This society is sick.
After watching "The World of Man" and watching "Heart Dwelling", I saw the blocked heart. If the true feelings of the human world in "The World of Man" make many people cry and make you love life even more, then the mutual calculation and hook-and-heart fight between people in "Heart Residence" makes you feel that the world is not worth it.
"Heart Residence" wants to show real real life, I believe that people like Feng Xiaoqin can be seen everywhere in life, there is no doubt about this, you can find the answer in the comments on Feng Xiaoqin in the play:
A woman who concealed her unmarried children, in order to get a Shanghai hukou to marry an honest and incompetent man, Feng Xiaoqin gave up her job after marriage and took on the responsibility of taking care of her in-laws' family, and her husband's inability was what she knew at the beginning, but this became the reason for her repeated freaks, wanted to buy a house, she had no money in her hands and wanted to find her eldest sister to borrow and was rejected, and took her sister to her mother-in-law's house to live, all kinds of things, all of which made Feng Xiaoqin's life a chicken feather.
This drama let me see the most selfish side of human nature, Feng Xiaoqin's three views are not exactly the truth, but a large number of people speak for Feng Xiaoqin in the comment area.
Is there anything wrong with Feng Xiaoqin's hard life? If hard work should be understood, then cheating on exams should not be condemned, and people who cut in line should not be scolded, because they are all people who work hard to live, they just want to take shortcuts.
How many people speak for Feng Xiaoqin, indicating that there are many people like Feng Xiaoqin in life, if everyone is Feng Xiaoqin, then where is the sincerity and true feelings in this world? Where did it come from? Everything is based on their own interests as the starting point, do not know how to stand in the perspective of others to think, everyone is Feng Xiaoqin, our life is not as sincere as in "The World", can only be as calculated as "Heart".
Many people wonder what kind of values "Heart Residence" is transmitting? In fact, many times the choreographers and directors who shoot a work do not all want to educate sentient beings, many times, they are also very confused, they may just show a social phenomenon through a work, and then ask some questions to the people.
I think the choreographer of "Heart Residence" is to show the public an unhealthy family, which brings us to think: What is wrong with our society?
For a heroine whose three views are so unhealthy, and the people who are not pleasing to all the staff except Zhan Xiang, many people are defending the heroine: it is all for the sake of living.
Should this be the case in order to live? The saddest reality is that we are all cynical and we are all complicit.
It's ironic, but that's the reality.
Two days ago, I wrote an article about Zhou Bingyi in "The World of Man" and Jiang Defu in "Parental Love", and several people in the comment area praised Jiang Defu for his feelings and righteousness and scolded Zhou Bingyi for being hypocritical and cold:
There are also people who like this below, similar to this comment more than this one, many people like Jiang Defu, hate Zhou Bingyi, and everyone admits that Zhou Bingyi is a clean and honest official, but they all put themselves into the role of relatives, Jiang Defu to relatives to do things, so there is affection and righteousness, Zhou Bingyi is selfless, do not give relatives things, so hypocrisy is cool. In this way, their words are also correct, is that Zhou Bingyi's mistake?
It's our society that's sick. Nietzsche said: When a light comes in and makes the filth and filth appear, then the light has sin.
When egoism became the standard for people to judge right and wrong, Feng Xiaoqin and Jiang Defu were understood, while Zhou Bingyi was ostracized and hated.
Why is Zhou Bingyi ostracized and hated? On the one hand, it is because he has not done good things for his relatives and has not benefited these people who have brought themselves into the role of relatives; on the other hand, there are too few people like Zhou Bingyi in society, and suddenly such a person comes out, people feel unreal, he makes many people ashamed of themselves: How can there be such an upright person? Impossible, too false, if I admit that there is such a person, wouldn't I admit that I am inferior to myself?
As a result, Zhou Bingyi was all kinds of dislikes and all kinds of doubts, because he was the light that made the dirty and dirty appear.
Feng Xiaoqin's three views are not exactly the facts, this is nothing to justify and wash white, there are many such people in society, they have their laws of survival, but you can't want both and want, since you choose to be such a person, you have to bear the criticism that comes from this, you can't get cheap and sell well, but also have to shout straightly: I'm not wrong, why do you say me?
If she is not wrong, her three views are no problem, then you try you to be Gu Lei, marry a woman who hides the fact that she has children out of wedlock as a wife, you are her big sister, let her borrow money from you every day...
The family shown in "Heart Dwelling" is the opposite of "Human World", the latter is like sugar-sweetened coffee, bitter and sweet, while the former is like eating a fly in rice, making people sick and regretful. Everyone in "Heart Residence" has their own thoughts, and the family can't see honesty with each other, full of careful thinking of mutual suspicion and calculation, which makes me tired and decisively abandons the drama.
Of course, there must be someone who likes this drama, Haiqing's acting skills are really good, Tong Yao is obviously hanging, to tell the truth, Tong Yao has been dissuaded by half, plus such a congested plot, life pressure is already big, I am very tired.