First, Shi Yuan's initiative to mention divorce is to escape his own incompetence
"Give up your fantasies! The previous Shi Yuan was dead. If I hadn't met you, I might be married to Lily by now. Shi Yuan still said the words that hurt Gu Qingyu the most.
Gu Qingyu's heart was broken after hearing it, and her eyes were red, how could she not expect that the love she carefully cared for was still the day of separation.
Shi Yuan said bitterly, let's not deceive ourselves, we are already people of two worlds, and we can't go back. We should never meet again in this lifetime!
Gu Qingyu was with Shi Yuan when he was at his worst, even if everyone was not optimistic, Gu Qingyu still did not waver.
However, Gu Qingyu lost his job because he lost his job, and everyone in the company thought that she colluded with her husband to sell her company. Gu Qingyu lost the work he had worked hard for 20 years, and he was afraid that he would not be able to gain a foothold in this industry in the future.
But Shi Yuan, instead of comforting his wife, said very sadly, I am a bad person in front of you now. We are already people of two worlds.
Wherever there is a husband who does this, when his wife needs comfort the most and is most helpless, he actually mentions divorce. He finally proposed the two words of divorce, and he wanted to escape his own incompetence, and only by leaving him could he not face his own incompetence.
Second, Lily is pregnant, and Shi Yuan's contempt for Lily
The plot of the TV series is still somewhat changed, and in the original book, Lily is pregnant, and she goes to Shi Yuan and tells him: "I am pregnant." In fact, Lily had planned that if Shi Yuan said no, she would ask him for money for miscarriage, and of course, mental damage fees, no more than 100,000 yuan would be enough. But seeing him there, Lily still smiled and said, "Lie to you, look at what scares you." ”
Lily loved him, but she didn't want to make it clear to him, because she knew that even if she said it, Shi Yuan wouldn't marry her.
Subsequently, Shi Yuan made it clear to Gu Qingyu that I knew that Lily had found you.
Then, he broke the jar and broke it, shaking out all his unbearable past, each of which strongly stimulated Gu Qingyu, and at that moment she hated him a little, it was he who said that she was in such an embarrassing situation.
Subsequently, Shi Yuan proposed, or divorce. The words are crisp and crisp.
In fact, a few days before Gu Qingyu and Shi Yuan got married, Lily looked for her. She and Gu Qingyu said, "I really love him. ”
At that time, Gu Qingyu replied, so what. She was still angry that the most bloody plot actually happened to herself.
Later, Lily found Gu Qingyu, and that day Gu Qingyu asked "what you want, say it directly", and the woman actually said that the child in her belly wanted to have a Shanghai hukou. This is very demanding. In fact, it is also a showdown. Shi Yuan's flesh and bones. Gu Qingyu only didn't understand, "Looking for a Shanghai man, don't you have a hukou?" "There was a widower in her company's security room, in his fifties, childless and childless.
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Gu Qingyu originally wanted to stimulate this woman, but he did not expect to promote a marriage.
Lily is realistic, she knows what she wants and has a clear goal. Lian Gu Qingyu sighed: "The same as women, in fact, I am better than them." Their thinking is much fresher. ”
LiLy knew very well that Shi Yuan would not marry herself, so it was better to find resources to get a Shanghai hukou for her children.
In fact, Shi Yuan did not look at Lily in his heart. At that time, Shi Yuan's mother felt that Gu Qingyu's door might not be worthy of us. Shi Yuan said, if I hadn't met Gu Qingyu, I wouldn't have even married Lily.
When he said this, Shi Yuan's heart still felt that he was superior. Their family has never come out of the concept of the door, if it were not for the failure of stock speculation, it would not be bad.
All along, Shi Yuan's bones were pure and high, and he was not willing to be mediocre. Therefore, the appearance of Gu Qingyu once again gave him hope.
Third, does Shi Yuan love Gu Qingyu in the end?
If man places himself in a position that cannot be lowered, he will no longer be afraid. Anything goes.
In fact, Shi Yuan's fate has gone all the way down from the failure of the college entrance examination, but he has not given up, it seems that he has been making money and repaying debts, and the cycle has been repeated.
His pressure stemmed from his mother, but also from himself, and his bones also continued his mother's self-esteem and purity. But with high debts coupled with his family's predicament, he began to wrestle with fate, struggling, seizing every opportunity to turn himself around, but he could not break free of the shackles of inferiority.
Meeting Gu Qingyu again brings a light to his gray life, allows him to regain the sense of superiority of his youth, and begins to fantasize about abandoning everything and going to the position to be himself again.
But in real life, it is always tearing, and gu Qingyu's superiority and self-confidence make him very sensitive.
He was a little arrogant in his bones, if he had stayed in the stock market at that time, his life would not be worse than Gu Qingyu's family.
Therefore, the more Gu Qingyu pays unreservedly, the more inferior he is, and the more he loves himself than Qingyu's love for him, because he can't let go of the unspeakable self-esteem that is integrated into the bone marrow after all.
Shi Yuan's heart was fragile and sensitive, and the more Gu Qingyu helped him without reservation, the more he felt ashamed of himself.
Gu Qingyu was anxious to put Shi Yuan and himself in an equal position. However, she forgot that the source of inferiority could not accept this "help".
Gu Qingyu did not see Shi Yuan's fragile heart, and Shi Yuan did not look after Gu Qingyu's full efforts for love.
Two people love each other with all their enthusiasm, but they never really love from each other's point of view.
Shi Yuan could not accept Gu Qingyu's full of love, and her love became a burden to him and made him want to escape.
In fact, Shi Yuan never really loved Gu Qingyu, he just played the white moonlight in Gu Qingyu's heart, and finally he was tired of acting! Escaped. He is the only one who loves him from beginning to end.