Interpretation of emotional topics, taking you into more positive emotional worlds! I am your emotional relief, but you have to know how to let yourself go!
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In the interaction between men and women, immaterial women are usually morally kidnapped by poor men:
You say you are not material, so don't try to get all kinds of security and surprises from me in exchange for money. Don't tell me in such a tone that a sense of form can enhance our feelings!
For such men, they will face women and say: Since you flaunt no substance, then you love me, you love me, as long as you show dissatisfaction because of money, your love is not pure!
Yeah, in real life, how many women are torn apart by such poor men? I am afraid that only those who have experienced it know the helplessness of it the most!
For marriage and love choices, women must stay away from "long-term" men who lack money, in order to maximize the timely stop loss! This is a woman's "essential" self-protection ability!
Is love related to money?
Yes, and it has a lot to do with it! But such a statement definitely does not mean that anyone must be because of the worship of gold, and must choose a rich person to enter the marriage! It is because men who have been poor for a long time to a certain extent also lack the spiritual world!
Since ancient times, whether we choose friends or women choose mates, we all talk about a "poor people, not poor"!
In the present moment of reality, people who are materially rich are not necessarily spiritually rich. But a person who is materially scarce and unwilling to transform himself must be poor in his spiritual world!
If you don't succeed, you don't meet your own talents, you encounter problems, and others do too much...
A person who lacks a spiritual world and is coupled with material poverty is 80% a man who uses conceit to disguise his inferiority, selfishness and toxicity! In marriage, if you meet such a man, it is simply a "disaster"!
Poverty, so that his real life and spiritual world, have been carefully nurtured by him to produce too many negative hazes. Therefore, his heart is almost not allowed to shine in the sun, and he will hardly reflect on himself deeply, face himself, and face all the right and wrong black and white!
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Why do some women, who are not materialistic, end up shooting and scattering because of money and men? The reason is simple:
1: Not material, does not value family lineage, income and savings, but does not mean that the expenditure within the economic range is also dime;
2: Not material, it will not be like other women, in the men to get a variety of high consumption of the satisfaction, but in the economic range of consumption, men should spend time do not cut the door too much!
In the interaction between men and women, a man who does not pull a dime will be called an "empty glove white wolf" by the woman.
But for "poor" men, they will be very "clever" with "empty gloves white wolf suitable for business dealings, feelings are not transactions" in return!
So, you see, poor men who love you, is really worth the choice?
Poor, here is not a single derogatory word, is an adjective with multi-dimensional meanings! It is a person who is so barren that he can only use all his darkness to fight against the sun, and he does not know the sadness of himself!
Between men and women, getting along and interacting will definitely involve material money! Women who don't care about your money don't mean they don't care about your deliberate door slamming and putting money above women!
Why warn women to choose away from men who have been short of money for a long time in marriage and love, and stop losses in time? In fact, the reason is simple:
Men who have been short of money for a long time often complain, have a negative will, and are narrow-minded!
Men who have been short of money for a long time will always complain that all their talents have nowhere to release, and they always feel that fate is unfair! Even, they will have too much prejudice against the saying "persistence will be successful"! Because, their dictionary of life is filled with the negative energy of "some things are not successful in hard work".
In fact, he does not understand that life is a reality of three ups and three downs! Perseverance is to create opportunities for success! If you don't work hard, you have no chance of success!
No one's life is smooth! Just in the concept of men who have been short of money for a long time, they think that they have not met good connections and have not encountered good opportunities!
Long-term lack of money and frequent complaints will feel that everything around him is against him, and everyone is against him. The experience guidance of parents, the positive persuasion of friends, and the patience and reassurance of the other half will think, "I understand the truth, you are so annoyed..."
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Complaining that your parents don't understand you or interfere too much with yourself, complaining that your friends are not righteous enough, complaining about why your other half makes you very dry like others...
Dissatisfied with the status quo, not doing deep self-examination, unwilling to change, only complaining about their entire world... After a long time of contact with such a man, you will either become a madman, or you will become a patient who is always suppressed by his negative energy...
As for the beauty of the world, when you feel that you are united with him, you are doomed not to take too much care of you!
Complaining for a long time, negative for a long time, narrow thinking is inevitable!
Many times, we have to admit that for such men, they are really pitiful and sad, but they do not deserve sympathy!
The life of an adult should have taken a step in the direction of life that he wanted, rather than using material poverty and spiritual poverty to imprison himself at the bottom of the dark valley and trample on himself!
When a woman chooses a mate, blindly making a choice for such a man means that you must always exist in your marital relationship as a "poverty alleviation" person.
Materially, you can't ask for too much, but also do his material help, otherwise you are not "your own person"; spiritually, you must always take into account his self-esteem, satisfy his vanity, and care for his emotions, otherwise you are the "unqualified" other half.
Yes, the poorer the man, the easier it is to be on top, and the look of dying to face the guilt will make women nightmares continuously!
Once there is an argument, it is usually necessary for the woman to be soft and pandering! Otherwise, it will be a cold war or rupture of the relationship! Once a woman is a person who is not mentally independent, she just falls into the arms of such a man!
Therefore, life is not easy, choose a mate needs to be cautious, do not consume the best of yourself in a "poor" man!
Men's material poverty is not terrible, it is terrible because of the long-term lack of money, so that his psychology has become everywhere there is no sunlight, and thus affect the women who are emotional about him at first sight!
Good feelings, of course, are to make both beautiful at the same time, but the premise is that both parties are willing to stand under the sun and work together to move in a good direction! Relying on the efforts of one person, it is impossible to complete the redemption of two people!
For the rest of your life, I hope you don't fall in love with a poor man with strong negative energy, and don't be affected by such a man for the rest of your life! If you accidentally encounter it, stop the loss in time!
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