child's patience
The child's patience is tempered, if it is in a good situation, the child's patience may be difficult to cultivate, so parents may wish to appropriately set some obstacles for the child, create some opportunities to overcome difficulties, so that you can better cultivate the child's patience.
Children in the process of overcoming difficulties, parents need to encourage children, give them the courage to overcome difficulties, when the child completes a thing, parents also need to give the child praise in time, so as to strengthen the child's habit of doing things from beginning to end, which is good for the child's future growth.
3. Apply the principle of delayed gratification
When the child is hungry, some parents will immediately prepare food for the child; when the child is thirsty, some parents will immediately give the child water to drink; when the child wants a toy, the parent will immediately buy it for the child.
For these situations, parents may wish to appropriately apply the principle of delayed gratification, that is, when the child makes these requirements, parents can delay it, and this waiting process can also cultivate the child's patience.
Of course, parents pay attention to the appropriate use, such as when the child is hungry when it is not at the meal point, the parents can wait a little and then give the child something to eat; if it is the time to eat, the child is hungry, the parents will not let the child wait anymore.
4. Communicate more with your child
Want to cultivate the child's patience, parents also need to pay attention to more communication with the child, for example, when the child loses patience because the building block is not good, parents should patiently communicate with the child, to tell the child that anger can not solve the problem, and then accompany the child to find the problem, and finally solve it together, so that it is more effective for cultivating the child's patience, more useful than simply and rudely denying or scolding the child.
Therefore, parents should not think that communication with children has no effect, or fear that children will not understand, although the child's expression ability and comprehension ability has not yet fully reached the state of adulthood, but in fact, they can perceive the meaning that parents want to express.
It can be seen that it is necessary to communicate more with children.
Cultivating children's patience is very important, under normal circumstances, patient children will be more likely to succeed in doing things, it will benefit children for life, so parents must not ignore the power of patience, must take the time to cultivate children's patience.