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The 56-year-old Zeng Hui has been living in a home in Zhuzhou City, and his wife Huang Lila hacked him and played with the disappearance of the human world, which made Zeng Hui feel that he was cheating on marriage.
Zeng Hui and Huang Li have been married for 5 years, and initially disliked Huang Li, after all, Huang Li weighed nearly 200 pounds, and his appearance was not proud, but this family affair was the line that his sister Zeng Pei helped him.
Because Huang Li's mother told Zeng Pei that Huang Li has a commercial house in Changsha City, and there are more than 20 houses for rent, with an annual rent of hundreds of thousands, not to mention that Huang Li is only 40 years old, maybe she can give Zeng Hui a son?
Impressed by this favorable material conditions, Zeng Hui and Huang Li ripped off the marriage certificate on May 15, 2017 after only one meal, which can be called the speed of flash marriage.
Huang Li just passed the door, the 17th made a request to Zeng Hui's house, the name is to see sincerity, at that time, the Zeng family was obsessed, so they added Huang Li's name to Zeng Hui's real estate certificate.
As a result, after passing through the door, Huang Li did not cook a meal for Zeng Hui, and even basically did not live at home, Zeng Hui's salary was all given to Huang Li, and in August 2019, Huang Li asked for money to buy a car, and Huang Li actually turned her face.
After that, Huang Li returned to her mother's house and never went home again, Zeng Hui now wants to divorce, and the divorce appeal is to let Huang Li return 130,000 wages to him, as well as remove the name of the real estate certificate.
But Huang Li has been avoiding Zeng Hui, Zeng Hui had to ask for help from the radio emotional mediator, and took his sister Zeng Pei to the home of Huang Li's mother Zhou Suying, but no matter how to call the door, no one inside answered.
A few people came to the Huang family's so-called "20 rental houses", which was an old staff dormitory, huang mother did contract it at the beginning, and now there are 5 rooms left in her hand, and the monthly rent is only five or six hundred, which is not worth anything at all.
The matchmaker who was originally matchmaking also lived in the dormitory, she said bluntly that she was also deceived by the Huang family, and dozens of pairs of successful matchmaking were successfully matched, and the first time she overturned the ship.
The most regrettable is the Zeng family, after the original marriage, Zeng Hui's old father felt that Huang Li's family conditions were good, in order to let his family also have face, he added Huang Li's name to the real estate certificate.
Her sister Zeng Pei, while Zeng Hui and Huang Li were working at the same company, suggested that both of them be paid to Huang Lika.
The operations of these operation fans of the Zeng family now seem to be self-destructive family businesses.
The next day, the mediator took Zeng Pei to the Huang family again and knocked on the door, 82-year-old Zhou Suying saw that it was Zeng Pei and quarreled, and then the two moved their hands, and the mediator persuaded Zeng Pei to leave first.
For the Zeng family to accuse their own family of cheating on marriage, Zhou Suying was not good, she told the adjuster, this is the Zeng family beat a rake, cheating on the marriage is obviously the Zeng family.
Zhou Suying said that his family conditions are good, he opened a restaurant on Wuyi Road when he was young, then there were millions of deposits, and his two sons and daughters bought houses and cars by themselves.
Daughter Huang Li once had a marriage, but her ex-husband was idle and left, and after the Zeng family inquired about their own conditions, Zeng Peitian came to the door every day and exaggerated his brother Zeng Hui.
Zhou Suying wanted to let her daughter find a dependency, so she married her daughter, how to marry after finding that Zeng Hui was too wooden, not at all like Zeng Peiquan, but the two did not plan to divorce.
In Zhou Suying's view, Zeng Pei is the main reason for the breakdown of the marriage of his daughter and son-in-law, when Zeng Hui bought a car, he gave Zeng Hui 30,000 yuan, and he borrowed 80,000 yuan from his sister, and later this money was not repaid, Zeng Pei was angry that his daughter cheated her brother's salary.
Zhou Suying believes that the reason why Zeng Pei is so concerned about her brother's divorce is that she wants to get back the 80,000 yuan she borrowed from her brother, but this is the debt of their sister and brother, and what does it have to do with the Huang family?
Zhou Suying admitted that her daughter had Zeng Hui's salary of tens of thousands, but not so much as 130,000, as for the house, it must be divided after divorce, after all, it is a legal couple.
Zeng Hui is an honest and generous person, and Zeng Pei is a very strong woman, she has to decide everything for her brother, when she learned of Zhou Suying's attitude from the mediator, she called Zeng Hui to come and solve it, but Zeng Hui did not want to come.
