Money can be the shell of many things, but it is not the fruit inside. - Ibsen
Will elementary school students compete with each other?
Of course, not to mention elementary school students, kindergarten children will be compared.
The content of the comparison will change from eating to wearing and from toys to stationery as you age.
But there are also some children who are very low-key and do not like to show off and compare, some children are really in love with showing off, and some children tell the truth, which makes people cry and laugh.
Children who love to show off write articles without sloppy eyes, directly to a "don't step on me AJ".
The tone of the whole essay is really quite annoying.
This little friend wore his newly bought AJ shoes to school, and the classmates thought his shoes were good-looking, and they all came to watch, which was originally a natural reaction of friendship between classmates, otherwise who would take care of you.
As a result, in the eyes of this child, his classmates have never seen the world, and he can let them look at it for a while, which is his own compassion.
A classmate accidentally stepped on his shoes, and the child almost scolded his classmates because of a pair of shoes, and said that people could not afford to lose.
Not only that, he also didn't bother to talk to his classmates, saying that his classmates were all countrymen, and he didn't understand them.
Tell me, is this child a fight?
Isn't it just a pair of shoes? A pair of shoes still wear a sense of superiority?
This kind of thinking is not good, the teacher is angry when he sees it, and the parents still take care of it!
This kind of child is not only him, just like the following child, who said that he only wears foreign brand shoes when he wears shoes.
In his essay, he wrote that he only wears shoes of a certain foreign brand, and he can't look at domestic national brands, and he feels that only foreign brand shoes are worthy of him.
His mother was also responsive, bought him a lot of shoes, and wore shoes for a month without heavy samples, and the words were full of showing off.
He said he wanted to grow up fast because his mother had promised him all the shoes he liked when he was eighteen.
Alas, the so-called habitual children are like killing children, and the family conditions are better and better dressed, which is beyond reproach. But this child's concept is a little off the way.
There are more people with good conditions, and it is not necessarily like this!
Guo Jingjing's family is a rich family, the couple has always been very low-key, instilling in the children to respect labor, experience the difficulty of life, but also take the children to plant seedlings, so that children learn to cherish food.
Now everyone's material life has been greatly improved, and many parents try to meet the material requirements of their children and make their children's lives better, which is understandable.
However, parents should also pay attention to guidance, do not let children think that this is the capital that they can be complacent, feel poor and love the rich, but let children establish a correct outlook on life and values, and do not develop a "material-oriented" mentality.
The world in the eyes of children often reflects the attitude of parents. If the child's eyes are above the top, there is a high probability that there is a problem with the parents' education methods.
However, there are also some children who have a clear idea, saying that they should be low-key, and after reading it, it makes people cry and laugh.
Teacher's evaluation: To say poverty so otherworldly is what a genius!
He said in his essay that you should be low-key!
I live on the earth for 4 billion years, bask in the sun for 5 billion years, sit on tens of millions of subways, and have economic contacts with Ma Yun every month. Even the computer I use is tailor-made for me by the world's richest man himself, have I inflated?
Laugh and cry! Child, your teacher is right, you can say poverty so freshly, you are really a talent!
The child wrote this "low-key" in a mocking tone, indicating that the child has his own views on materials and money, and also explains the child's inner breadth and tolerance.
When cultivating their children, many parents pay attention to their children's academic and moral training, and pay less attention to the cultivation of their children's concept of money.
In fact, excessive restrictions on children's spending and excessive satisfaction with children's spending are easy for children to form a wrong view of money.
How to cultivate a child's view of money?
First of all, parents should let children realize that money is not inexhaustible, like the child who only wears brand-name shoes in front of him, in his concept, as long as he wants, his mother will be satisfied, then in case one day, the mother can not meet his requirements, there may be unnecessary tragedy.
Secondly, spending money cannot be aimless, parents should let children understand the meaning of pocket money, how to make the best plan for limited money.
Moreover, in life, parents should not shy away from talking to their children about money, such as loans, social security, vegetable prices, daily necessities prices, and even money losses caused by various reasons, etc., can be discussed with children to let children understand the role of money.
The concept of money should be cultivated from an early age, and only in this way can children grow into adults who can stand alone in both material and spiritual aspects.
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