Text: Guardian of emotions
Use the simplest words to write about the warmth and cold of the world and heal the lonely heart.
Getting along with both sexes, being too infatuated, is not a good thing, and you may not have someone who is really suitable for you and pampers you.
Because of blindly paying and managing this relationship with heart, they will ignore each other's shortcomings, and pay little attention to how much the other party has paid and whether they really pay attention.
Love is easy to make people irrational, thinking that doing more things, two people are inseparable.
Once there is a problem with ideas and practices, the road may go astray, which is completely different from what you expect in your heart, and you have never thought about it.
Moreover, this cannot be changed, only regret, hate yourself.
Before stepping into the relationship, we must think about this ending, and we must also understand that love is a matter of two people, and it is impossible to rely on the efforts of one person alone.
True love should be like this: a person is doing things, or giving care to the other party, the other party will respond in time, rather than loving to ignore.
Who is better for whom is not taken for granted, and people who only know how to enjoy it are often selfish and do not know how to love.
When you get along with a man, you can clearly feel that he doesn't care about your feelings, he only cares about what he has achieved, he has not considered your future, then you have to be completely dead.
A man who doesn't take the initiative to take care of you or respond to you when you pamper him is clearly not putting in love and not treating you like a baby.
No matter what step you and the man have developed, you must be clear that the man who plays these "tricks" on you is playing with you and does not feel that you are important at all.
Cry poor, always care about you borrowing money
People who put "I've been a little tight on my hands lately" must be reluctant to you, and it hurts to spend a penny on you.
To put it bluntly, he is not without money, not really unable to open the pot, but thinks that you are not worthy, does not want to spend money on you, and deliberately cries to you poor.
How much they don't love you, how much they don't care about you.
That is to say, not only will he not spend money on you, but he will also calculate your money and try his best to spend your money.
You have to be clear that no matter what kind of family background a person has, whether there is a stable job, as long as they love you deeply, they will not spend you a penny.
Love is a kind of responsibility, he can't hurt you, can't make you nothing.
Seeing clearly whether to love or not to love, you have the ability to judge, no longer give hard-earned money to men who do not love yourself, and no longer invest a lot of feelings and time.
No action, just love you with your mouth
After listening to the age of love, don't believe sweet words so much.
When a man makes a promise to you, you have to observe his every move, whether he remembers what he said to you, and whether he is trying to achieve it.
When a man compliments you, what you have to determine is whether he is from the heart, whether he has his own little calculations, and why he only cares with words.
Love is not just said with your mouth, you have to really understand, but also willing to separate.
Didn't surprise you, didn't help you solve any problems, made it clear that it wasn't true love, don't cling to it anymore, and don't think that this relationship will have a good ending.
Everyone will say with their mouths that this is no substitute for love, don't live in dreams, don't lie by his side.
Disguise, never show yourself
Not showing the real side in front of you shows that you are not trusted.
Whoever it is, as long as she hides and tucks it so that you can't see it clearly, is the reason, don't think that he is this kind of character, this is the case for everyone.
Hiding is a manifestation of dislike, don't think about yourself anymore.
When you obviously feel that you don't know a person very well, and no matter how hard you try, you don't know the things related to him, then you don't waste time.
A man has an idea in his heart that he may leave you at any time, which will make you feel that it is not an easy thing to walk into his life.
A person who doesn't love you, as if pretending to be asleep, can't wake up.
So, you don't continue to dig your heart and lungs, you have to turn around and leave, so that two people don't disturb each other, don't affect each other's lives, and really start over.
Emotional Message:
Treating a person single-mindedly can lead to a miserable loss.
Because you fall in love with the wrong person and can't get love, the more you give, the more you lose, and life will become incomparably worse, which you never thought about.
With one person, be reserved and don't give everything.
Be more sensible, see more thoroughly, not be scaled all over the body, and not be left without anything.
See clearly in time, leave decisively, life will gradually get better, rather than because of the breakup is too sad, do a lot of extreme things.
No matter who leaves you, believe that away from the people who don't love you, a person who steps forward can also live a wonderful life and live as you want.
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Author: A senior mentor who accompanies books, writes for fun, freelance writer, and helps countless people get out of emotional difficulties.