The four years of university life are rich and colorful, and students arrange a variety of activities for their university life. In our cognition, college students have escaped from twelve years of test-taking education and can finally be bold in themselves. During the university period, of course, we must be unbridled in youth to live up to Shaohua. It is very common for college students to fall in love, and the average parent will not stop it.
College students who fall in love will not only not be ridiculed, but also envied. Finally, you can talk about a love affair in an open and honest way, and the little couple in high school can also walk on the street holding hands with honor. The reason why college entrance examination students want to enter the university is largely because the university life is too beautiful and they are very much looking forward to it.
Parental discipline is too strict, 985 Juncai can not find a girlfriend
A boy's parent said a word to the boy who had already entered the university, trying to make himself fall in love more during college. Her son, a high-caliber student who graduated from 985, has good appearance and good work. However, until the thirties have not talked about the object, parents can only arrange blind dates, let the child off the list.
Such a good person should not be unable to find an object. The reason is because parents are very strict in managing their children, and during their children's schooling, their academic requirements are particularly high. After going to college, parents also forbade their children to fall in love in order to make achievements in their studies. So during college, the boy missed a lot of opportunities to fall in love.
Boys are disciplined for a long time, and they get used to it. During the study period, I completely followed the instructions of my parents and did not fall in love. The scary problem is that the guy didn't fall in love during college, didn't fall in love at work, and was single until his thirties.
Parents are worried when their children are supposed to start a family, but they don't see that he has a girlfriend. After understanding, it was found that boys had no opportunity to contact female colleagues at all, and there were few additional social activities in their daily lives except for the two points and one line of work and family. If you don't know girls, you won't have a chance to find someone.
Parents have spoken their minds, and boys must find a partner in college
Such things are not in the minority, and many boys have such problems. Some parents see such a phenomenon and break through the problems in one word. When boys are in college, they must talk more about love and try to find a girlfriend. When it comes to work, it is difficult to find a girlfriend.
In college, boys and girls are still in a relatively simple stage, and the love at this time is based on mutual liking. In addition to the heartbeat, do not mix with anything else, once the boy and girl fall in love, they will be together regardless of the disregard. And whether it is from the age of both sides, or academically matched, it can be said to be the perfect ideal object.
Wait until graduation and enter the society. People consider that the problem becomes complicated, and girls looking for a boyfriend is more about whether boys can take on the responsibilities of the family. Boys also look for girls based on the fact that girls should not be too material. Moreover, the two sides do not understand each other, and can only see clearly through long-term contact, and when they find that it is not appropriate, it has been delayed for a long time.
Many college couples will also choose to break up when they graduate because of different places of work. Many people feel that falling in love during college cannot go to the end and has no meaning. In fact, although the two cannot go to the end, they can accumulate love experience and make their direction clearer in choosing a life partner in the future.
College couples are polarized and have a lot to do with social reality
We walk into the campus now and occasionally see campus couples. But a closer look reveals that there is a very strange phenomenon among college couples. People who yearn for love during college will be placed one after another, and people who do not yearn for love will even greet the opposite sex in four years of college.
The reason for this phenomenon is simple, and behind it is a social reality. People who yearn for love are less likely to think about their future after graduation. They value life more in the moment, but there's a problem with it, and that's that their love is built on impulses. Feelings come and go quickly, and when they find another person who makes them feel good, they will immediately change their goals.
Groups that do not yearn for love are for future employment considerations. I think that the current social employment competition is cruel, more time is still to prepare for the public examination and other content, the university is just four years, to improve their studies. Can't waste time elsewhere. College students fall in love more vigorously, and loving a person to death is often what can happen in this time period.
During college, you must have a correct understanding of love, and if you really meet someone who makes your heart move, try the taste of love. Many things are not waiting for you to be ready will come, love is about fate, and when you are ready, the person who makes your heart move is gone, is not a pity. And don't be too greedy for pleasure and disregard your future. College students are already adults, and they must know how to arrange their lives rationally.
All in all, it is still relatively easy for boys to find a partner during college, and if they really wait for work, they may not be satisfied with the object they are looking for. Finally find a matching person to marry and have children, and life is not necessarily happy. So boys should be more active in love and give themselves a good love memory when they are in college.