Whether in TV dramas or in real life, in some people's impressions, once men and women talk about feelings, the reality is always women. No house, no car, no marriage, no job, no talk, parents have no pension to consider again, the real estate certificate does not add the woman's name is a scumbag. It is undeniable that compared with feelings, some women pay more attention to material conditions, but there are also many women who do not mind struggling with men when choosing a mate, as long as the other party is good. So this does not mean that all women are realistic, and men are not all romantic lovers who give their all for their feelings. There are three aspects of feelings in which men are more realistic than women!
First, career. The appeal of a well-paid, glamorous job to men is enormous. The relatives of men with successful careers are envious of their neighbors, and they have a lot of face when they go out. When a man is faced with career and emotional choices, he tends to be entangled, which is also a common human feeling. Most of the time, a man will choose a career, which doesn't mean he doesn't love you, it's just that career is more important in his mind than you. If your own ability is limited, the opportunity is just one. After catching it, there is no worry about food and clothing, can not be caught, even if it is with you, it will regret it every day and complain that you have dragged your feet, do not have to be harsh, do not regret it. When encountering such words, politely say goodbye, feelings are what you love and I want, there is no need to force and possess.
Second, parents. Not every couple goes to see their parents and it goes well. Work, appearance, height, income will all affect his parents' attitude towards you. Some men are ostensibly an adult with a job and an income, but in fact, they are still a child who has not been weaned psychologically, and his parents think that you are busy with work and worry that you will not have time to take care of your children in the future, so he will force you to change jobs in a hurry. His parents blame you for coming to the house without doing housework, and he keeps telling you the great truth of the three from the four virtues. In short, any of his parents' demands on you are reasonable, and if you oppose it, you are ignorant and unvirtuous.
Third, family. Marriage is not only a match between a man and a woman, but also a mutual choice between two families. A long life, want to live happily, look at each other's family situation before marriage, look at the character and personality of the other party's family, this is normal, but some men will focus on money. When you find out that you have a younger brother or brother in your family, turn around and ask, will you borrow money from them to buy a house in the future, for fear that you will be dragged down by them with you. In their hearts, marriage is only a life investment, and you are chosen in order to have a return in the future, so you must not lose money. Such a person cannot say that he does not love you, but can only say that he values practical interests more than he loves you.
In marriage, there is not only love, but also the righteousness of taking care of each other, the tacit understanding of not abandoning and the unforgettable kindness. Adult love is not to say that a few sweet words can last forever, it is to support each other, it is to tolerate each other, and it is the hand that will always reach out to you in time when you are in the mire. The man who truly loves you, in front of reality and you, will always choose you firmly!