In daily life, many men say that they can't find an object, and there is no woman who is happy with themselves, and they don't know whether it is because they are too ordinary or because they have no money, so they can't attract women's attention.
Is this really the root cause?
In fact, in the world of emotions, no matter how extroverted a woman is, no matter how much she pleases this man, her external performance will be very subtle.
Women don't do much to express their love and don't say as frankly as men do that I like you.
Most women rarely take the initiative to pursue men. They tend to be tentative on the edge of love, using all kinds of ambiguous hints to express their love for men.
Some men are very retarded and don't grasp what women mean. Cause women to say these cues without getting the desired response and the woman will back down.
What women fear most is waiting. She gives you time to think, and if you don't know what that means, she turns away. She thinks you don't like her, so she'll give up on this endless crush.
So if you look closely at a woman's words and deeds, you can find clues, and you can know if a woman is interested in you.
The reason why many men are single is that they don't observe carefully enough and don't know the woman's true intentions.
In the end, he missed the beautiful marriage in vain and blamed himself for having too little money.
In fact, the more a woman pleases you, she will use these 3 "subtexts" to hint at you. Let's take a look.
01 Curious about your emotional history, if you are single want to introduce you to someone
A woman is interested in "gossip", she delights you, will be curious about your emotional history, want to know how your previous emotions have developed.
If you haven't been in a relationship, or you're single now, she'll ask what kind of woman you're happy with and whether you want to introduce someone to.
There is no need to doubt when hearing such a topic. She's actually interested in you.
Women get the type of your heart out of your mouth, and women will constantly try to get closer to your ideal type.
The average woman won't recommend herself at this time. Most of them are very cautious when it comes to falling in love. Hopefully men are interested in themselves too.
Because in the face of love, women always want men to take the initiative to pursue and confess. If a man can't understand her current mood and can't take advantage of the opportunity, he will miss the woman who loves you.
02 Ask you what's happened recently and care about your life
Women can't see you, and when they don't contact you for a long time, they will take the initiative to ask where you are and what has happened in the past few days. At this point you have to know that you are already in her heart.
Otherwise, why did she pay so much attention to your movements?
As long as a woman is happy with a person, she will begin to care about the other party's movements. Seeing that you are open to the direction and honest with each other, you will also be at ease. If the person who is happy with the heart suddenly disappears, the woman will be anxious.
Women will only actively care about each other when they are happy with men, want to know everything about him, his movements, and will immediately lend a helping hand when a man needs help.
And women always want to know what is going on in your heart, so she takes the initiative to talk to you, does everything actively, and hopes to take the initiative to be close to your heart.
She pays silently to get close to you, trying to find out if you have her in your heart. So she will say something tentative in order to hint at you.
If a woman gives you such hints often, it means she really loves you. If you can also feel her true feelings, it means that you can pursue her, and the success rate is high.
If you can't understand her mood, the longer she waits, the slower she becomes depressed. If she's disappointed in you, she'll turn around and leave.
If men meet this kind of woman and don't catch it, being single is of course inevitable.
03 Often ask what you are doing
No matter how high and cold a woman is, chatting in front of a pleasant person is always talking about nothing. In addition, it will deliberately create a topic unconsciously.
If a woman isn't interested in a guy, she hates it when people keep asking what they're doing. But once the heart is pleased with a person, it will often ask the man what he is doing.
So if women always can't help but look for you, always ask what you are doing. It's not that she's idle, it's because she's too happy with you.
Ms. Liu is a fierce woman who answered a phone call when she was very busy.
On the other end of the phone was the man she was happy with.
Ms. Liu's anxious state suddenly subsided, and when she called, she actually said: I am not busy, I have time now.
It can be seen that if it is a person who is happy, no matter how busy it is, there is time. Even if there is no talk, women will find a topic.
When you enter the cold period of chatting, women are still trying to divert other topics. Show that she really likes you.
On the contrary, women who are not happy with you always give you cold and perfunctory replies, do not match the preface, or even hang up directly.
Women's faces are inherently thinner than men's, and men should understand each other's hints, and don't wait until the other party is not enthusiastic.
Write at the end
A woman's words are really not so difficult to understand, and if you think about it carefully, you can understand her true feelings.
Women are not as active as men, do not speak very bluntly, and tend to act cautiously with a loving heart. Once the man does not get a response, the woman's heart will be very tired.