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Jiamin's first blind date was a graduate student, also from the countryside, Jiamin 35, he was 36, one year older than Jiamin, working as a lecturer in a vocational school, the income was not high, living in the staff dormitory, did not buy a house or a car.
Just met before a few words of greeting, he asked Jiamin if he could be a full-time mother after marriage.
Jiamin said that her parents were willing to help with the children and that she could always go to work.
He said with a smirk that he was not at ease with the old people in the countryside with children, and Jiamin had gone to college, and the children should be brought by themselves.
JiaMin blurted out: Your salary is so low, you can't support a family of three!
Unexpectedly, he actually said without a face: Your parents can support us, they don't have sons, aren't all your savings for you?
This blind date instantly refreshed Jiamin's three views, and after this side, Jiamin was blacked out.
.2.
Later, Jiamin's boss introduced Jiamin to one.
Divorce without children, said because the ex-wife has no fertility, the in-laws are not satisfied, forced divorce, just leave.
Then when they met, the man was afraid of suffering a big loss, and even asked JiaMin if he would like to get pregnant before getting a license, and said that his parents must find a woman who is healthy and can have children.
He said that as long as she is pregnant, she will immediately get a license, and when she is pregnant with a license, she will definitely give Jiamin a beautiful wedding.
He also gave Jiamin a detailed description of their family's property, several suites, several shops, and so on. He said, you don't have to work so hard to make money when you marry me, and you can't spend your family's money in three lifetimes...
He wore a pair of black-rimmed glasses, Sven held the milk tea, took a sip from time to time, and sat across from Jiamin barabala in a large pile, and before he could finish speaking, Jiamin fled with his bag.
The two blind date experiences have deeply shocked Jiamin, and she no longer has the heart to find a partner.
Jiamin is still preoccupied with work, in fact, as long as she is not anxious about marriage, Jiamin's life is very cool.
.3.
This afternoon, JiaMin was in a meeting at the company to arrange the next quarter's work tasks, the mobile phone was muted, when I inadvertently looked at the mobile phone, I saw Jiamin's mother suddenly making several consecutive calls, Jiamin thought that something had happened, and quickly returned the phone.
Her mother said anxiously that her father and Uncle Zhang, who was a security guard downstairs, had a fight. After hearing this, Jiamin immediately took leave and went home to rush back.
By the time JiaMin arrived breathlessly at the door of the community, the two old men had already been pulled away by the onlookers. Uncle Zhang scolded Jia Min's father and said, "Your girl is 35 years old and not married, no one wants it, because she is as immoral as you!" ”
Jiamin's father also scolded back: "Take care of yourself, your son is married and away, your grandson is not with your family, you are still remarkable!" ”
In this way, you and I have to quarrel with each other, Jia Min's father and Uncle Zhang played chess with a group of people in the security room of the community, and somehow the two quarreled, the louder and louder, and finally rose to personal attacks, and finally fought.
Jiamin and her mother quickly persuaded and dragged Jiamin's father back home, and when they returned home, Jiamin's father lost his temper with Jiamin, saying that Jiamin was not angry, 35 years old and not married, let others see the joke, causing themselves to be bullied by others, so that their family could not look up in front of others.
.4.
Jiamin did not dare to speak, because in any case, the final contradiction was that she was not married and was older.
From childhood to adulthood, Jiamin has always been well-behaved and sensible, and has never let her parents worry about it. Jiamin came all the way from the countryside, went to college to find a job, bought a car and a house, and was more worry-free than other people's sons.
However, her parents are close to old age, and Jiamin has been unmarried but has become a major worry for her parents. Jiamin, 35 years old, has been a department head in a design company for more than 10 years, due to busy work and frequent overtime, Jiamin has not found a partner, so that her parents can't look up in front of relatives and friends.
Jiamin's father shouted at Jiamin, "What's the use of you making so much money?" Whose girl of such an age does not marry! ”
JiaMin is not standing, sitting is not, now she is at home, even breathing is wrong, simply and quickly hide back in the room.
Jia Min thought about it again and again, thinking that her parents were right, it was not a matter of being so single, she really couldn't delay any longer, and if she dragged on, the ovaries would all fail, and when the time came to give birth to children, it would be completely finished.
So Jiamin decided to go on a blind date.
Originally thought, I have a house and a car, but also have financial ability, and I don't expect men to support themselves, and my appearance is not bad, so I can't find it.
As a result, two objects were kissed in a row, allowing Jiamin to completely destroy the three views, and since then there has been a shadow on the blind date. Jiamin still thinks too simply, a woman, no matter how good your financial conditions are, but as long as you are old, you are the one being negotiated.
.5.
After work one day, Jiamin met Uncle Zhang in the underground garage who had fought with her father before, and he smiled and greeted Jiamin and apologized.
Jia Min quickly nodded his head and said that they were all acquaintances, they did not pay attention to their hearts, and asked Uncle Zhang not to go to his heart.
Uncle Zhang said in a flash that he wanted to introduce jiamin to the objects, all of whom were acquaintances and friends, and he also hoped that jiamin would set up a family as soon as possible, and everyone would be assured. Jia Min did not want to resign repeatedly, so he should go down.
The man introduced by Uncle Zhang is a veteran, named Li Ming, who has partnered with a friend to open a security training company to send qualified security personnel to local and surrounding city hotel communities and other places, there are houses and cars, parents take pensions, and the economic conditions are still OK.
Li Ming is mature and steady, and he will come to things, only to see each other twice, he has all become acquainted with Jiamin's friends and colleagues, and they all praise him for his successful career and kindness, saying that Jiamin is really lucky when he meets him.
.6.
Once, after watching the movie, Li Ming said that he wanted to take Jiamin home to meet his parents, because the movie theater was close to his home, and Jiamin agreed.
But after all, it is the first time to see his parents, always can not come to the door empty-handed, Jiamin thought about how much to buy something, but after watching the movie is not early, the big supermarket is also closed, Jiamin bought a pair of wine and two cigarettes in a famous tobacco hotel, and gave it to his parents as a greeting gift.
When Li Ming's parents returned, Li Ming said that his parents praised Jiamin for being capable and sensible, and they were very satisfied with Jiamin. The relationship between the two went one step further so smoothly.
Jia Min thought that since he had all seen his parents, he would simply let him meet his parents, and good things would come into pairs. So Jiamin and Li Ming agreed to go to Jiamin's house after work the next day, and also let Li Ming meet his parents.
At this sight, with the exposure of some details of Li Ming, Jia Min was not calm again, and his heart deserved it incomparably.
Author Nannan, focus on the field of emotions to create and share, with emotions to communicate with you and my soul, but I hope you and I know each other here, like please pay attention to me.