Interpretation of emotional topics, taking you into more positive emotional worlds! I am your emotional relief, but you have to know how to let yourself go!
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We are ordinary people with seven passions and six desires. But in order for our lives to be relatively smoother and smoother, we must present our expectations for each desire in the form of positive efforts.
Otherwise, we will be doomed!
Material money, the reason why people call it an external object, is because many people are crazy about it and have embarked on the road of no return.
Looking at the current real life, the negative impact of material money on people is simply increasing day by day.
When faced with feelings, we often say that true feelings are priceless. Therefore, no one wants to muddy their own love with substance.
For women, it is easy to put out the fire with moths for a relationship, regardless of feelings and money. Even, some women marry poor men in order to love.
When many women choose men in the next marriage, most of them see the "potential stocks" in love or feel the irreplaceable "tenderness" of men for others, so they do not feel wronged when they marry.
However, in real life, we have to admit the importance of "door to door".
The right door refers not only to the family status and material foundation, but also to the inner and nurturing of people educated from different families. And a person's cultivation and inner nature determine whether he knows how to be grateful and self-motivated.
The sourness and lack of gratitude of the phoenix man abound in the present. The potential stock is not false, but the inner lack is doomed to make it difficult for anyone to marry him.
So, reality tells women, no matter what, you are advised not to marry someone who is relatively poor in the material and spiritual world! The reason is simple:
It does not matter whether people are materially poor, what is important is spiritual poverty. People who are mentally poor are prone to harshness, extremes, negativity, extremism, and ego.
Because I am poor and have no money, I think I am being targeted everywhere!
Because I am poor, the inferiority revealed in my bones needs to be cared for all the time.
Because they are poor, they will "calculate" everywhere, so that people can't breathe at all times.
Once you enter into marriage with someone who does not understand gratitude, your efforts are deserved, and your slight psychological imbalance is waiting for you with the phrase "you are willing to paste upside down"!
Just think, how can a man with double superposition of material poverty and spiritual poverty correctly recognize himself and your relationship?
When the door is right, it must meet the two conditions of spiritual reciprocity and material basis equality. Otherwise, even if you are peaceful at this time, you will be miserable because of the trivialities of the future.
However, at first glance, women are often willing to use their eyes to see whether a man is worth paying for themselves, but they do not know how much real "merit" he has.
There is no material, but a man who is rich in the spiritual world, even if he has a low standard of living after a lifetime of hard work, the woman is also married! Because, his spiritual world is rich, so that he has three views of righteousness, cultivation, and gratitude.
However, without material and spiritual poverty, this person really needs to be kept away in time to stop losses!
And if a man is "short of money" for a long time and the spiritual world is poor, some habits cannot be hidden. If you encounter it, stay away in time:
First: always believe that others can make money, is "luck"!
Some men really just talk about the Tao, and their bones are "empty".
He could not put into practice any of the truths he said. To escape the existence of a "thinker" and to ignore the efforts of others.
Moreover, he often said, "If I were you, he would do what I would do, and what kind of gains would I get..."
In this fiercely competitive moment, there is no shortage of people in society, but there is a lack of people who "really work hard to get a better life for themselves".
When you think, someone else is doing it. When you don't do it, someone is doing it. When you do it, there are still people who want to surpass you and try to do it desperately.
There is never any luck in the world that does not give.
Looking down on others in the eyes, unable to recognize themselves in the heart, and missing opportunities in the mind.
Such a person, occasionally doing something, succeeds to take credit for themselves, and the responsibility for failure is all others.
When it comes to the representatives of material and spiritual poverty, this is none other than that.
Some people say, then why do women fall in love with such a terrible person? Don't forget, he has a mouth that speaks! That's all he has.
If a woman chooses such a man, she will be tormented by complaints and accusations for the rest of her life.
Second: pay extra attention to your own efforts!
Whether it is in interpersonal relationships or in the feelings of men and women, men who coexist with material poverty and spiritual poverty will definitely pay special attention to their own every penny.
To give a little time and energy to others is to be forever grateful to others. Spending a little money on women, making rare initiatives, always mentioning and calculating.
Especially in the feelings, what can make women act and pay more, they will never have any initiative, for fear of "suffering losses".
Moreover, after a woman pays more to herself, he is not only not grateful, but also complacently thinks that he is very good, so he will be nervous and concerned by women at all times.
The more such a man, the easier it is to follow the changeable rhythm of love and step out of the slag to a certain realm.
Long-distance relationships, want girls to run back and forth. When it comes to the money that should be spent and can bear it, it is necessary to morally kidnap women with "feelings are not commercial transactions".
Either ask the woman to pay AA, or wait for the woman to "paste upside down" and look like she is still on top.
Money is calculated, and practical actions require women to be sensible at all times... To be with such a man is to find a giant baby.
If you choose, you will regret it.
A truly wealthy man does not necessarily have much money, but his inner pattern must be large enough, his three views are positive enough, and he has views and remarks of true value in the face of everything.
A truly wealthy man, when faced with life, he will not be willing to stop. For the success of others, he either blesses from the heart, or regards successful others as his own life benchmark and continues to work hard.
Poor men don't necessarily really have no money, but all his pies are poor to negative numbers.
When a woman chooses a mate, she must choose a person who is truly "right at the door". Don't commit yourself to marrying for love!
You know, you choose to help each other for the rest of your life, not you go to poverty alleviation! Material poverty and spiritual poverty merge into one person, you can't help it!
Because, in his opinion, they are "taken for granted"!
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