Everyone has different talents, some people are good at management, some people are good at scientific research, some people are good at sales, and some people are good at design. These talents enable us to cope with different jobs, but there are some talents that everyone should learn and have, and we usually call them social talents.
Whether your family is poor or rich, you should give your children these social skills.
1
Exercise your eyesight and improve your intelligence
Eyesight is not the same as vision, it is an intuitive embodiment of the depth of a person's experience.
80% of the information obtained by people comes from the eyes, good eyesight, strong observation will make children occupy a great advantage in future work and learning. Because human eyesight is related to attention, memory, analytical ability, and discriminating ability.
The more children see, they will think more and remember more; Children see deeply, think deeply, and remember deeply. Therefore, the process of training children's eyesight is also the process of improving children's wisdom.
2
Verbal skills
Speaking well is expressed in the language of love, and to truly learn to speak is to learn to grasp a power that reaches the hearts of the people, which can best reflect people's emotional intelligence and cultivation.
You can't talk, how your cultivation is, this can't be pretended, even if you can fool through the pass once or twice, you will one day show the horse's feet.
The generation gap between parents and children is largely caused by unclear expression. Chatting with the child, the parents said that the child talked for a long time, did not understand what he was saying, and could not continue the chat, the end was not to understand what the other party was expressing, and the quarrel occurred after the contradiction intensified.
To cultivate children's language skills, parents need to pay attention to:
Parents should teach their children to express the information as completely as possible so that others can understand the meaning; Introducing yourself and answering questions is the best way to train.
3
Learn to adapt
Only by adjusting yourself at any time can you always keep yourself in the initiative.
Resilience is a test of whether children can calmly cope with unfamiliar environments or things.
So, how should parents cultivate their children's good resilience?
In life, children are set up from small to large dilemmas, such as some camping training and space escape games. When children participate in challenging activities, they will solve the dilemma through thinking and hands-on practice.
When necessary, parents should also be around to guide and prompt correctly. If you see the scene of fire, the father should teach the child some correct countermeasures, guide the child to think while teaching them self-help skills, you will find that the child's own ability to observe imitation and solve problems is gradually enhanced.
4
Compressive resistance
Stress resistance does not mean being subjected to psychological stress.
Many parents believe that the more their children are not learning well, the more they should put pressure on him. Very few parents know that constant stress is a heavy mental burden on their children.
Because, not every child can have a strong ability to resist stress. Stress is often very painful, and excessive stress can cause upset, anxiety, anger, sadness, jealousy, apathy, irritability and other undesirable psychology, and even insomnia, headaches, nausea, depression.
Therefore, it is better to improve children's ability to resist stress than to teach them how to relieve stress.
Tell your child: When you feel anxious, you must release the inner pressure, find a secluded place, and shout to the distance.
Exercise is the best way to decompress, such as tennis, badminton, football, basketball and other ball sports are the most suitable to unload the anger in the heart.
5
Adaptability
Some children are afraid of life and cannot quickly integrate into the new environment.
In short, to cultivate children's adaptability is to cultivate children's comprehensive quality in all aspects. When children have the ability to take care of themselves in life, psychological adjustment, interpersonal skills, communication and cooperation skills, self-control ability, etc., the adaptability is naturally very strong.
6
Self-image management
A child with a good self-image often feels welcome because they are confident and can do things positively and boldly. Children with poor self-image often feel unsatisfactory, inferior, timid, and afraid of doing the wrong thing.
Once self-image is formed, it is not easy to change. Its most intuitive feedback is whether the image is good or bad in the eyes of others.
Pay attention to children's costumes, clothing is the embodiment of a person's mental outlook.
First, let the child learn aesthetics. Parents should pay attention to their children's aesthetic education from an early age, teach their children to match colors, such as decorations, styles, colors, fabrics, and choose clothing according to their own preferences.
Secondly, dress appropriately, should be natural, simple, generous, beautiful as the principle, do not excessively pursue strange clothing. Finally, cultivate the moral feelings of the child. Reading good books and caring for others are all good ways to cultivate children's temperament.
Successful family education can often cultivate children's better qualities, compared to ordinary family education, successful family education to cultivate excellent children have these six major abilities!