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Since ancient times, the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been an unsolved problem. Due to the different situations of each family, the root causes of contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are also different, but in real life, many mother-in-law and daughter-in-law contradictions do not occur in the daily relationship between the two children after marriage, but occur before marriage, or even on the wedding. Not long ago, some netizens exposed a picture of a wedding they attended. In the picture, the mother-in-law's dress has triggered a lot of hot discussion among netizens, and some people even think that the wonderful appearance of the mother-in-law will directly trigger the contradiction between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the future. The mother-in-law wore a leaky shoulder dress to attend her son's wedding, and netizens questioned: Is this stealing the bride's limelight?
Nowadays, with the improvement of living standards, many women of the mother's generation are very concerned about maintenance, so as long as they dress up a little on important occasions, they can quickly reduce their age and make themselves look young and beautiful. But the important occasions here also need to be reasonably distinguished, some occasions can be unscrupulous to show charm, but some occasions are not suitable for dressing up high-profile, otherwise they will be accused of stealing the limelight of the heroine. The mother-in-law in the picture is caught in such a hot discussion on the Internet, because she chose a dark blue shoulder-leaking dress when attending her son's wedding, which perfectly outlines the mother-in-law's good figure and highlights her noble and elegant temperament. As the father's parent, when the mother-in-law and the father-in-law appeared together, due to their outstanding appearance, they instantly became the focus of the audience. But this scene has also triggered a heated discussion among many netizens, some people think that the mother-in-law is dressed up both noble and dignified, indicating that it attaches great importance to the wedding of the son, and there is no problem with such dressing, but it is still very posture. However, there are also many netizens who think that in the wedding of the little couple, the bride is the heroine, and the mother-in-law's dress obviously steals the limelight of the bride. "I don't think there's anything wrong with it, women should be so beautiful and confident, besides, the mother-in-law is wearing dark clothes, which is a very low-key color." "The mother-in-law contradiction probably comes from this, the wedding is a woman's most important moment, and anyone who knows a little bit about it should know that the only protagonist of this highlight moment can only be the bride."
"It's not that she's not wearing a good dress, but she shouldn't be in a big position, after all, her mother-in-law is not the protagonist of the day." "This mother-in-law can't tell the occasion, usually dressed no matter how good no one says anything, but the son's wedding is not appropriate to wear it like this, I don't know if I think the mother-in-law is the bride!" Nowadays, with the development of the times, there are more and more young and beautiful mothers-in-law, as a woman in the new era, of course, there is no problem in paying attention to image management, but as a parent, when attending the wedding of their children, dress should still maintain certain principles. When children get married, what issues should elders pay attention to when choosing clothes? 1. Avoid dressing up too gorgeous In general, the protagonist of the wedding is the bride, so whether it is the mother-in-law or the mother, on the wedding day, we must avoid dressing too gorgeously to prevent the suspicion of "stealing the limelight". In terms of wearing, the elders can choose the dark color of the cheongsam, dress, such as date red, dark blue, etc., dark color of the clothes not only will not be too eye-catching, but also can set off the feminine temperament and dignity.
2. Avoiding the style of clothing exposing children's marriage is a big thing, so many parents will dress up carefully at their children's weddings, and mothers will even try some clothing styles that they usually dare not try. Although these clothes can outline the good figure of mothers, but this kind of clothes is not suitable for appearing in the wedding scene of their children, as parents, they only need to present a dignified and stable image to the guests on the day, otherwise the overly eye-catching dress will be noisy, causing the bride to be dissatisfied and discussed by the guests. 3. Communication with children before the wedding The reason why some mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will be unpleasant at the wedding is because both parties have not carried out some necessary communication before the wedding, such communication includes the process of parents and children determining the wedding, the two sides check the speech, and the expectant mother-in-law shares the dress she will wear at the wedding to the daughter-in-law for reference. If parents and children communicate harmoniously before marriage, there will be no unexpected embarrassment between the two parties. Good times are always short, thank you for reading here, I hope the story between us will continue, Xiaobian is ready to listen here, is your story ready?