Zeng Hui said that his 130,000 salary can not be wanted, as long as it is not divided into houses, hearing this, Zeng Pei scolded Zeng Hui, scolding him for not showing up.
Zeng Hui once had a marriage, but also because of Mu Ne's honesty and divorced, Zeng Pei was afraid that she would suffer losses, so he made the second marriage for him.
Finally, the mediator finally dialed Huang Li's phone.
Huang Li said that she had no feelings for Zeng Hui, she was the master of her mother for herself, and she also wanted to live a peaceful life, but she could not get along with Zeng Hui of Mune at all, and the next step could only go through legal procedures and end this marriage as soon as possible.
Zeng Hui and Huang Li's marriage, not to talk about who cheated on whom, but to know too little, get married too quickly, and finally find that it is completely incompatible.
Huang Li's family conditions are indeed better than Zeng Hui's, at least 20 suites were true, even if it was only a dilapidated staff dormitory, at least the rent was considerable, even if there were 5 sets left in hand today.
However, the conditions of the Huang family are not as good as Zhou's mother boasted, after all, the Huang family had money at the beginning, and now it has fallen, otherwise Huang Li would not go out to work with Zeng Hui, which has a certain gap for the Zeng family.
But Huang Li's mother, Zhou Suying, once gave her son-in-law 30,000 yuan to buy a car, saying that the Huang family could not talk about it without a dime.
And the Zeng family can't talk about deceiving Huang Li, at least they put the name of the house on Huang Li's name, and Zeng Hui also handed over his salary to Huang Li, and it seems that he also wants to live a good life.
Why do both parties accuse each other of cheating on marriage? Because there is no affection for each other, this illusion is caused, but think about it, the two sides have only eaten one meal when they met, and they got married without understanding each other, how can there be feelings?
An honest mune, an unsented one, and both divorced and suffered emotional injuries, what spark can collide?
The root cause of the tragedy lies in the excessive involvement of relatives on both sides, arranged marriages, and chaotic Mandarin duck scores.
Zeng Hui and Huang Li did not like each other, their marriage was not their own decision, and they did not even have a voice.
Zeng Hui's marriage was all arranged by her sister Zeng Pei, who originally inquired about the huang family's conditions and took the initiative to ask for media, and it was also she who exaggerated her brother in front of Zhou Suying and impressed the Huang family.
And Huang Li's marriage was all arranged by her mother Zhou Suying, who deliberately exaggerated the family conditions in order to marry her daughter out, and Zeng Pei was really hooked.
Looking closely, the two families have two common characteristics, one is to achieve the purpose of marriage, deliberately exaggerating their own advantages; the other is that they are afraid of their respective "children" suffering losses and want to make decisions for their happiness in the second half of their lives.
Nowadays, both families regret it, and even feel that they have been deceived, because they do not understand a basic truth: whether the shoes fit or not, only the feet know, how to walk smoothly, only let the parties go by themselves, how to support the family is useless.
Arranged marriage, and finally two people who do not match at all, the twisted melon is really not sweet.
The meaningless marriage of these two people also warns others that marriage ultimately needs to be decided by oneself, and not against one's own will.
Zeng Hui and Huang Li have a lot in common, the biggest common point is that they have said it at home, like a marionette, they are casually fiddled with by their families.
Huang Li divorced her ex-husband, because her ex-husband did not do the right thing, and finally found an honest Zeng Hui, but Zeng Hui was honest like a wood, and there was no point in living with such a person.
For Huang Li, two marriages are from one end of the scale to the other.
Zeng Hui divorced his ex-wife because his ex-wife hated his honesty, and he did not want his second wife to dislike his honesty. If you think about handing over your salary to your wife, and the house still has the name of the other party written on it, it is honestly excessive.
Two people who have no opinion, because they are too assertive family members, are absurdly pinched together, no matter how the family decides for them, the final married life, they have to rely on themselves, then they find that life really can't go on.
Marriage, first of all, is based on willingness, without this premise everything is free from talking.
As long as the two parties divorce, no matter how Zeng Hui wants to keep his house, it is difficult to achieve in law, because the transfer of the house is his father's master, and his father has long died.
Huang Li is also Zeng Hui's legal wife no matter what, and she will have to share half of the house no matter what.
Now the most regrettable thing should be Zeng Hui's sister Zeng Pei, who single-handedly created this marriage tragedy, and her brother was "great in merit" from marriage to divorce.
Perhaps she wanted to find a home for her honest brother too much, so she was momentarily dazed under the temptation of the "superior conditions" of the Huang family, and now she was sober, it was too late, it could be said that she had lost her wife and folded the army.
Everyone has everyone's destiny, please take the right to pursue happiness and take the initiative in your own hands.
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